How do you Like your Cuckolds? ;)

[Adham07]

Let me tell you that cuckolding is probably my biggest fetish and the most frequent fantasy I use while jerking off. I love it so much because it is just so kinky and naughty.

However, I have limits to it. Many of the cuckold stories here on literotica (especially in the interracial genre) involve the husband being totally demeaned, the wife taking absolute control, and total humiliation for the husband. There is even a story which involves the wife not allowing her husband to fuck her EVER AGAIN and having ANOTHER MAN's babies, I mean COME ON how can a man be totally dominated like that, that is a total perversion of the laws of nature. These stories may be hot and I sometimes enjoy them but I always prefer the kind of cuckolding where the husband has a certain degree of control, and clearly enjoys watching his wife get the fucking of her lifetime, not because he is forced to or because he has a small cock but because he loves her, and wants to fulfill a little fantasy of his.

Now it is beyond doubt that the humiliation factor has to be there, otherwise it wont be interesting. Maybe if the wife makes a comment about how he never fucked her like that before, or how he doesn't please her then thats all good.

I also would like to say that I have written a story about cuckolding just the way I like it. I have posted it in the interracial section. It is called my "Hot Wife's Birthday"

I'm hoping to submit it to the site very soon!!

 

[sxyhotwfe6649]

Where exactly is that story posted? It sounds very much like something I would enjoy reading.

Let me tell you that cuckolding is probably my biggest fetish and the most frequent fantasy I use while jerking off. I love it so much because it is just so kinky and naughty.

However, I have limits to it. Many of the cuckold stories here on literotica (especially in the interracial genre) involve the husband being totally demeaned, the wife taking absolute control, and total humiliation for the husband. There is even a story which involves the wife not allowing her husband to fuck her EVER AGAIN and having ANOTHER MAN's babies, I mean COME ON how can a man be totally dominated like that, that is a total perversion of the laws of nature. These stories may be hot and I sometimes enjoy them but I always prefer the kind of cuckolding where the husband has a certain degree of control, and clearly enjoys watching his wife get the fucking of her lifetime, not because he is forced to or because he has a small cock but because he loves her, and wants to fulfill a little fantasy of his.

Now it is beyond doubt that the humiliation factor has to be there, otherwise it wont be interesting. Maybe if the wife makes a comment about how he never fucked her like that before, or how he doesn't please her then thats all good.

I also would like to say that I have written a story about cuckolding just the way I like it. I have posted it in the interracial section. It is called my "Hot Wife's Birthday"

I'm hoping to submit it to the site very soon!!

 

[sunandshadow]

Where exactly is that story posted? It sounds very much like something I would enjoy reading.

If you meant the one he mentioned as a bad example, it might be this one:
http://www.asstr.org/files/Collections/Kristen's_Collection/www/54/cuckold.txt
(I hope I'm allowed to link that)

 

[Adham07]

Where exactly is that story posted? It sounds very much like something I would enjoy reading.

Well its not accepted yet but it should be in the interracial section.

 

[Carnevil9]

Okay, this topic totally eludes me. How the fuck is it "hot" to be cuckolded? By definition, a cuckold is a man whose wife is cheating on him without his knowledge, and who is a laughingstock in the community. Doesn't sound the least bit hot to me!......Carney

 

[ttvttp]

Though I like the humilation I just dont like the stories where it doesnt really involve the sex and this might not be a cuckold story but it involves a husband. He views his wife having sex with another man and in the end leaves her. There is barely any sex involved in the story. Just has the husband finding out and leaving her in the end. But the cuckold stories that involve a black man who is cuckolded by a white man. Its not racist just to many cuckolded stories involving a black man cuckolding a white man.

 

[sunandshadow]

Okay, this topic totally eludes me. How the fuck is it "hot" to be cuckolded? By definition, a cuckold is a man whose wife is cheating on him without his knowledge, and who is a laughingstock in the community. Doesn't sound the least bit hot to me!......Carney

I don't really understand it either, although I run into it (like the one linked above) when looking for impregnation stories.

 

[jimhaullis]

I love erotica where a woman can be free to enjoy her sexuality and have her husband watch. I'm not a fan of humiliation, unless in a bdsm story. I belive that women think about mfm like we men think about fmf so im all for sharing my wife!

Let me tell you that cuckolding is probably my biggest fetish and the most frequent fantasy I use while jerking off. I love it so much because it is just so kinky and naughty.

However, I have limits to it. Many of the cuckold stories here on literotica (especially in the interracial genre) involve the husband being totally demeaned, the wife taking absolute control, and total humiliation for the husband. There is even a story which involves the wife not allowing her husband to fuck her EVER AGAIN and having ANOTHER MAN's babies, I mean COME ON how can a man be totally dominated like that, that is a total perversion of the laws of nature. These stories may be hot and I sometimes enjoy them but I always prefer the kind of cuckolding where the husband has a certain degree of control, and clearly enjoys watching his wife get the fucking of her lifetime, not because he is forced to or because he has a small cock but because he loves her, and wants to fulfill a little fantasy of his.

Now it is beyond doubt that the humiliation factor has to be there, otherwise it wont be interesting. Maybe if the wife makes a comment about how he never fucked her like that before, or how he doesn't please her then thats all good.

I also would like to say that I have written a story about cuckolding just the way I like it. I have posted it in the interracial section. It is called my "Hot Wife's Birthday"

I'm hoping to submit it to the site very soon!!

 

[Roamme]

My side

Being a wife I don’t get the whole cuckold thing but I do sometimes read Loving Wives stories because I like reading where a wife is completely ok with her husband to have fun and even cheat without worrying about losing her husband, family, home and reputation. I sometimes get jealous with my husband (women flirt with him a lot and I know some of my friends have tried to get together with him). I don’t know how I could handle it if I found out he fully cheated on me.

