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[sexyeyes1]

How many men enjoy erotic talk from there partners while making love? And how many women do it? How do you tell it without becoming embarrased?

 

[billwindows]

i would love it if my partner were to tell me "fuck me like a whore" and "hound me till I cum". Unfortunately, i haven't found anyone who likes to do it. I hope you do it. Anyway, just imagine you are a slut so it doesn't get embarassing also adds a new dimension to your sex life

 

[James G 5]

I enjoy erotic and dirty talk (not quite the same things) both during sex and as part of foreplay & teasing to lead up to foreplay

Unfortunately I don't find too many women who're comfortable with it or good at it

 

[KHAN-E]

I LUV it!!!

I tell my partner (male or female) what I want them to do to and with me. And I use graphic language to do so.

I have used the prhrase, "fuck me like a whore", or "bitch", or "slut".

I feel like that sort of a person when I am in the midst of a good, hard fuck. So I am not inhibited in expressing it.

My partners seem to enjoy it, and always respond with enthusiasm, and with some HOT talk of their own.

 

[krspy2001]

I am sooo lucky....my xwife was a total dead lay .....the woman i am married to now is just as sexual as i am ...she was and always has been very vocal in bed........very orgasmic also.....quite a change from what i had........what two consenting adults do in bed is thier own thing.....no need to be embarrassed if none else knows about it

 

[Rick2002]

I absolutely LOVE it when I can get my wife to express herself vocally. Unfortunately she doesn't do it enough.
But when I get her really hot by telling her stories of her fucking a strange cock, she does manage to say"oh yes, let him fuck me" etc. It's a major turn on to hear her really get into it. And she LOVES it when I tell her things, how good it feels and how wonderful her pussy is.

 

[WynEternal]

Frankly, I suck at both erotic and dirty talk. Hub loves it and enjoys when I do try. He's said lately that I've gotten better, so a part of it could be an old hold-up about sex. Or it could be that I'm starting to feel more like a sexual person. That's something he's trying to nourish. But to probably answer the question, it drives him wild when he hears the words.

 

[Ezzie]

I'm too shy to talk dirty to a man during sex or foreplay. I've tried and it just sounds stupid coming out of my mouth.

 

[sheath]

My man LOVES dirty talk, and he asks me for it if I don't do it enough!

Something like..."I love it when you fuck my tight slutty cunt with that thick cock"...makes him cum like a rocket.

If we are making slow, gentle love, a simple "I love the way we feel together" whispered into his ear is the most endearing thing I could possibly say to him at that moment.

But of course, there is a difference between making love, sex, fucking, etc...everything has its own time and place.

S.

 

[capricious_chic]

It is probably a matter of age and experience. Usually older women you truly know what they want and how to achieve it, feel no need to be embarrassed. (Of course, some of us are just shameless to begin with) To get over this, just practice by yourself. Say the things you would like to say, or that you know he would like you to say out loud when you are by yourself. I used to giggle at just the thought of saying some of the things that roll off my tongue now. Another way to practice, is to read some of the more graphic stories here out loud to one another. It gets you used to saying the words, and more comfortable with the response you will get. It can be great foreplay as well.

As with all things, there is a time an place for "dirty talk". I am usually inspired when in the middle of a good, hard fucking. Intense and mindless. Now, when it is intense, love making.. it is not the time. Usually then, no words are needed to convey what one is thinking.

I enjoy it when my mate uses harsh language, and naughty words. I know he enjoys it. Easy enough to do with the proper motivation.

 

[fond of facials]

i would love it if my partner were to tell me "fuck me like a whore" and "hound me till I cum".

That sounds just like me. My husband loves it!

 

[SupaStyles]

I have used the prhrase, "fuck me like a whore", or "bitch", or "slut".

hehe depending on the mood or occasion.. dont get me wrong I love it but "fuck me like a _____" a whore, b bitch, c slut

$$

 

[peachykeen]

I love to talk dirty during sex, but sadly Mr K does not

 

[flasun71]

My wife and I both love to talk dirty to each other during sex. It really gets things heated up. We usually end up fucking for quite a while donig it this way. Sometimes if we watch a movie, we may talk about the people in the movie. We love it and I hope we continue to do it.

