How long should a guy spend on your breasts?

[mrsexyman]

I'm kissing you, down your neck, down your shoulders and chest...

How long to spend on your pussy, that is clear, there is a clear finish line... but how long should a guy spend on your breasts? Not many girls can cum from just breast play, I don't want to pass by them too quickly, don't want to overstay my welcome...

roughly, how long should I spend massaging, licking, kissing, gently biting your breasts before starting my way down your tummy?

I know there is no hard number, but in abstract terms: is it closer to a few minutes, five minutes, ten, twenty?

 

[Sheana_V]

I'm kissing you, down your neck, down your shoulders and chest...

How long to spend on your pussy, that is clear, there is a clear finish line... but how long should a guy spend on your breasts? Not many girls can cum from just breast play, I don't want to pass by them too quickly, don't want to overstay my welcome...

roughly, how long should I spend massaging, licking, kissing, gently biting your breasts before starting my way down your tummy?

I know there is no hard number, but in abstract terms: is it closer to a few minutes, five minutes, ten, twenty?

My experience with other women is that it varies a lot between them. For me it's probably in the range of five to ten minutes, but really I think that the answer is you have to learn to read the body language and the chemistry of the encounter - as long as you both seem like you're having fun then keep doing it.
You do actively enjoy playing with tits, right?

 

[KayceeCharles]

The answer is: Depends on the girl

And that's where you need to PAY ATTENTION to her body language.

Some girls would be GLAD to spend 10-15 minutes just kissing, others would LOVE the idea that you pay special attention to their boobs with all the ways you can pleasure them, separately or together.

Generally, if they are not way too shy, and/or they are capable of communicating what they want, then you just need to pay attention. Some girls will simply take your hand toward where they want attention, others you have to take a more active approach, test her errogenous zones one at a time, using variety of stimulation: lips, tongue, teeth, back of finger, palm knuckle, finger, varying amount of pressure, even fingernail at some spots. You'll have to learn her body and how different zones respond to each stimuli.

There is no set time. You can keep laying with her breast, varying the sensations by playing with different parts of her breasts, but don't overwork a particular area. Watch her face for degree of your success. As the joke goes, "if she can still think, you're doing it wrong."

 

[BigBoobsandPeach]

Definitely depends on the girl.....ask her what she likes.
Personally, a guy could set up camp there for half an hour and I'd be happy......a lot of fun can be had with breasts......given the right attention, I can orgasm from just my breasts being touched, licked, sucked, played with ;-)

 

[barefootgirl69]

I can't give you a specific amount of time, I'm not paying attention to the clock. The moment you took my nipple into your mouth, time stopped.

Don't stop until my cooing and sighing has turned to pleas for you to taste other parts of my body.

 

[slutindianwife]

At least 15 minutes

 

[Bramblethorn]

How long to spend on your pussy, that is clear, there is a clear finish line...

No, not necessarily. Oral doesn't always end with the woman having an obvious orgasm. Sometimes it ends with a quiet one. (Sometimes it doesn't end there, either; not everybody wants to stop at one.) Some women enjoy oral but don't come from it, and will want to move on to something else after a while.

For the rest of the question, like everybody else said, you're better off paying attention to the woman you're with instead of looking at the timer. Women's sexual response varies a lot, not just between women, but also for the same woman from one day to another; the stimulation that's "just right" one day may be way too much or not enough on another.

 

[RacyWilde]

Kind of supporting everyone else here so far....

As everyone above...

Every woman is different, of course, so just ask her beforehand. If you’re a breast guy, tell her. She’ll understand if you want to take longer there, or have them as a focus.

But for me, it depends on the scenario. I generally like breast play worked into the whole choreography of sex, not just a loner action or starter. Though it is great for the breasts to be last, ending with a pearl necklace.

 

[phil_o]

Don't want to sound harsh but if you need to ask this question you are not ready to be sucking a womans breasts nipples.

If you want a scientific answer then its 1min35 on right nipple and 1min 50 on left nipple, thats her left and right not yours.

 

[Maleboobs]

I am turning things around...my wife spends a lot of time on my nips and breasts, because she knows I love it...(but she doesn't know about my kinky play here on lit... )

 

[SquirtnBrat]

I can't give you a specific amount of time, I'm not paying attention to the clock. The moment you took my nipple into your mouth, time stopped.

Don't stop until my cooing and sighing has turned to pleas for you to taste other parts of my body.

