how do you make a girls pussy squirt?
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Well, whether it's possible or not is sort of a moot question. I don't think that anybody is going to say that all girls can do it. I have never been with a girl who did, so it's kind of like stories about visiting Paris... I'll just have to take your word for it.
Most of the stuff you see in pornos is just piss, though. Really. Those people who claim that they can do it (and are not in pornos) say that it is a clear fluid that is very distinct from urine, yet comes out of the urethra only during sexual stimulation. And, it does not come out in some wild, gushing stream like you see in most porn.
The best theory I've heard is that some women have an organ that is similar to (or may be exactly) a prostate. FYI, if you didn't pass sex ed, that is the organ in men that produces all the clear fluid that your sperm float around in, that is to say, your prostate produces the main ingredient of semen. So, if it does exist, it is probably just "female semen".
If she can squirt, she probably already does. If she hasn't, you're about as likely to birth a child out your dick as she likely to produce this fluid. At least, this is what I can piece together about the subject.
Most of the stuff you see in pornos is just piss, though. Really. Those people who claim that they can do it (and are not in pornos) say that it is a clear fluid that is very distinct from urine, yet comes out of the urethra only during sexual stimulation. And, it does not come out in some wild, gushing stream like you see in most porn.
The best theory I've heard is that some women have an organ that is similar to (or may be exactly) a prostate. FYI, if you didn't pass sex ed, that is the organ in men that produces all the clear fluid that your sperm float around in, that is to say, your prostate produces the main ingredient of semen. So, if it does exist, it is probably just "female semen".
If she can squirt, she probably already does. If she hasn't, you're about as likely to birth a child out your dick as she likely to produce this fluid. At least, this is what I can piece together about the subject.
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Do you have any recommendations?LadyAria said:
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People should read as much as they can about this. Thank you, Lady_Aria.
I think it's wrong for people to think that it's possible for every woman, though. I've known many women who have never experienced this, and have tried by themselves / with me / with other partners. By all means, try. I hear it can be very nice. But, don't think you're necessarily doing something wrong because she doesn't ejaculate. I mean, you very well might be doing something wrong, but then again, she might just not be able to have that kind of orgasm.
I think it's wrong for people to think that it's possible for every woman, though. I've known many women who have never experienced this, and have tried by themselves / with me / with other partners. By all means, try. I hear it can be very nice. But, don't think you're necessarily doing something wrong because she doesn't ejaculate. I mean, you very well might be doing something wrong, but then again, she might just not be able to have that kind of orgasm.
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Making her squirt
It's no myth. Trust me, my girlfriend is a squirter and does it quite a bit. What works best is when I am inside her doggystyle and reach around and rub her clit at the same time. Also you can do it fingering her if you slide a few fingers up in her and find that something that feels like a little ball or smooth bean. Play with that while rubbing her clit will make her explode. All women can do this but they will feel some pressure down there before they squirt and some are uncomfortable with that pressure. If you want to totally satisfy her I recommend the last technique with your fingers. If you need more info let me know. Hope this helps.
It's no myth. Trust me, my girlfriend is a squirter and does it quite a bit. What works best is when I am inside her doggystyle and reach around and rub her clit at the same time. Also you can do it fingering her if you slide a few fingers up in her and find that something that feels like a little ball or smooth bean. Play with that while rubbing her clit will make her explode. All women can do this but they will feel some pressure down there before they squirt and some are uncomfortable with that pressure. If you want to totally satisfy her I recommend the last technique with your fingers. If you need more info let me know. Hope this helps.
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Most people just don't reach far enough back. You'll feel it when you find it. It's like a little pea up under the soft tissue and you work it with a great deal of pressure. This isn't a gentle stroke procedure.
I've had plenty of girls I've fucked say they can't and I've managed to prove them all wrong. It did take one girl two hours to do it though
Tell them not to worry about feeling like they have to piss. It'll feel like that at first...it goes away. Don't expect fireworks either. Some girls literately just dribble even though their scream their head off. The orgasm from the g-spot is a very different feeling then the clitoris one.
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I'm not saying it's a myth... but, I am saying that "all girls can do this" is not a correct statement.eisenberg12 said:
For every "surefire" sex tip, there are plenty of women and men who get nothing from it. I know a woman who did kegel excercises constantly and really got nothing from it except for a trip to the doctor for a constricted bladder.
Your #1 surefire bet is to ask her what she likes. Try some new things out. Read the book that Lady_Aria posted. Read others. Maybe some g-spot love is just what your girl needs, maybe it's the last thing she needs.
I'm sure we'd love to hear how it works out for you both.
Wow. I know some women who would probably like to have your number on speed dial.LadyAria said:
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Some women do. Some don't. Some do sometimes and not others. If you can make your woman orgasms dozens of times any time you want then THAT should be the goal. If, under some circumstances she "squirts" then that can be a bonus. On the other hand some women who do "squirt" produce a LOT of fluid. Cuming like crazy is fun. Squirting is unique. The clean-up can be a bitch. Anybody who wants their woman to squirt should consider the long term effects.
