How much ejaculate?

[ecclectic]

I output about between 7 and 10ml, my wife claims it's considerably more than any of her previous partners.

How much is too much?

 

[Cattypuss]

Depends on so many factors (hydration, length of arousal, "edging", time elapsed since last orgasm...)

That said, and I'm trying not to imagine someone measuring their cum with the accuracy that they know a figure like 7 ml...

... I don't think I've ever seen less than about a teaspoonful (5ml to you) and normally it's more than that, but rarely more than about a tablespoonful (that's 15 ml to you)

 

[thehoaxer]

more

more than a mouth full is a waste

 

[PhilGarlic]

only

at times I only shoot dry dust

 

[sweepthefloor]

It is never too much. It just is what it is.

 

[SpecialKay62]

I don't mean for this to be rude, but why does it matter how much you ejaculate, how much is too much and how it compares to your wife's former lovers? I'm truly curious why this would interest you. Please share.

 

[Joankraig]

I output about between 7 and 10ml, my wife claims it's considerably more than any of her previous partners.

How much is too much?

Never too much!

 

[polyamorous]

I don't mean for this to be rude, but why does it matter how much you ejaculate, how much is too much and how it compares to your wife's former lovers? I'm truly curious why this would interest you. Please share.

I dont know about the former lovers part, but as a man I'm always interested in being able to produce more ejaculate. i guess it has something to do with virility, but I would love to be able to shoot huge loads.

 

[SpecialKay62]

hmmm...

I get that. Thanks for explaining.

 

[CurvAppeal]

There is never too much cum!!! =DD

 

[geordiejen]

with me its all different,depending on how long its been stored lol.when its been saved up for several days it shoots quite far and i get a longer orgasm but usually i cant go that long so its only a couple of days stored.

 

[warl0ck1]

I don't care how much I shoot most of the time. only when she allows me to shoot on her do a care then I wish it was a lot more. my only care is how hard I am.

 

[Dr_O]

Dr. O once had semi-regular sex with a girl who told him her college boyfriend shot his load across the roam every time he came. She said when she moved out of her apartment, there were cum stains all over the wall above her headboard. For what it's worth, she said it didn't add to her arousal or excitement, but it was cool to watch, kinda like fireworks. Dr. O didn't feel inferior with his normal-sized loads, but wondered if college boyfriend's kegel muscles looked like baseballs.

 

[satindesire]

I dont know about the former lovers part, but as a man I'm always interested in being able to produce more ejaculate. i guess it has something to do with virility, but I would love to be able to shoot huge loads.

The volume you produce has nothing to do with virility at all.

 

[twister947]

The volume you produce has nothing to do with virility at all.

Now, you're meddlin'.

 

[SweetErika]

This thread reminds me how thrilled I am that my husband isn't obsessed with cum in the least. The way I figure it, the more time a guy spends worrying about how much and far he shoots, the size of his cock, etc., the less time he has to devote to the things that are actually important in sex and relationships.

 

[Eilan]

This thread reminds me how thrilled I am that my husband isn't obsessed with cum in the least. The way I figure it, the more time a guy spends worrying about how much and far he shoots, the size of his cock, etc., the less time he has to devote to the things that are actually important in sex and relationships.

Quoting because it needs to be repeated.

 

[ecclectic]

This thread reminds me how thrilled I am that my husband isn't obsessed with cum in the least. The way I figure it, the more time a guy spends worrying about how much and far he shoots, the size of his cock, etc., the less time he has to devote to the things that are actually important in sex and relationships.

I never said I care how much it is... She's the one with the issue about it, she says it's too much for her to swallow or to have in her. She says it drips for days.

Anyways, Interesting replies, but not as helpful as I had hoped.

 

[SweetErika]

I never said I care how much it is... She's the one with the issue about it, she says it's too much for her to swallow or to have in her. She says it drips for days.

Anyways, Interesting replies, but not as helpful as I had hoped.

Swallowing-wise, it's probably not the amount as much as it is the taste and consistency. Have you offered her alternatives, if she finds it so offensive?

