How does a man stand out?

[KrazyIvaé]

How does one make sure he stands out and never gets left behind?

 

[lilpriss]

This is a tough one, because sometimes the "stand out " guys are so obnoxious you want to throw up...

Although good looks help some, more often is attitude, if you're fun to be around, origingal, witty, smart and outgoing... you're going to stand out... even if you think you're ugly... at's all about attitude... no questions.

I say knock 'em dead. Be yourself... you want to be with someone who loves you for you anyway. And if you don't think you're all that interesting chances are neither will anyone else.

 

[Horny Hippie Girl]

From my own experience, I find that I am much less concerned about a man's appearance than I am about how I am treated. Women love to be romanced and love to feel special. Let's face it, who doesn't? Let me give you an example of what I mean, though. This is a 100% true story...

I used to work for a company of retail stores that sold adult toys and movies, novelty items, etc. We frequently had in store appearances by well known porn stars. The company also frequently held parties and invited many big names in the porn industry, along with other celebrities. On one occasion, I had the opportunity to meet and speak with Ron Jeremy. Now, anyone that knows who Ron Jeremy is, knows that he certainly isn't the ideal man from a visual perspective. I have to say that I was completely captivated by this man! He really knows how to make a woman feel good! The whole time I was talking with him, he made me feel as though I was the most important person in the world to him, at that moment. He really listened to me and was very complimentary of not just my appearance, but also my mind and ideas. He was a true gentleman, he opened doors for me and treated me like a rare jewel he had discovered. Honestly, I truly believe that if you treat a woman like that, no matter what you look like, someone is going to really dig you. One other piece of advice I can give you is always be clean, well dressed, and smelling good and you can't go wrong...

 

[shescurious]

I think that different things will make you stand out to different women. Personally, for the physical part, a well groomed man stands out to me.

For the rest, which is the most important, men that show interest in my mind more than my body stand out to me. Being able to hold an intelligent conversation, not about sex, is important. Eventually in the relationship the sex will wear out and you need something to fall back on.

Just my 2 cents.....

 

[hogjack]

Sure, physical appearance is a major factor

Though I know physical appearance is not supposed to be the key factor in standing out and being noticed if people were honest they would admit it absolutely makes a difference.

I've tried a number of techniques in how I act and many different looks over the years. Probably the most successful method is a classic brought down through the centuries - yes, I now sport a parrot perched on my shoulder.

Yes, a colorful, beautiful, exotic parrot on my shoulder makes all the difference in the world. Of course it can be a little uncomfortable at first but I adapted to it within days of the first time I tried it. And, yes, it can be embarrasing having parrot, umm, drops covering my shoulders and clothing but that's a small price to pay for the attention it has garnered.

 

[lovetoread]

Re: Sure, physical appearance is a major factor

And, yes, it can be embarrasing having parrot, umm, drops covering my shoulders and clothing but that's a small price to pay for the attention it has garnered.

lol,Is that what that is?

 

[hogjack]

Re: Re: Sure, physical appearance is a major factor

lol,Is that what that is?

OK!I couldn't afford a parrot and they live too damn long anyway. This is a crow I fitted with an authentic parrot outfit - real imported parrot feathers!). I've grown to love this crow the past two years. He sleeps on a pillow beside my head.

 

[KrazyIvaé]

Thanks for all the great advice people

 

[Native Alien]

barring parrots and crows....i like a guy with a good smile to start with...

neatly groomed and well mannered doesn't hurt either....

and a nice phone voice is a plus as well......

 

[as332]

From my own perceptions, it is not necessarily looks, although they are a factor, the key to being noticed is rather more esoteric.

Being noticed and remembered is more about demeanour, how you carry yourself, attitiude and the like. If you try to hard you get labled a fake. If you don't try, you don't get remembered. The key is to find the balance.

 

[xx_La_Reina_xx]

i like a guy with a good smile to start with...

I have to agree with this...a genuine smile can go a long way with me. Also, someone who can look at me while I am talking and make me feel like whatever kinda babble spouting from my mouth is simply fascinating (yeah, I know it's a lot to ask of a poor fella )

Looks, cleanliness, clothes...all those things are just the surface. Really, they can only get you so far. You have to have something to back them up with....but...that's just my opinion.

*smile*
Reina

 

[Lust Engine]

I've always been a firm believer in confidence. Being confident doesn't mean cocky or brash either. The sheer swagger of how one carries one's self gives off an incredible aura regardless of their physical appearance.

 

[PinkOrchid]