Great advice, I completely agree! Who is watching the clock? You may want to ask before hand if she can cum from nipple play, if she can - go for it!

 

[Bunnylily]

I can't give you a specific amount of time, I'm not paying attention to the clock. The moment you took my nipple into your mouth, time stopped.

Don't stop until my cooing and sighing has turned to pleas for you to taste other parts of my body.

Great advice, I completely agree! Who is watching the clock? You may want to ask before hand if she can cum from nipple play, if she can - go for it!

Completely agree.

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It really depends on the girl as well. Everyone is different.

Some don't like as much, others like it too much, so you'll have to pay attention to body language. And if she really loves it, she'll probably ending up telling you, eventually, or by her body language, you'll see.

 

[CoyoteTales]

Your mileage may vary. But maybe the best answer is 'when one of you gets tired of it.'

Having had multiple partners over the years, each of them wanted different things. I've had partners where I could stay there all day; she was the one with the barbells. I've had partners where doing things to their nipples did almost absolutely nothing; this made me sad. I love nipples. There were mediums in between, where it depended on the day, sometimes they wanted more foreplay, sometimes less.

One thing to think about putting into your toolbox is 'don't see breasts as a train station stop, but rather as an exit on a roundabout.' You can take the turn whenever it seems like the flow of traffic is going that way, and bypass it for the moment when it's not.

To wit; I see my partner as an interactive totality. Any part of her body I can touch, want to touch, and where she wants to be touched is fair game throughout the experience - if a touch gets her to react positively, I will keep doing that thing. If there's a neutral response or a push in a different direction, that's the best cue for 'new choice'.

The average in my experience has been that breasts are a 'yes and' rather than an 'either or' -- if you're doing something else besides working a nipple, it adds to their pleasure, rather than distracts. Sometimes it's that extra push that's needed to get them over the plateau and into the stars.

P.S. I almost never watch the clock; we finish when we finish, and sometimes there's an 'oops' moment as we realize how long we've been at it after we've both come down. (Almost: there have been occasional planes to catch, and 'we have 20 minutes before we have to leave, but I want to have the best reason to smile for the rest of the day' is a valid reason to set a stop point.)

 

[Bewitching]

As long as you want!

Sometimes I want it to last forever and other times I'm more interested in something else. If someone is using their mouth, I will just pull them toward my face and start kissing them to stop it. If they are using their hands, I will relocate the hands with positive purpose. Like suck on or nibble on their fingers. Or take their hands in my mine caressing them and saying something like, you have sexy/soft/gentle/such strong/amazing hands (whichever fits the person). Usually they move onto something else next. Win-win.

If I'm restrained, I expect and will take whatever!

Basically, hopefully she let's you know in someway. Just go with it & have fun.

 

[Klinkster]

Has to be totally varied.....

My W, I can go on for 20 minutes or more, until she orgasms from it.
After that, I am forced to move onto other things.... which is beyond OK.

Some women, I can tell you from experience, can stand only a minute or two.... So....you have to play it by ear....or tit....or something....

 

[stickygirl]

I can't give you a specific amount of time, I'm not paying attention to the clock. The moment you took my nipple into your mouth, time stopped.

Don't stop until my cooing and sighing has turned to pleas for you to taste other parts of my body.

They agree too
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[beingtrue2me]

It isn't just the amount of time. It's also HOW you handle them. Think of it like this. Sometimes you (we) want sex to be slow and building with LOTS (feel free to re read that last word) of kissing and foreplay. When it's like that, an O can happen or not and I'm good. Other times we want it fast, hard and almost animal like.

My point is, breast play for me is the same. Sometimes I want them handled softly and gently and other times I want them squeezed and my nipples pulled and nibbled on.

Pay attention to how she responds. You'll know when she's ready for you to give attention to something else.

 

[Athalia]

To which I can only add:

Ladies, talk to him (or her)! Let your lovers know whether you want more or less. Don't leave them guessing .. and that goes double for your younger, less experienced lovers.

Gentlemen (and ladies), listen to her! She knows her body better than you do.

Note that I'm including Lesbian lovers, because the simple fact that you've got a pair of boobs doesn't qualify you to claim that you know what your lover's boobs should be treated.

 

[Maleboobs]

the longer the better...mhhhhh

 

[Cumsplatter101]

From my experience it ranges from "dont touch them" to "grab them whenever you can".
Depends fully on the girl, but I am of the "grab whenever I can" - guys

 

[dystracted]

a woman should spend as long there until I climax or whimper to be treated elsewhere...