How often do you BDSM?

[PlayDoe]

What % of your sexual encounters involve mutual BDSM?

 

[A Desert Rose]

Does anybody know what time it is?

I need some time on this one, doll. But I will get on it.

 

[Ebonyfire]

As I have posted before. BDSM and my sexuality are not intertwined.
So I said less than 40%.
Eb

 

[cymbidia]

100%

As i've posted before, my sexuality resides fully beneath the BDSM umbrella. Even if i was doing some straight plain missionary fucking, it would be an excercise in D/s lovemaking for me because i don't get involved with non-dominant partners.

The enery flow that shouts and whispers and hints this is a power exchange relationship is a part of all my sexually intimate pairings and has been with only one major exception, for all of my life.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Everyone's favorite Wallflower says,

that was easy, 100%, sexually. I am not aggressive, I am not dominate.

I am not able to be aggressive, one-on-one, with someone I am romantically involved with. Simply put, alone in the candlelight, I am extremely shy.

 

[WillowPuss]

100%

I live a 24/7 TPE
(or as close to TPE we can get with kids living at home)

 

[cymbidia]

Clarification,please.

True or false

Mutual BDSM? means sex with someone else that involves both people recognizing and wanting a power exchange encounter.


If the above is true, and aside from the issue of whether or not one feels submissive or dominant, would the sexual encounter(s) count as a mutual BDSM if those involved had not, beforehand, discussed it in terms of BDSM sexuality?

 

[Daddyslilpet]

Another 100% here. 24/7 D/s PE (not sure I can add the T on that yet)

~smiles~
dixi

 

[li'a-wahine]

100%

that would be 100% for me too. I also live a 24/7 too, so that would make allm y sexual encounters BDSM.

lia

 

[~*sunkyssed_kym*~]

100%

But, being in a LDR that isn't enough of the time.
HE does have control of when I am allowed to use my toys to masterbate. HE commands me in what I am to do and when I am allowed to cum. Granted this is a bit diffficult with the distance between us, but HE has "mastered" [forgive the pun] the technique.

 

[Wizard]

100%

I live a 24/7 TPE
(or as close to TPE we can get with kids living at home)

Us also.............................

 

[WriterDom]

I haven't been able to vote in polls for about 2 months now.

 

[zipman]

I haven't been able to vote in polls for about 2 months now.

Man, you must have posted some bad shit to have your polling privelages revoked.

 

[cymbidia]

I haven't been able to vote in polls for about 2 months now.

Why?
Something wrong with your sys?

Man, you must have posted some bad shit to have your polling privelages revoked.

~snickering wildly~
...and you're funny, too.

 

[CarolineOh]

I voted 100%, but with the caveat that what we do may not always seem outwardly to be bdsm, but it all takes place in the context of our D/s relationship.

 

[WriterDom]

The action you have attempted could not be performed as your session appears to be invalid. Click the below link to attempt this action again with a new session.

My session appears to be invalid.

 

[kate8417]

Damn...

Thought this might include solo activity, too (since that's about all that I GET, these days!). At least until my Master moves down here. Can I register a protest? This poll discriminates against those of us who are forced to tie ourselves up!!!

Poor WriterDom... Do you need validation? Here you go: You're good-looking, you're nice, and--gosh darn it--people LIKE you!

Feel better?

Happy Day!

 

[A Desert Rose]

Interesting poll results so far, PlayDoe. Good topic.

 

[pierced_boy]

We Play this way when we can

We would both playD/s more but the constrainst of family life and other responsiblities dictate what we can do.

We also have several styles of play(sex or affection or what ever label is appropriate) and don't confine ourselves to any one. It depends on how we feel and what resources we can put to the play.

H

 

[RisiaSkye]

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My session appears to be invalid.

I've been having this problem on and off also. I don't know what's up...some days it works, other days I get the error message WD mentioned. What's up with that?

I picked a number out of a hat--70%. Is that accurate? Who knows...we are as we are.

 

[NemoAlia]

As far as my current sex life goes, I'll admit BDSM is more fantasy than reality. However, it has been 100% in the past, and perhaps it shall be again. However, that all depends on whether... oh well, it just depends.

 

[PlayDoe]

Answer to Cym

Yes, I purposely added the word "mutual" to the question. I meant it to mean that both parties were involved. And for Rose, I'm glad you approve of this topic .

 

[PlayDoe]

This is pretty interesting!

Check it out! It's almost a 50/50 (never was that good at math) split between 100% and less than 40%. Anyone want to interpret this?

 

[NemoAlia]

From the show "Oklahoma!" --

"With me it's all or nothing!"

 

[joi]

) Another member of the 365/24/7 TPE group....without the benefit of kids )