How have you changed?

[mentionME]

On this site we talk a lot about various fetishes and sexuality. How has it changed you, your relationship, significant other. Also, how do you, your significant other, or those close to you feel about it?

I know I actually take literotica breaks because my girl is unsure about the ideas I may get from the site and is not, 'bout it.' (lol)

Although, she is resolved in her ways I have enjoyed how its opened my eyes to a less prejudice view to sexuality and a lot of new interests. I won't be wearing pantyhose or doing any butt play any reality soon, but i'm/we're way more engaged in our conversations on sexuality than ever before.

Anyway, how bout yall??

Oh, and thank you literotica for making my life a lil more adventurous.

 

[Mac98]

I don't know if I should thank Literotica as much as I should thank the HT and its Cafe for helping me out in my little problems (Actually, I guess Lit and HT go together, huh!).

Some pretty darn good, decent advice 'round here. Very thankful for it all.

 

[fuckmeat]

I haven't been a member of Lit long but access to the internet and online BDSM/GLBT communities is the main reason why I'm so switched on to my sexuality and have a D/s relationship with a female SO. The net is also a large part of why I'm comfortable with being openly bisexual and feel far less different or weird that I would otherwise have done. Lit is a great place to hang out and I've already developed a real attachment to some of the forums, threads and people here. I never expected to get so much out of a sex forum but I really have settled in here.

 

[kaycee217]

Lit has made me more understanding with regards to infidelity.

 

[DroppedIn]

The people I've met here so far have been very welcoming - this is a place where I can drop the mask for a while.

 

[Mac98]

this is a place where I can drop the mask for a while.

I like this line...

 

[Luna_Bella]

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[Luna_Bella]

I know I actually take literotica breaks because my girl is unsure about the ideas I may get from the site and is not, 'bout it.' (lol)

Although, she is resolved in her ways I have enjoyed how its opened my eyes to a less prejudice view to sexuality and a lot of new interests. I won't be wearing pantyhose or doing any butt play any reality soon, but i'm/we're way more engaged in our conversations on sexuality than ever before.

Kind of the same here, my guy thinks literotica is all just about "pervs" and cybersex lol, I have tried to have him visit and read a little to see that yes there is some cybersex going on in certain forums but that for the most part its not like that, but he is not interested. oh well his loss!!!

Literotica has opened my eyes to the fact that I am even more open minded than I though I was before and that I welcome most new ideas with open arms. I always knew there was(and still is) a world of sexual possibilities out there and lit made me discover part of it( I guess I should say that it made me discover the theory part of it , now its up to me to put it in practice or not)

 

[satindesire]

I came here to learn and ended up teaching.

 

[DroppedIn]

Since coming here I've met some great people and I'm beginning to accept 'me' as an okay guy.

 

[shortstuff02]

I was very sheltered before I met a very caring man. When he and I started talking...I started realizing there was a lot out there that I was missing. So as we would discuss different things I would then go and kind of research them to learn whatever I could about it. Before I did that there were so many things that I just dismissed without giving any thought to.

Hell in the beginning he was talking about from behind. I thought he meant anal....oh was I wrong. I was like no way no how....not gonna happen. Thankfully I learned otherwise.

These sites help me learn so much about myself and options out there. I am very thankful for them. Hell I went from there to enjoying water sports and threesomes. Two and a half years ago I never thought I would ever participate in things like that.

Now my thing is I will always try something at least once before passing judgement on it.

 

[Mac98]

These sites help me learn so much about myself and options out there. I am very thankful for them. Hell I went from there to enjoying water sports [...]

By that you mean wakeboarding and Water skiing?

 

[eudaemonia]

Now my thing is I will always try something at least once before passing judgement on it.

I can't say that. There are a number of activities I simply won't try at least once. Scat, piss, cutting (and more) -- not gunna happen. My refusal to try them doesn't imply judgment of others, just that trying them out wouldn't add to my well being.

As to the original question -- How have you changed? -- I'm not sure it's ~me~ that's changed so much as my knowledge base and ability to articulate my needs and preferences plainly and more readily.

 

[shortstuff02]

By that you mean wakeboarding and Water skiing?

Sorry I know it goes by different names....golden showers is another name.

I can't say that. There are a number of activities I simply won't try at least once. Scat, piss, cutting (and more) -- not gunna happen. My refusal to try them doesn't imply judgment of others, just that trying them out wouldn't add to my well being.

As to the original question -- How have you changed? -- I'm not sure it's ~me~ that's changed so much as my knowledge base and ability to articulate my needs and preferences plainly and more readily.

I guess I should have been clearer. He and I discussed what we are in to and will try at least once. Neither of us are into scat or cutting. We have the same likes and dislikes so it worked out well. We are into piss...golden showers...water sports. I know everyone is different and don't pass judgement on others for it.

 

[NippleMuncher]

I've always been open to new things, unfortunately my partners have been on the reserved side, so not too many new tricks for this old dog.

I came here to learn and ended up teaching.

I could learn ya a thing or two.

 

[satindesire]

I could learn ya a thing or two.

Bring it on, little guy!

 

[infinity706]

I could learn ya a thing or two, too.

As for the changing thing, though, that hasn't really happened much, because I was horribly corrupted before I came here. Of course, I have learned a few new tricks.

 

[satindesire]

I could learn ya a thing or two, too.

Please don't take this as offensive, because I truly mean it that way, but...no.

 

[infinity706]

I'm not saying you'd ever consider fucking me in a million years. I'm just saying, if you did, I'd end up teaching you a few things.

 

[satindesire]

I'm not saying you'd ever consider fucking me in a million years. I'm just saying, if you did, I'd end up teaching you a few things.

I'd rather like to end this conversation if you don't mind.

 

[infinity706]

That's fine with me.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

I came here to learn and ended up teaching.

Yes. I need a friend like you here, satin.



I need to learn to unleash my inner girl.

 

[satindesire]

Yes. I need a friend like you here, satin.



I need to learn to unleash my inner girl.

You've come to the right place. If I know anything, it's girl stuff. Shoes, makeup, lingerie, hair and skin care...oh yeah.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

You've come to the right place. If I know anything, it's girl stuff. Shoes, makeup, lingerie, hair and skin care...oh yeah.

*sighs wistfully*

I'm so tomboy, and so much better at looking after other people.

 

[DroppedIn]

Fed up of looking like a car crash waiting to happen .... must sort out my wardrobe ... sorting out body first ... I don't know which is worse, clothes that won't fit, or clothes that are now too damned big..