e-trance action
You big dummy!
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From the other side of the coin, there may be nothing "going on", some of us men take longer to climax. There's no "problem", it's just how we're wired.
The long sessions of PIV that some women embrace ecstatically at first, given their past experience with minutemen, can become less enjoyable for them when they become the norm.
Just as the message has been driven home to men that they need to be in tune with a woman and her body if it requires more effort for her to achieve climax, I would hope that some of the same advice would flow in the other direction when it comes to women being with us long lasters.
There are things I enjoy that speed up the process, and incorporating them into the overall session can make a big difference in how long and how much enjoyment is experienced by each partner.
(of course if there is a physiological problem that is making climax difficult, it makes sense investigate what can be done about it)
This does seem the best way to make things enjoyable for everyone. Different, positions, speeds, play activities, etc. bring me to climax faster (but not fast) than simple PIV and placing my trust in repeated friction. For her, there's also the benefit of multiple orgasms and not getting arm/leg/neck kinks from being stuck in one position. (unless being stuck in one position is a kink she enjoys *grin*)
If a woman is comfortable with the idea that every burst of PIV doesn't have to end with male climax, this can be a great deal of fun. It's also a great way to pass a rainy afternoon.
