PinkOrchid
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gooddogcarl
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Unfortunately, my wife and I only have sex about every two weeks (she says sex is just not that important to her.) 
This leaves me to materbate about 6 times a week.
However, I am going to try Mr. G's technique, and maybe she will decide to move sex up on her priority list.
(As an aside, I always go down on her, making her quite wet, until she comes, and then finish her off with a nice long fuck.)
This leaves me to materbate about 6 times a week.However, I am going to try Mr. G's technique, and maybe she will decide to move sex up on her priority list.
(As an aside, I always go down on her, making her quite wet, until she comes, and then finish her off with a nice long fuck.)
gooddogcarl
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Masturbate. Sorry
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gooddogcarl
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Thank you, I hope it works also.
As a newbie here, can I ask if the pic in your profile is a pic of you?
As a newbie here, can I ask if the pic in your profile is a pic of you?
Lately there has not been enough sex, my man is stressed at work and can't get his head around sex right now. I cyber frequently.
masturbation when I can't get sex otherwise.
I like to have sex at least once a day, three times a day would be optimal, if there is time.
masturbation when I can't get sex otherwise.
I like to have sex at least once a day, three times a day would be optimal, if there is time.
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hockeymandan
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I've been single for a few months now, but when my last girlfriend and I lived together we had sex about 4 or 5 times a week. During certain spans we'd have it every day, but I'd say on average it was about 4 or 5 times. But it hasn't been like that with every girlfriend, and i'm sure that pace wouldn't have lasted forever (although I'd like it to ). Therefore, I'm left to get myself off, which I do at the very least once a day, but I'd say 75% of the time twice a day. And then there are the really horny days of 4 or 5 in a day, but those aren't TOO often I guess. And is this enough for me? Well, I'd have to give that a definite no. For one thing, I'd like to have somebody to be sleeping with. Now, once I find that person, I'd like to have sex every day. I know, I know, this isn't exactly plausible, but I don't want to be in the kind of relationship where we have sex once a week or once a month or whatever. I want there to always be romance, and lots of foreplay, and lots of love-making, and I think if both people want that and are also aware that you have to WORK a little to make that happen, then it CAN happen.
). Therefore, I'm left to get myself off, which I do at the very least once a day, but I'd say 75% of the time twice a day. And then there are the really horny days of 4 or 5 in a day, but those aren't TOO often I guess. And is this enough for me? Well, I'd have to give that a definite no. For one thing, I'd like to have somebody to be sleeping with. Now, once I find that person, I'd like to have sex every day. I know, I know, this isn't exactly plausible, but I don't want to be in the kind of relationship where we have sex once a week or once a month or whatever. I want there to always be romance, and lots of foreplay, and lots of love-making, and I think if both people want that and are also aware that you have to WORK a little to make that happen, then it CAN happen.AttentionWhore
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Theoretically, I would love to have sex 5 or 6 times a week. In practice, it's more like 2. I rarely masturbate to orgasm, by the time everything gets done I'm ready to collapse.
My man and I have sex at least three nights a week. Usually, though, when we do have sex, we have three or four 'sessions' in a six hour period or so. So...maybe nine times in a usual week?
I very rarely masturbate. If I do, it's usually with my man listening to me over the phone, so does that count as masturbation or sex?
I have it just enough. We are perfectly happy with the amount.
S.
I very rarely masturbate. If I do, it's usually with my man listening to me over the phone, so does that count as masturbation or sex?
I have it just enough. We are perfectly happy with the amount.
S.
Masturbate a couple of times a week, sometimes go weeks without it. Have sex with my hubby about once every 6 weeks or so (he is on the road 8 +/- months out of the year) when/if time permits. Like to have more? Hell yeah. Gonna have more? Realistically...hell no. I have my own business & there's lots to do on the house, so that helps pass the time. No, I am not frigid or could care less about sex...quite the opposite I'm afraid. The more I masturbate, the more I want it with a real partner & since he is hardly home & it is "vanilla" when we do finally have sex, I decided to cut back on the masturbation so as not to do something totally idiotic (cheat). It works for me. Is it the way I planned? No. But he's worth it.
P.S. Sheath...you suck! *sighing...I'm off for some fresh batteries...
P.S. Sheath...you suck!
*sighing...I'm off for some fresh batteries...
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When Sue was with me we did it every day. I would cum at least once sometimes twice and she would cum once via a good tongue lashing and about a dozen times from getting G'd. We'd have marathons where she'd cum a LOT more than that but that's an average. Since losing Sue I cum at least once a day. I go rangey if I didn't.
It was discussed extensively on the TRY THIS thread that the more orgasms a woman has the more she wants. During sexual stimulation the body produces oxytocin which is the chemical that increases sexual arousal. The biggest single factor affecting oxytocin production is the orgasm. The more orgasms a woman has the more oxytocin is produced, the more she is aroused and wants more orgasms. It is a VISCIOUS circle!! Most guys in here who have discovered the GSpot and "subjected " their SO's to the GSpot technique report that their women become addicted and want it all the time so Carl may find the answer here in the discovery of the GSpot on his wife. If you do it right and she starts cuming 20 times a night I can just about guarantee to that your sex/love life is going to improve expotentially.
