how orgasm without moaning?

[mollynaturist]

I can rub 2 legs together and it makes feelings happen when i'm thinking of my crush but it makes moaning even if my mouth is closed. How can i stop moaning happening?

 

[ecclectic]

bite your lower lip.

 

[mollynaturist]

bite your lower lip.

I'll try at work later

 

[firesflair]

I don't know. all I every really did was focus on not making any sound at all, so now I'm like silent afaik. I did that from the time I started masturbating to present day, 'cause I really don't want my family knowing about it.

 

[satindesire]

I'll try at work later

How about not masturbating at work?

I bet you'll probably get more work done. I'm sure your boss would appreciate that.

 

[Kikori]

I could ask you how to orgasm while moaning. I can't get vocal for crap... Not without feeling weird, anyway.

Breathing heavily and trying for a panting sound is the best I can offer to start for this.

 

[Noira]

Hold your breath.

 

[Experiencedguy]

Practice makes perfect. Although it took me many years to learn how not too. It is just too fucking enjoyable not to make noise - unless you are in a situation where you don't what anyone else to know what is going on.

 

[xhardchick]

Oh well, that's kinda tough. If you're at work there's little to be done. Try to put some music if you have your own private room. Otherwise, you should try it at the toilets.. if at home, I'd suggest you a ballgag or something to cover your mouth with (a tape could work too ) I hope that helped!

I can rub 2 legs together and it makes feelings happen when i'm thinking of my crush but it makes moaning even if my mouth is closed. How can i stop moaning happening?

 

[mollynaturist]

Hold your breath.

For hicccups lol!

Practice makes perfect. Although it took me many years to learn how not too. It is just too fucking enjoyable not to make noise - unless you are in a situation where you don't what anyone else to know what is going on.

I never even told anyone i do it so i always want it private and i live with people so its hard

How about not masturbating at work?

I bet you'll probably get more work done. I'm sure your boss would appreciate that.

We flirt but he has a girlfriend but he makes my skirt turned on

I don't know. all I every really did was focus on not making any sound at all, so now I'm like silent afaik. I did that from the time I started masturbating to present day, 'cause I really don't want my family knowing about it.

I can only make the "mmmmmmmmmmmm" sound, that's the quietest but it is not quiet.

 

[RedheadKevin]

Ball gag?

 

[mollynaturist]

Ball gag?

I put my pillow in mouth at night but it makes a sound still like "urrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr"

 

[horsie_gurl]

How about not masturbating at work?

I bet you'll probably get more work done. I'm sure your boss would appreciate that.

exactly what i thought

 

[satindesire]

We flirt but he has a girlfriend but he makes my skirt turned on

So wear pants.

Honestly, and this is the damndest truth...if you cannot get by 8 hours without masturbating, you need to go and see a therapist. That is one telling symptom of sexual addiction and you need help.

Then again, you might be just trying to get attention by making up stuff, but who does that?

exactly what i thought

I'm always wondering where people are working that they have the TIME to sit around in the bathroom and diddle themselves. I want a job where I'm not running around like an insane person all day long. I'd really love a kind of job where I actually can have more than the fastest push-so-hard-you-fart pee and a quick gulp of water before you're off running again.

 

[fuckmeat]

Hold your breath.

This.

Also, opening your mouth wider might actually be better than keeping it clamped shut. Exhaling silently can then take the place of when you would normally moan through your teeth, if that makes sense.

Imagine that someone is going to inflict some not-nice pain if you make a sound... well it works for me when I need to be quiet.

Put a rolled up sock or something similar in your mouth. Not especially practical for work but then you shouldn't really be masturbating in the workplace.

Also, if you have a job that's physically demanding rather than desk based, buy and use some ben wah balls. Running around with those inside your pussy will cause you spontaneous hands-free orgasms, take it from a barmaid who knows these things. Then you'll have to learn to keep a straight face in public when your pussy's in meltdown. Tons of fun and WAY better/healthier than anti-depressants, alcohol or any other biochemical prop when you're feeling blue.

If you haven't discovered your pelvic floor muscles and how to keep them in shape yet, do so. Being able to clench and relax these muscles successfully at will gives you a lot more control over your orgasms, which is handy if you're going to masturbate in public venues like the workplace.

 

[infinity706]

So wear pants.

Honestly, and this is the damndest truth...if you cannot get by 8 hours without masturbating, you need to go and see a therapist. That is one telling symptom of sexual addiction and you need help.

Then again, you might be just trying to get attention by making up stuff, but who does that?



I'm always wondering where people are working that they have the TIME to sit around in the bathroom and diddle themselves. I want a job where I'm not running around like an insane person all day long. I'd really love a kind of job where I actually can have more than the fastest push-so-hard-you-fart pee and a quick gulp of water before you're off running again.

