How long has it been?

[Patryn]

How long has it been since you last had sex? I know it's a personal question, but I was just sitting here bemoaning my own lackanookie disease, and was wondering if anyone else was in the same boat? Or god forbid, worse.

I'm at almost exactly 6 months without, and yes, I am accepting volunteers.

 

[SeXy ReDHeD]

You're gonna hate me...

Yesterday!

 

[Flagg]

8 1/2 hours.

Whatever you do - don't ask deborah. She's armed and frustrated which is quite a dangerous mix I've heard.

 

[Sammyjo]

Six weeks and 3 days...but since REALLY excellent, toe curling, fabulous, sensational...you get my point...sex...9 weeks and 1 day.

 

[CreamyLady]

A week. Sigh.

However, the longest I've ever gone without is 11 years -- my ex husband gave up sex when I got pregnant with my daughter, and she was close to 12 when it finally happened again.

I hope I never have to do that again . . .

 

[Expertise]

Last sex - Two days

Last really good sex -three weeks

Last OHMYFUCKINGGOD Sex - about five months

Creamy, 11 friggin' years? I can't even imagine.

 

[dusk2dawn]

Too long for my liking!!

 

[Jade]

Too long for my liking!!

Same here

 

[Skibum]

That all depends on how you define sex. Real, full blown, great sex, about 3 months. Going through the motions, about a week. We tried while making up from a fight, but there was just no spark, and my attemps during the past couple of days have been rebuffed.

 

[Dixon Carter Lee]

Three days. And, yes, I was full blown.

 

[Patryn]

*sob* What the hell's going on? I'm not THAT ugly. I don't think.

Well, guess I can't complain too much...it's partly by choice. The last guy I was with stomped on my heart while wearing golf spikes, so I'm not too interested in that again. Still, a nice, safe, no commitment one night stand would be nice. *sigh*

 

[Sammyjo]

Yeah, I know how you feel Patryn.

Same here...I'm now having to get over someone I never really had to begin with...it seems he's moving in 3 months. Goody, goody for me...

Oh well...

 

[Earthgoddess]

Less than 10 hours ago,nope eleven hours ago-and it was quite good despite EXTREME PMS on my part.

 

[Siren]

That DCL.......lol

 

[CreamyLady]

Creamy, 11 friggin' years? I can't even imagine.

There were lots of reasons. I was depressed, for one thing, and a depressive is not necessarily an attractive person. I had a small daughter, and felt stability was very important for her; my sexual history was unstable, to say the least.

No matter what I did, my family disapproved of it, and I was going through therapy. All in all, I wasn't a good candidate for any relationship.

 

[Expertise]

At the risk of sounding shallow Creamy ...REALTIONSHIP SMELATIONSHIP! Base desires woman! Be it with your husband or someone else. Good god, you must have tremendous self control if only to be able to resist the intimacy of contact with an other human at that level.

I am in no way being judgemental of you ... I just find it hard to imagine and fathom.

 

[Mensa]

Doesn't that icon look ready?

Three weeks, two days, seven hours, ten minutes, twenty-eight seconds...twenty-nine seconds....thirty seconds....thirty-one seconds....

 

[Siren]

Mensa...hahahhaa

 

[Mensa]

Think about it.

Sometimes it gets so frustrating that I have to imagine I'm on the Olympic Rowing Team...stroke...stroke...stroke

 

[Mortto56]

Well this is a good question.It has been 4 days since I had pretty good sex,2 weeks since REALLY,REALLY good sex,with the oil & toys and all....I'm not 20 years old no more,so I don't walk around with a constant hardon all the time like I use to....Later!!

 

[April]

Oh shit, I don't even remember! At least 3 months! I've been struggling with a mild depression, and lost most of my desire for sex.

Expertise, that's what happens when you're depressed. Desire just goes away.

 

[Expertise]

I have obviously never suffered from true depression. Either that or I am just a cheap slut

 

[Guest]

Well, I'm going on a couple days now... Hungry Man, where are you?!?!? lol

 

[dusk2dawn]

Oh shit, I don't even remember! At least 3 months! I've been struggling with a mild depression, and lost most of my desire for sex.

Expertise, that's what happens when you're depressed. Desire just goes away.

So true about depression April.

Got over the depression but, its been so long now that I don't even remember what sex is like, not to mention mind blowing sex.

 

[CreamyLady]

At the risk of sounding shallow Creamy ...REALTIONSHIP SMELATIONSHIP! Base desires woman! Be it with your husband or someone else. Good god, you must have tremendous self control if only to be able to resist the intimacy of contact with an other human at that level.

I am in no way being judgemental of you ... I just find it hard to imagine and fathom.

It was 12 years ago, Expertise. I got over it.

I went to Ireland with my friend and my daughter. One night, while in Dublin, I walked into a grove in a park with a stranger, took off my clothes, and had sex for about three hours.

Whatever spell I'd been under, it was broken. I'm back.

However, I can't do meaningless, base encounters anymore. There has to be something there.