Good luck
When Sue was with me we did it every day. I would cum at least once sometimes twice and she would cum once via a good tongue lashing and about a dozen times from getting G'd. We'd have marathons where she'd cum a LOT more than that but that's an average. Since losing Sue I cum at least once a day. I go rangey if I didn't.
It was discussed extensively on the TRY THIS thread that the more orgasms a woman has the more she wants. During sexual stimulation the body produces oxytocin which is the chemical that increases sexual arousal. The biggest single factor affecting oxytocin production is the orgasm. The more orgasms a woman has the more oxytocin is produced, the more she is aroused and wants more orgasms. It is a VISCIOUS circle!! Most guys in here who have discovered the GSpot and "subjected " their SO's to the GSpot technique report that their women become addicted and want it all the time so Carl may find the answer here in the discovery of the GSpot on his wife. If you do it right and she starts cuming 20 times a night I can just about guarantee to that your sex/love life is going to improve expotentially.
Good luck
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When I was married - sex 3 times a month, masturbation about once a week.
Since I've lived alone sex life is either a feast or a famine. When I visited my lover we'd do it 2-3 times a day, for 4-5 days in a row(poor guy would be exhausted by the end of it
). We'd have phone/cyber sex about 3 times a week, and I masturbated probably 3 more times as well. We don't have as much contact now (work and school commitments) so masturbation has increased to 4 times a week.......
I have had a couple of other partners in the last couple of months, we meet up occasionally and do it 2-3 times in a session. The last time I had sex was 2 weeks ago
Since I've lived alone sex life is either a feast or a famine. When I visited my lover we'd do it 2-3 times a day, for 4-5 days in a row(poor guy would be exhausted by the end of it
). We'd have phone/cyber sex about 3 times a week, and I masturbated probably 3 more times as well. We don't have as much contact now (work and school commitments) so masturbation has increased to 4 times a week.......I have had a couple of other partners in the last couple of months, we meet up occasionally and do it 2-3 times in a session. The last time I had sex was 2 weeks ago
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ok well firstly,each week is different,so these are average figures
ok i have sex a good 5 times a week,sometimes double that sometimes not at all.
i think i masturbate about 4 times a week too,again some weeks it can be double that or more and other weeks non exsistant.
ok i have sex a good 5 times a week,sometimes double that sometimes not at all.
i think i masturbate about 4 times a week too,again some weeks it can be double that or more and other weeks non exsistant.
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i agree with jen, less masturbation and more sex, please!PinkOrchid said:
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PinkOrchid said:
Well since I'm in a long distance relationship right now, I'm only getting to have sex every few weeks, but when we do get together we do it a good 6 or 7 times that night....When I'm living with someone its usually about 5 nights a week, sometimes only once per night and sometimes 2 or 3 times per night.
As for masturbation? I'm a compulsive masturbator. I do it everyday, often 2 or 3 times.
Would I rather be getting more sex? Hell yes! I wish I had my baby here every night to please me! Thank gods, he'll be moving here in a couple of months!
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Actual sex, probably only about 3 times a month
Maturbate pretty much daily, sometimes more than once (like you PO I occasionally have a day of slothful indulgence and spend the entire afternoon perving )
I would love to have more sex, sadly Mr K is not so interested - he says he is way too tired and stressed from work, I say he is a workaholic and could spend less time and energy there if he chose to, etc etc etc. It's all a bit more complicated than that as well, but hey, we're working on it...sorta...
Maturbate pretty much daily, sometimes more than once (like you PO I occasionally have a day of slothful indulgence and spend the entire afternoon perving
)I would love to have more sex, sadly Mr K is not so interested - he says he is way too tired and stressed from work, I say he is a workaholic and could spend less time and energy there if he chose to, etc etc etc. It's all a bit more complicated than that as well, but hey, we're working on it...sorta...
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Geesh! none of us are getting enough. Not fair I say - not fair! Always once a week, usually twice for sex. Rarely more often than that - boo hoo. Masturbate every day - doesn't really help? Just like Mr. G says - just makes me want to have sex more often......
Long distance as well; we average about 2 fucks a day when we're together and I don't think we've missed a day yet. That's plenty for me at the time, given everything else that we do, but right now (away from him) I want more. Lots more.
I can masturbate all I want, but I have to earn my orgasms, so usually I only do it about twice a week. I have mixed feelings about that...sometimes I get amazingly horny and frustrated and he gives me near-impossible tasks to complete in order to earn my orgasm, and that makes me even MORE horny and frustrated. But then again, I love that he has such control over me. Which gets me more horny and frustrated.
I can masturbate all I want, but I have to earn my orgasms, so usually I only do it about twice a week. I have mixed feelings about that...sometimes I get amazingly horny and frustrated and he gives me near-impossible tasks to complete in order to earn my orgasm, and that makes me even MORE horny and frustrated. But then again, I love that he has such control over me. Which gets me more horny and frustrated.