 

[sporty]

My man LOVES dirty talk, and he asks me for it if I don't do it enough!

Something like..."I love it when you fuck my tight slutty cunt with that thick cock"...makes him cum like a rocket.

If we are making slow, gentle love, a simple "I love the way we feel together" whispered into his ear is the most endearing thing I could possibly say to him at that moment.

But of course, there is a difference between making love, sex, fucking, etc...everything has its own time and place.

S.

I absolutely agree with this post !!...
I love bedroom talk whether it's smut or tender sentiment...it's all according to what's appropriate at the moment...

I will say , practice makes perfect !!......what feels awkward at first can come naturally....my guy and i both stuttered a little over the words initially, but we now are both quite vocal ....i LOVE it...it adds so much more to the communication ...

practice several hot phrases alone until you're comfortable saying the words outloud....it works ))......

have fun !

 

[Lust Engine]

Hot dirty talk is absolutely wonderful! It can spice those moments up but I've always made sure afterwards that it's explained that those delicate little sentences said were also in the intense heat of passion. I never would want a woman thinking that I'd be denegrating her but I sure as heck would love it if it intensifed her orgasms!

 

[sporty]

Hot dirty talk is absolutely wonderful! It can spice those moments up but I've always made sure afterwards that it's explained that those delicate little sentences said were also in the intense heat of passion. I never would want a woman thinking that I'd be denegrating her but I sure as heck would love it if it intensifed her orgasms!

Exactly ...while fucking the other nite, my guy grabbed my hair and demanded that i tell him "i was his little slut"....totally hot.....and i loved it....and had an awesome orgasm shortly after....

He's a fairly conservative guy and i know he respects me...i love that he is willing to play though, and i know the smut talk is just talk....

 

[Lust Engine]

Exactly ...while fucking the other nite, my guy grabbed my hair and demanded that i tell him "i was his little slut"....totally hot.....and i loved it....and had an awesome orgasm shortly after....

He's a fairly conservative guy and i know he respects me...i love that he is willing to play though, and i know the smut talk is just talk....

The fact that you know he still respects you and it's just a part of the role playing probably makes it that much hotter.

In reality, he's a nice guy who would never use that kind of language towards you & you're not really a slut. It's all in the fantasy!

Damn..its getting warm in here!

 

[fiery_jack]

How many men enjoy erotic talk from there partners while making love? And how many women do it? How do you tell it without becoming embarrased?

I love hearing a woman talk dirty during sex. It could get embarrassing if someone crossed the line of what the other thought was decent, but that's easy enough to avoid.

And here i was thinking this was going to be a "...does it take to change a lightbulb..." thread...

 

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[8ball]

My girlfriend loves to talk......loudly. We woke up my neighbor's one night.

One night, I got a bit carried away, or so I thought, and called her my cum-guzzling whore. She came instantly. Well, ok, she was about to anyway, but, she said it was a better o for her.
It just slipped out. The phrase that is, anyways, anyother time, I talk to her with respect.

 

[~*sunkyssed_kym*~]

I LUV it!!!

I tell my partner (male or female) what I want them to do to and with me. And I use graphic language to do so.

I have used the prhrase, "fuck me like a whore", or "bitch", or "slut".

I feel like that sort of a person when I am in the midst of a good, hard fuck. So I am not inhibited in expressing it.

My partners seem to enjoy it, and always respond with enthusiasm, and with some HOT talk of their own.

For me, talking to my lover not only gives him satisfaction, but heightens my response as well. As many have stated; it is in the heat of the moment and not out of lack of respect, that I am able to communicate to him and he to me, the role playing that gives greater pleasure for both of us.

When we are making slow passionate love, a different approach is taken; but still there is communication to show the pleasure that is being given.

-kym- talk dirty to me baby!

 

[Ezzie]

Kym, I bet you're just a wild woman in bed. If I were a man, I'd be all over you, honey!

I you!

 

[sheath]

One night, I got a bit carried away, or so I thought, and called her my cum-guzzling whore. She came instantly.

Jeez...just READING it made me want to cum!

S.

 

[ApplesMcgee]

less talk

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