I can't imagine it really does drip for days unless you're also using a massive amount of lube or something. Most of it should come right out when she pees after sex, and (for me, at least) the rest is usually totally gone within 10 or so hours (like I might have a little residue the next morning, but there's no noticeable increase in fluids the following day). At any rate, if it's bothersome, pantyliners would be an easy solution, as would using condoms.

She sounds like a complaint-oriented lady who may be coming up with excuses to avoid sex, from what you're saying here. If she really enjoyed oral and sex, I'd imagine she'd be focused on finding solutions and compromises, rather than complaining about something you can't control.

 

[bone251]

I have had a lot of tease, denial and edging. Recently went 2 weeks without cumming.

When I did it was dripping out her nose.

Is that a lot?

 

[Dr_O]

This thread reminds me how thrilled I am that my husband isn't obsessed with cum in the least. The way I figure it, the more time a guy spends worrying about how much and far he shoots, the size of his cock, etc., the less time he has to devote to the things that are actually important in sex and relationships.

Like remembering to wash the anal probes before giving them back to the next-door neighbors.

 

[ecclectic]

Swallowing-wise, it's probably not the amount as much as it is the taste and consistency. Have you offered her alternatives, if she finds it so offensive?

I can't imagine it really does drip for days unless you're also using a massive amount of lube or something. Most of it should come right out when she pees after sex, and (for me, at least) the rest is usually totally gone within 10 or so hours (like I might have a little residue the next morning, but there's no noticeable increase in fluids the following day). At any rate, if it's bothersome, pantyliners would be an easy solution, as would using condoms.

She sounds like a complaint-oriented lady who may be coming up with excuses to avoid sex, from what you're saying here. If she really enjoyed oral and sex, I'd imagine she'd be focused on finding solutions and compromises, rather than complaining about something you can't control.

Yes, she does tend to complain, but aside from being tired, she's not really that averse to sex (previous threads re: issues being resolved for the moment.) Just to oral (due to quantity and holding her jaw open causing headaches) and to 'unloading' inside. She doesn't care where else I put it.

 

[NippleMuncher]

Swallowing-wise, it's probably not the amount as much as it is the taste and consistency. Have you offered her alternatives, if she finds it so offensive?

I can't imagine it really does drip for days unless you're also using a massive amount of lube or something. Most of it should come right out when she pees after sex, and (for me, at least) the rest is usually totally gone within 10 or so hours (like I might have a little residue the next morning, but there's no noticeable increase in fluids the following day). At any rate, if it's bothersome, pantyliners would be an easy solution, as would using condoms.

She sounds like a complaint-oriented lady who may be coming up with excuses to avoid sex, from what you're saying here. If she really enjoyed oral and sex, I'd imagine she'd be focused on finding solutions and compromises, rather than complaining about something you can't control.

I would second this as well. It is unlikely that you're producing an overabundance of ejaculate to be any kind of real problem. In my years of having sex, I've only had one woman mention anything about "residual" issues, and that was only about being a little juicy the next morning, in which the panty liner that SweetE suggested cured the problem. At the time of sex, we always use a towel under us to prevent the dreaded "wet spot", as well as when she gets up things tend to be squeezed out a bit on the way to the bathroom to pee and clean up, after which no more leakage issues for the night.

Swallowing has never been a problem with anyone either, as a matter of fact the current GF has offered that at the moment of ejaculation she likes to deep throat (sort of ) so that basically the load goes down without ever entering her mouth to be swallowed.

 

[In Anticipation]

This thread reminds me how thrilled I am that my husband isn't obsessed with cum in the least. The way I figure it, the more time a guy spends worrying about how much and far he shoots, the size of his cock, etc., the less time he has to devote to the things that are actually important in sex and relationships.

Received wisdom states that 5ml is typically ejaculated. I wonder whether that is the equivalent of machine translation from 'about a teaspoonful' to a specific amount, making it seem a bit more scientific. I don't think 7-10ml is anything excessive though, mine varies depending on all sorts of factors, but I have to say that I don't really monitor it. If you us a condom the easiest way to measure it is to weigh it I would think.

However, I think that Erica has it spot on . . .