Likely the BEST technique to achieve this is in my TRY THIS AND REPORT BACK thread on this page. It IS achievable. Make sure you have lots of towels on the bed and do NOT expect the kind of results that you see on some of the porn sites. For the most part those scenes where she squirts enough to put out a house fire from across the room are NOT legit.
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892
Some women do. Some don't. Some do sometimes and not others. If you can make your woman orgasms dozens of times any time you want then THAT should be the goal. If, under some circumstances she "squirts" then that can be a bonus. On the other hand some women who do "squirt" produce a LOT of fluid. Cuming like crazy is fun. Squirting is unique. The clean-up can be a bitch. Anybody who wants their woman to squirt should consider the long term effects.
Likely the BEST technique to achieve this is in my TRY THIS AND REPORT BACK thread on this page. It IS achievable. Make sure you have lots of towels on the bed and do NOT expect the kind of results that you see on some of the porn sites. For the most part those scenes where she squirts enough to put out a house fire from across the room are NOT legit.
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892
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neck_romancer said:
I am going to say that it is possible to make all women squirt. Yes some take longer than others but it is absolutely possible to make all women do this with the proper stimulation on the G Spot. Also it depends on the pressure. Some women need more than others on the G spot. But I know for a fact that it's a physical reaction and is very possible for ALL women. Trust me and a few friends who are doctors, one who is an OB/GYN, as well as numerous anatomy and physiology classes I personally have taken.
Also if you have a women that has a "organ that is similar to a prostate", you have a guy or hermaphrodite. Since where the male prostate is her ovaries are and there would be no room.
The last comment you made, "if she hasn't, you're about as likely to birth a child out of your dick." Obviously you just aren't doing it right. Like LadyAria said 'Most people just don't reach far enough back. You'll feel it when you find it. It's like a little pea up under the soft tissue and you work it with a great deal of pressure. This isn't a gentle stroke procedure."
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Well, any colorful comments about male childbirth notwithstanding, I'm still calling bullshit on this. And, what I'm doing hardly plays into it, so don't try to defend your position by playing the sexual inadequacy card. Most of the women I talk to about this aren't my sexual partners, anyway. I could always ask what you are doing messing around with the g-spot when you could be making love to your woman's whole body and telling her what a stone cold fox she is. But, whatever gets your girl off, man, go for it.eisenberg12 said:
If anything, research on the g-spot is inconclusive. There are medical opinions for and against it. The Grafenburg study has its detractors, and if you want to call them sex-negative woman haters, you're not just being disingenuous, you don't know much about the scientific method. I'm giving the yes-sayers the benefit of the doubt - if you can get off on g-spot stimulation, you obviously have a g-spot. But, no single woman I have ever talked to about sex has ever had a g-spot orgasm, and many have tried, and tried, and tried. And then, people just tell them, "Well, you're not doing it right." Uh-uh.
I brought it up to a good friend last night, and she about erupted. She went and got her copy of "The Female Thing" by Laura Kipnis and quoted a pretty funny passage about how the g-spot is just another tool to sell this bogus second-wave feminist "every woman has an inner sex goddess waiting to be unleashed" crap, which is not true (hats off to the women for whom it is true, of course). And, this is coming from a very sex-positive woman.
Let's say every woman did have a g-spot, and every woman could ejaculate from g-spot stimulation. If it takes you three or four sessions at one or two hours each just to get the g-spot orgasm, you really have to decide whether it's worth it to you. If it is, then dig in and hope for the best. But, I think a lot of women would rather, I don't know... rub the clit for a few minutes and spend the rest of the night reading a book?
If you're living in g-spot land, where you and every woman you know have g-spot orgasms, I'm happy for you. It's not where I live, and not where a lot of people live.
Oh, and, @eisenberg12: Yep, that's basically the argument (hermaphrodism) for the prostate thing. Cross-sex characteristics aren't as rare as some people think.
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HOURS for G-gasms? NO!!!
1952, this is an interesting subject for a lot of people. Don't be a dork and kill it with a bunch of nonsense posts.
Neck said "If it takes you three or four sessions at one or two hours each just to get the g-spot orgasm, you really have to decide whether it's worth it to you. If it is, then dig in and hope for the best. But, I think a lot of women would rather, I don't know... rub the clit for a few minutes and spend the rest of the night reading a book?""
Once the woman has experienced a G-Gasm (NOT necessarily a squirting - just an orgasm through GSpot stimulation) with a knowledgeable partner it takes an average of less than 2 MINUTES to get there again - any time - any place. You can keep GOING for hours if you want or are able but to get that first huge O - 2 min !!
