How many sex partners to date?

[Kenny9990]

OK, How many sex partners have you had so far--and lets give our age so we can gauge just how slutty we've been.

I'm 52 and I've had 22 women....and no men.

 

[The Dipsomaniac]

ok who's the liar who clicked on 100 or more, but didnt have the guts to post?!

i'm 30 and have had 5 lovers... not a lot compared to some of you, and i would of love to have had more... thats how these things go...

apart from a couple of that 5, most of mine have been long term fucks, not one/several nighters...
though not knocking the one nighter... it has its moments and advantages.

DM

 

[T.H. Oughts]

One full time lover the last 16 years, before that about 6 maybe..... hey that was a few years ago to remember now.....

No one night stands in that lot. Only one I would rather not remember.

Forgot to say I'm 38yrs now.

 

[The Dipsomaniac]

One full time lover the last 16 years, before that about 6 maybe..... hey that was a few years ago to remember now.....

No one night stands in that lot. Only one I would rather not remember.

Forgot to say I'm 38yrs now.

the question now is - Would you do a one night stand if you were REALLY attracted to that person, and they were flirting and giving you the right signs?

 

[T.H. Oughts]

the question now is - Would you do a one night stand if you were REALLY attracted to that person, and they were flirting and giving you the right signs?

Ponders....no I wouldn't. I like to be connected with the mind, body and soul...... not just the futter of eye lashes and some skin

P.S. If you av keeps staring at me like that Dipsomaniac I "might" just change my stance

 

[The Dipsomaniac]

Ponders....no I wouldn't. I like to be connected with the mind, body and soul...... not just the futter of eye lashes and some skin

P.S. If you av keeps staring at me like that Dipsomaniac I "might" just change my stance

*stare stare* *stare some more*

LOL!

 

[meop79]

Male, 23 I've had sex with 3 women. was in a 3-some that also included a guy.. but I didn't do anything with him so I didn't count him

And hey I've known people who had had sex with 50 or so and they she was 17... so don't say someone is a lyer just because they put 100+

meop79@yahoo.com

 

[The Dipsomaniac]

it comes across rather strongly when you cant hear me say it, but there is an element of tongue-in-cheek there! kinda like 100 or more!!! what the?

Not saying it cant and doesnt happen... i've just not been that lucky or whatever...

 

[meop79]

it comes across rather strongly when you cant hear me say it, but there is an element of tongue-in-cheek there! kinda like 100 or more!!! what the?

Not saying it cant and doesnt happen... i've just not been that lucky or whatever...

Shrug well it wasn't luck I might post the story somewhere on here but sufice it to say it was a week of hell whether I had to mess with her busband or not.

meop79@yahoo.com

 

[LipstickKitten]

Well, I'm 48 and I ticked off around 20 so I checked that category. I'm thinking I might have missed somebody (some were less than memorable).

But I got off to a slow start. Only one before I got married. Then I got married at 26 and was monogamous. After I divorced him, I was 38 with only 2 under my belt. So in the last 10 years, I've had around 18+.

Guess that puts me in the slut category.

 

[LipstickKitten]

Oh, I should have included that I've been monogamous for the last 9 years, so that 18 would have been over an 18 to 20-month period.

 

[MidnightAngel]

Er.....Umm........never mind.

Until someone posts a number higher than mine, I refuse to divulge that info and thus be branded the "Lit board Slut"!

 

[Clouddancer]

I started Late, but catching up!!

I started late losing my virginity at 23, married at 24. Married for 9 yrs and totally monogamous.

Divorced 2 yrs ago, 4 men and 1 woman since the divorce.
So, I've had a little fun after being in a sexless marriage for 3 yrs.

Cloud

 

[badmatt]

well...

I'm 28, and I stopped counting when I was approaching my age....I don't really want to figure it out.

 

[Georgia Girl]

My thoughts on this one are that i have no idea. I never bothered to keep up with it, it was just one more thing to clutter my life with, they are in the past, don't effect my future so it just isn't important. There have been males and females and I've had one helluva good time, thats what mattered.

Dawn

 

[sabbathstorm]

I'm 28 and I've been with five men (but that number is subject to change ). I don't even want to start thinking how many my partner has been with. Hell, he doesn't even remember but I know it's a lot. I kid around and tell him he was a slut

 

[Kenny9990]

LipstickKitten, Wow, 18 in 18 months--that's pretty impressive!!! But I do think it's easier for a woman to get laid if she's so inclined than a man.

You were quite the Fuck Monster on the prowl--and I mean that in the most positive way!

 

[LipstickKitten]

LipstickKitten, Wow, 18 in 18 months--that's pretty impressive!!! But I do think it's easier for a woman to get laid if she's so inclined than a man.

You were quite the Fuck Monster on the prowl--and I mean that in the most positive way!

Well, I do take that as a compliment. Though it's a good thing that we're not including online partners and phone partners.

 

[pipercatt]

I'm at 6 (I think), and I am 32. And Candy, yes, thank goodness we aren't counting online and phone partners..LOL.

 

[Secret Kate]

 

[badmatt]

hmmmmm

Well, I just read secret kate's post and candy's and several others mentioning phone and cyber.

now when you consider that I wanted to stop as I counted and the number of partners approached my age, and like Kate, that was only counting partners I've had sex (vaginal or anal) with. If we start adding oral, or manual, or cyber or phone. I might have to start considering spending the rest of my life as a buddhist monk to make up for the slut I am.

 

[LipstickKitten]

Re: hmmmmm

Well, I just read secret kate's post and candy's and several others mentioning phone and cyber.

now when you consider that I wanted to stop as I counted and the number of partners approached my age, and like Kate, that was only counting partners I've had sex (vaginal or anal) with. If we start adding oral, or manual, or cyber or phone. I might have to start considering spending the rest of my life as a buddhist monk to make up for the slut I am.

But, Matt, if you did that, we women would have male-slut withdrawal. You wouldn't want to be responsible for that, would you?

 

[pipercatt]

Re: hmmmmm

Well, I just read secret kate's post and candy's and several others mentioning phone and cyber.

now when you consider that I wanted to stop as I counted and the number of partners approached my age, and like Kate, that was only counting partners I've had sex (vaginal or anal) with. If we start adding oral, or manual, or cyber or phone. I might have to start considering spending the rest of my life as a buddhist monk to make up for the slut I am.

now, that sounds like a damn shame, BadMatt. Just think of all the sexual energy wasted if you became a monk..

I say, be a slut, if that's what you want. Although I'd pick a better term, like say...sexually unchallenged? Is that too PC? Hell with it, slut works..



(edited for speeelin' errorrrrrs)

 

[badmatt]

Candy and Piper

Okay I'll avoid the monkhood, but only cause the two of you seem to think I'd be missed.


Piper...ps...where in the burbs...used to be a chi'town boy m'self.

 

[girlincrisis]

um, i'm 26 and i hit the magic number '21' recently.
meh..it's not really something i take 'pride' in per se...but someone asked me awhile back how many people i'd had sex with and i had to stop and think.
the word 'slut' in the derogatory sense doesn't really register in my vocab.