If you work 3rd shift at a 24 hour business, chances are, you have time to masturbate. It also worked quite well at one job I had. The boss and I got along far, far too well. It's probably better to go off to seperate bathrooms and masturbate than be fucking the boss. Of course, we're still good friends and fuck buddies, now that I no longer work there.

 

[mollynaturist]

If you work 3rd shift at a 24 hour business, chances are, you have time to masturbate. It also worked quite well at one job I had. The boss and I got along far, far too well. It's probably better to go off to seperate bathrooms and masturbate than be fucking the boss. Of course, we're still good friends and fuck buddies, now that I no longer work there.

My work is not busy ever so its easy to surf the net

So wear pants.

Honestly, and this is the damndest truth...if you cannot get by 8 hours without masturbating, you need to go and see a therapist. That is one telling symptom of sexual addiction and you need help.

Then again, you might be just trying to get attention by making up stuff, but who does that?

I don't have pants so impossible.

My friend she said there is no such thing as sexual addiction and that its normal to be excitable. But I think seeing a therapist would be fun because it must be strange to talk about this topic for the first time ever in person! Online its ea-sy.

This.

Also, opening your mouth wider might actually be better than keeping it clamped shut. Exhaling silently can then take the place of when you would normally moan through your teeth, if that makes sense.

Imagine that someone is going to inflict some not-nice pain if you make a sound... well it works for me when I need to be quiet.

Put a rolled up sock or something similar in your mouth. Not especially practical for work but then you shouldn't really be masturbating in the workplace.

Also, if you have a job that's physically demanding rather than desk based, buy and use some ben wah balls. Running around with those inside your pussy will cause you spontaneous hands-free orgasms, take it from a barmaid who knows these things. Then you'll have to learn to keep a straight face in public when your pussy's in meltdown. Tons of fun and WAY better/healthier than anti-depressants, alcohol or any other biochemical prop when you're feeling blue.

If you haven't discovered your pelvic floor muscles and how to keep them in shape yet, do so. Being able to clench and relax these muscles successfully at will gives you a lot more control over your orgasms, which is handy if you're going to masturbate in public venues like the workplace.

Ben Wah? Where do i buy that and can it be delivered with no hints on the box of it being for pleasure?

 

[infinity706]

Any sex toy you buy on the internet will come in a plain, brown box with some made up company name on the address label.

 

[mollynaturist]

Any sex toy you buy on the internet will come in a plain, brown box with some made up company name on the address label.

Wow thats so useful i love to imagine receiving one

 

[satindesire]

I don't have pants so impossible.

My friend she said there is no such thing as sexual addiction and that its normal to be excitable. But I think seeing a therapist would be fun because it must be strange to talk about this topic for the first time ever in person! Online its ea-sy.

I'm sorry dear but your friend is an idiot.

Sexual addiction is a very real thing that destroys people's lives. Her telling you that sexual addiction doesn't exist is like her telling you that there is no such thing as AIDS.

I think you either need to educate her or get new friends.

http://www.medicinenet.com/sexual_addiction/article.htm

 

[infinity706]

Well, you still went out on a limb with the sex addiction thing. "Sex addiction" (or sex compulsion as I would call it) is about the compulsiveness, not any particular sex act. It is perfectly normal to get turned on at work, or anywhere else, and there's a lot worse things someone could be doing than masturbating privately. Now, if the OP were compulsively masturbating all the time to the point it was actually interfering with getting her work done, then, you might have a point. From the evidence we have, though, it's probably a better idea than half the shit I've seen people do during slow periods.

 

[Aurantica]

Uh, try not moaning.
Honestly, it's like asking how to breathe through your nose. With enough control, you can do it...

 

[satindesire]

Well, you still went out on a limb with the sex addiction thing. "Sex addiction" (or sex compulsion as I would call it) is about the compulsiveness, not any particular sex act. It is perfectly normal to get turned on at work, or anywhere else, and there's a lot worse things someone could be doing than masturbating privately. Now, if the OP were compulsively masturbating all the time to the point it was actually interfering with getting her work done, then, you might have a point. From the evidence we have, though, it's probably a better idea than half the shit I've seen people do during slow periods.

You know, fin, I want to be completely frank with you here, and tell you that as a friend, I find your compulsion to constantly argue with me tiresome and tedious and since we're being honest here, I'm thisclose to putting you on ignore because of it. I don't know why you do it, nor at this point do I care, but if you continue to be a thorn in my side for absolutely no good reason I will.

I believe I covered the "If you can't stop, you've got a problem." already. Thank you. My post above clearly stated that.

 

[bailadora]

I hate to burst your bubble, Satin - 'cause I know you think you're being singled out for special attention, but that Fin - he'll argue with a tree stump!

 

[infinity706]

Hey now, I don't argue with everyone. I only argue with people that make potentially misleading and/or biased statements. If someone avoids any and all contraversial issues, I'll probably never argue with them.