How many of you have this kind of fantasy?

VladHarkonnen

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I posted this in another forum but it doesn't seem to see a lot of traffic so...cut and paste! :D

My biggest fantasy...

is for a woman to lock me in a cockcage and take charge of my sexual pleasure.(not a chastity mind you, a cock cage which by my definition is large enough for me to become fully erect but prevents any kind of manipulation of my cock while its on) She wears the key to it on an anklet...the low position on her body symbolizes her domination and ownership of my sex. I'm not allowed any sexual gratification unless I am in her presence. If I need to cum and she doesn't want cock at the moment I must ask for permission by getting down on my hands and knees and kissing the key dangling from her ankle then begging to be allowed orgasm. She always supervises me while I masturbate. She generally has me worship some part of her while I do so...usually her ass, I'm heavily into ass worship and no day will go by that I do not pay homage to her ass...perhaps right before going to bed at night, whenever she leaves the house, whatever...but I digress . Sometimes she changes it up though by having me worship her pussy, feet or her breasts or simply look into her eyes while I do it. She might laugh at me and taunt me and gloat about my complete submission to her. She might cheer me on in a patronizing tone. She might tell me how much she enjoys my subservience to her...or she might completely ignore me.

She doesn't always say "yes", of course. Orgasms are to be earned...unless she just wants to watch me cum for her own pleasure or wants my cock. She might want me to perform a task or series of tasks before allowing me release...fetching her something from the store, washing her panties by hand, giving her a pedicure or foot massage, folding laundry, licking her to orgasm, cleaning the kitchen, etc.

I am never to leave her presence without my cage locked on. If she goes out or I do, it's on. Or even if we're just in different parts of the house. I can't be sneaking off to go touch myself...now can I. Her assumption is that, as a man, I have no self control so I must, therefore, be controlled by her.

She has complete control of everything and, while she will listen to and consider my opinions she has the final say in all things. I am never allowed to carry cash but must always use a debit card so she can see what I'm spending money on and i am not to purchase anything above a certain amount without asking permission. She might leave the cock cage on me when we go out together so that she can tease me...movies, dinner, shopping, whatever.

Bondage? She might tie me up if it amuses her. She might make my ass red if it pleases her. But if I do displease her punishments will usually consist of her teasing me by wiggling her ass, pussy, or breasts in my face, or putting her mouth around my caged cock then not letting me out of it. That and/or having me perform body services such as massages, foot rubs, etc while she's dressed sexily or nude with no release that day. Of course, she might do these things simply because she wants to hear the desperation in my voice as I beg her.

When we're home together it is understood that I am her attendant. When she wishes to speak to me she calls for me and I come to her. If I want to speak to her I go to her. I fetch her things she wants...drinks, food, the tv remote, things she needs when she's in the bath, etc. She is my Queen and I am very much her slave.

Yet though all of this we maintain a loving companionate relationship. I have nothing against it but I am NOT her sissy. I am NOT her cuckold. I'm a good looking 6'4 220 lbs well hung masculine man. I just like being subservient to my Queen. We would do things together, snuggle, lay in bed together on rainy Sunday afternoons, make love, and I'll happily dominate her should she feel the need. Honestly, it isn't as hot for me without this. The woman of my dreams is always a wife that binds me with love, trust, and attraction first, the cock cage second.

I guess, just to break it down to it's simplest form, I have a "matrimonial/love/slavery" fetish as well as a cock cage fetish.
 
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You write well. Perhaps you should turn this into a story? :)

This particular fantasy has never been a personal one of mine, but the way you write I can see why it's appealing.
 
If you want to attract a Dominant woman having everything mapped out like you are somebody's starlet in their movie is not going to work out well.

While any of these components might be hot for me, the lack of it being my idea would be such a monumental cold shower.
 
If you want to attract a Dominant woman having everything mapped out like you are somebody's starlet in their movie is not going to work out well.

While any of these components might be hot for me, the lack of it being my idea would be such a monumental cold shower.

I'm new here but I'm not new to bdsm. And I hope that there isn't an impression that my post was meant to be some kind of personal ad. I meant to honestly share this fantasy and express my curiosity as to the thoughts of others, which is to say that I really wanted to know if this fantasy (or something like it) had any other followers. In retrospect, this probably wasn't the best way to go about it. I would point out though that fantasies do tend to be pretty specific or "mapped out" as you say. How they translate into reality (if they ever do) is a big part of the fun. Those twists, turns, and surprises are integral to it being enjoyable. Besides, living out my fantasy verbatim every day would, in the end, would ruin it. In any relationship, everyone involved has their own fantasies, desires, expectations, kinks, insecurities, hangups, etc.

I, on occasion, enjoy being a dom myself. I know that working from a script would all but destroy the spirit of that. Also, I wouldn't feel truly submissive if things were played out to my list of specifications either.
 
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I read this as a fantasy, not a screenplay. Nice. not for me, exactly, but close enough.
 
Lovely imagery!
I understand what you mean.
My hubby treats me like a queen. Spoils me. And we have our own dynamic.
Good luck to you!
 
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