How do you...?

[Different Guy]

Girls, how do you react to your climax? As in what do you do when you climax...

This isn't a horny teen question either. When I've gone down on my girlfriend with fingers or mouth, or even playing with her nipples I have made her climax as she's said afterwards. Thing is, cept for say, my hand being soaked in her juices, I can't tell myself "when" she climaxes and normally just thanks after she's calmed down.

I know from that you'll say well it's obvious... but what I mean is. I can start down on her and she's not that wet then as I continue she gets wetter and wetter and y'know, I can't tell wet from climax wet. Also, during the whole process she moans and breathes heavily clenching me but never screams out.

And no, she's not faking it because we're open like that with each other and she's said "Oh God that was good, your turn" and "I've never cum so hard etc." And sometimes she's said, after I asked if she had, "No, I wasn't really in the mood etc".

 

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[sheath]

Hmmm...

You don't say if you can feel her body clenching around your fingers, your penis, whatever when she climaxes. If her PC muscles aren't very strong, I guess you might not feel the contractions of her body during an orgasm. But in my experience, and with almost every woman I have talked to about this, that is the only surefire way to know, is to feel that pulsing deep inside her body.

As for getting wetter...that depends. If I have a REALLY hard orgasm I can practically flood the bed. But if it is just ho-hum- okay-that-felt-good kind of orgasm, then I don't necessarily get any wetter. It all depends on my level of excitement, I think.

Do you feel her contract around you? And when she says it was a really hard orgasm, do you notice her body reacting differently while it is happening? There are a lot of clues we women give to let you know that you are doing the right things.

I like your posts. You always ask good questions.

S.

 

[Different Guy]

Oh yeah I guess that's a sign. Hmmm well I've mentioned before I'm a virgin so I wouldn't know it on my penis. With my fingers, my girl feels very tight anyway... so it's hard to tell still lol!

 

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[sheath]

Oh yeah I guess that's a sign. Hmmm well I've mentioned before I'm a virgin so I wouldn't know it on my penis. With my fingers, my girl feels very tight anyway... so it's hard to tell still lol!

Actually, the tighter she is, the most easily you should be able to feel those contractions. Even if her muscles aren't that strong, if she feels tight to you, then you should feel SOMETHING when she climaxes.

S.

 

[Different Guy]

Thanks S

I guess I can feel contractions. I mean, not being that experianced I wouldn't know if they were during stimulation or orgasm but yeah, I have felt her pussy clench around my fingers

 

[sheath]

Thanks S

I guess I can feel contractions. I mean, not being that experianced I wouldn't know if they were during stimulation or orgasm but yeah, I have felt her pussy clench around my fingers

If you feel it in a steady rhythm, then that's what is happening. When that happens, watch. Do her juices flow more easily? Do they change in consistency? Does her body tense? Does her heartbeat change? Does she shake? Does she catch her breath? Does her chest suddenly flush with a red tint?

Study her and the things her body does. Some things will always be consistent, like the clenching around you. Then think about what you did that sent her over that edge. And do it again.

S.

 

[ullr]

AND..?

If you feel it in a steady rhythm, then that's what is happening. When that happens, watch. Do her juices flow more easily? Do they change in consistency? Does her body tense? Does her heartbeat change? Does she shake? Does she catch her breath? Does her chest suddenly flush with a red tint?

Study her and the things her body does. Some things will always be consistent, like the clenching around you. Then think about what you did that sent her over that edge. And do it again.

S.

and does she break out in a sweat?

The vaginal contractions others look out for come from experience and the muscle tone developed from cumming regularly...not necessarily to virgins and sexual newbies.

--Orson

 

[ApplesMcgee]

advice

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[Pixie Mischief]

well I am pretty silent. but I tense up when I cum. I arch my back some also. BF says he loves how my eyes go big and wide LOL but then again he was using a vibrating egg on my clit OMG LOL I almost hate that way too intense. he had me begging to stop LOL hmm you should try that on her, I am sure youd notice it when she cums then. dont use that often thought it desentizes. but it would show you what to look for to the extreme. so you could pin point it after.

 

[Different Guy]

Maybe suggest that as she gets to orgasm or gets closer to cumming that she give you a sign. Maybe announce it. Lord know the sound of, "Oh, god, I'm gona ...CUUUMMMMINGG!!" is always a turn on

That's actually quite a good idea, and yeah it does sound like a turn on... Heh heh I'm going over in a few hours, she's just come back from Christmas shopping in France with her cousin!

 

[tigerjen]

when I cum, I go crazy wild.....I scream out......I quiver
and squirm.......I am a noisy one you see.........


tigerjen

 

[lovechild27]

I dun know about her...I know that when I cum I get way loud and wild and tense up. Then I sorta relax if he has cum too...if not I can just keep going. If you are unsure..just ask! You seem like you want to please her...so I dont think she would be put off by it or think it odd.