I have known some women who I considered extremely open and thought they knew their bodies and all its reactions way better than the average woman and they have been stunned at the speed of a G-Gasm, the intensity and the ability to repeat it over and over and over again.
It is NOT hard to find and it is even easier to stimulate once you actually know how. Sadly even the experts don't really have a clue. Dr. Whipple's latest book says nothing on HOW TO just that in her opinion the GSpot does seem to exist in some women. The URL that I keep posting will give you that HOW TO information. I'm the first to admit that this does NOT work on ALL women but if done right and with no other medical impediments to the Technique it does work for lot s and lots of couples who have the balls to actually try it and not spend all their time posting messages on the internet stating categorically that the GSpot doesn't exist and multiple O's using the GSpot as stim. point is medically impossible.
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892
1952, this is an interesting subject for a lot of people. Don't be a dork and kill it with a bunch of nonsense posts.
Neck said "If it takes you three or four sessions at one or two hours each just to get the g-spot orgasm, you really have to decide whether it's worth it to you. If it is, then dig in and hope for the best. But, I think a lot of women would rather, I don't know... rub the clit for a few minutes and spend the rest of the night reading a book?""
Once the woman has experienced a G-Gasm (NOT necessarily a squirting - just an orgasm through GSpot stimulation) with a knowledgeable partner it takes an average of less than 2 MINUTES to get there again - any time - any place. You can keep GOING for hours if you want or are able but to get that first huge O - 2 min !!
I have known some women who I considered extremely open and thought they knew their bodies and all its reactions way better than the average woman and they have been stunned at the speed of a G-Gasm, the intensity and the ability to repeat it over and over and over again.
It is NOT hard to find and it is even easier to stimulate once you actually know how. Sadly even the experts don't really have a clue. Dr. Whipple's latest book says nothing on HOW TO just that in her opinion the GSpot does seem to exist in some women. The URL that I keep posting will give you that HOW TO information. I'm the first to admit that this does NOT work on ALL women but if done right and with no other medical impediments to the Technique it does work for lot s and lots of couples who have the balls to actually try it and not spend all their time posting messages on the internet stating categorically that the GSpot doesn't exist and multiple O's using the GSpot as stim. point is medically impossible.
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892
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listen to mr. ggg. i squirted for the first time less than a week ago. i didn't think i could. go to his topic and it should work.
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I always wondered about squirting,,, had heard of women who had, but never had myself until I was 46...and it was only with finger stimulation...it did feel like I wanted to pee, but it wasn't pee, it was clear liquid and a lot of it and I had never had such an intense orgasm...It is not a regular thing...sometimes he could be doing the exact same thing, or so it felt, but I would not get off, at all, other times, I would squirt...go figure, only one man has ever been able to do this to me.
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It does seem to be a matter of if the fellow "rubs you right" I have been with two ladies that squirted...It was NOT urine...LOL as the first time it happened I was going down on her and got a mouthful.......I almost came right then..wow.
I'm not sure about if every woman could squirt...I do know that not every woman finds G spot stimuation pleasing...and yes I do know where it is & how it feels..it's easy after the first time....The women that do like it tend to repond to the rubbing quicker after the first time.. so even without squirting you can give your lady friend very intence orgasms.
I'm not sure about if every woman could squirt...I do know that not every woman finds G spot stimuation pleasing...and yes I do know where it is & how it feels..it's easy after the first time....The women that do like it tend to repond to the rubbing quicker after the first time.. so even without squirting you can give your lady friend very intence orgasms.
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It is possible...
My general philosophy on this subject is that you try g-spot stimulation first with fingers, curl them up inside her like you're gesturing for someone to come to you and just keep doing it. If she says she likes it, keep doing it. Sometimes though the sensation can get so intense that she might want to stop. If you continue at that point you risk scraping her insides.
Two tips:
1. Trim your nails to the point where there is no white part showing.
2. Try wearing gloves. Latex or any alternative works. They provide slightly different sensations than bare fingers and you will be practicing safer sex.
From personal experience, some people can finger right and some can't. Don't make squirting the goal, just making it pleasurable should be the goal and you can work up to squirting if both of you feel comfortable doing it.
Good luck.
My general philosophy on this subject is that you try g-spot stimulation first with fingers, curl them up inside her like you're gesturing for someone to come to you and just keep doing it. If she says she likes it, keep doing it. Sometimes though the sensation can get so intense that she might want to stop. If you continue at that point you risk scraping her insides.
Two tips:
1. Trim your nails to the point where there is no white part showing.
2. Try wearing gloves. Latex or any alternative works. They provide slightly different sensations than bare fingers and you will be practicing safer sex.
From personal experience, some people can finger right and some can't. Don't make squirting the goal, just making it pleasurable should be the goal and you can work up to squirting if both of you feel comfortable doing it.
Good luck.