I love my husband and don’t want to humiliate him, dominate him or never sleep with him again. That part of stories is a turn off. I like my husband’s size and I don’t like very big pee pees. I actually like smaller ones sometimes because they don’t hurt with anal and oral as much. I don’t like to read all the negative stuff about them just because there smaller.

I do like impregnation fantasies a lot. I would never do it but I love the danger of possibly getting pregnant by someone not my husband, as long as he looks like my husband. For me that means I don’t care for other races only because I can’t pass the baby off as my husband’s. I guess that is why I sometimes like incest stories with my husband’s brothers because they’re basically the same thing. I don’t like humiliation most of the time but I do like stories with MFM. FMF and FFF, gang bangs, orgies, drug rape and gang rape. It’s all about fun anyways!

 

[evilmittens]

Loving Wives is more what the OP wants in a way. Cuckhold has this image of the man being dominated element that makes it different then loving wives. I perfer the loving wives theme more then the totally out of control Cuckold bit, but hey, enjoy what gets you off!

 

[vanthianna]

Cuckold or not I think it would be really really hot to tell my husband he had to watch as another man fucked me. Perhaps a little system of exchange: For every time he wants to fuck her he must first watch her get fucked by another. He must want it bad enough to ask for it too. And over time perhaps grow to like it?

 

[Somehowyou]

Being a wife I don’t get the whole cuckold thing

Many woman I have met do not understand it. I met a young petite white woman down south who told me that she and her husband used to be swingers until they had kids. She had post partum after the last kid and she told her husband that she had interracial fantasies. Her white husband hooked her up with his black freind. His buddy and his buddies freinds (all black) gang banged her. The freind still fucks her from time-to-time. Her husband doesn't mind and seems to like it telling me that she is a good fuck. She told me (just before she fucked me) that she doesnt understand it (how her husband can get off on this). She can't watch her husband fuck another woman. It just makes her fly into a rage with jealousy and that is one of the reasons they stoped swinging years ago.

I do not understand it either but when I caought my wife in an affair my mind was mixed with several emotions including rage, depression, and arousal. I can remeber one of the first thoughts that popped into the back of my mind was a threesome with her and her lover as I was questioning her. When she left me, all I wanted was to fuck her and leave my seed in her. I t took me a few months to deal with this feeling. Interesting. I don't understand it and I really don't want to go there again but that was on of the emotions that I felt. Why?

There must be a reason why we have a entire section for loving wifes but we do not have one for loving husbands. Why is this? There must be something in our genetic code that makes men feel and behave this way.

 

[BossySon21a]

Many woman I have met do not understand it. I met a young petite white woman down south who told me that she and her husband used to be swingers until they had kids. She had post partum after the last kid and she told her husband that she had interracial fantasies. Her white husband hooked her up with his black freind. His buddy and his buddies freinds (all black) gang banged her. The freind still fucks her from time-to-time. Her husband doesn't mind and seems to like it telling me that she is a good fuck. She told me (just before she fucked me) that she doesnt understand it (how her husband can get off on this). She can't watch her husband fuck another woman. It just makes her fly into a rage with jealousy and that is one of the reasons they stoped swinging years ago.

I do not understand it either but when I caought my wife in an affair my mind was mixed with several emotions including rage, depression, and arousal. I can remeber one of the first thoughts that popped into the back of my mind was a threesome with her and her lover as I was questioning her. When she left me, all I wanted was to fuck her and leave my seed in her. I t took me a few months to deal with this feeling. Interesting. I don't understand it and I really don't want to go there again but that was on of the emotions that I felt. Why?

There must be a reason why we have a entire section for loving wifes but we do not have one for loving husbands. Why is this? There must be something in our genetic code that makes men feel and behave this way.

Or it could be that the huge majority of the readers of Literotica are male? I'm not absolutely certain that's true, but it's the way I'd bet.

 

[Somehowyou]

Or it could be that the huge majority of the readers of Literotica are male? I'm not absolutely certain that's true, but it's the way I'd bet.

I believe the majority are male but there are enough woman out there (I caht with many) and some fo the most prolific authoirs are female. I do not see any stories about wives trying to make their husbands whores and setting them up with females so that the wives can feed off the jealousness to get horny. Dont see a lot of these types of stories...

 

[HardNightDay]

Okay, this topic totally eludes me. How the fuck is it "hot" to be cuckolded? By definition, a cuckold is a man whose wife is cheating on him without his knowledge, and who is a laughingstock in the community. Doesn't sound the least bit hot to me!......Carney

Actually the definition of a cuckold is a man who's wife sleeps with other men. There is nothing else required. Any cheating wife story is by definition a cuckold story.

 

[HardNightDay]

Loving Wives is more what the OP wants in a way. Cuckhold has this image of the man being dominated element that makes it different then loving wives. I perfer the loving wives theme more then the totally out of control Cuckold bit, but hey, enjoy what gets you off!

Since there seems to be a lot of misconception about the definition of the word Cuckold. From the American Heritage Dictionary...

cuck·old

PRONUNCIATION: kkld, kk-

NOUN: A man married to an unfaithful wife.

TRANSITIVE VERB: Inflected forms: cuck·old·ed, cuck·old·ing, cuck·olds
To make a cuckold of.

ETYMOLOGY: Middle English cokewald, from Anglo-Norman *cucuald, from cucu, the cuckoo, from Vulgar Latin *cucclus, from Latin cuclus.
WORD HISTORY: The allusion to the cuckoo on which the word cuckold is based may not be appreciated by those unfamiliar with the nesting habits of certain varieties of this bird. The female of some Old World cuckoos lays its eggs in the nests of other birds, leaving them to be cared for by the resident nesters. This parasitic tendency has given the female bird a figurative reputation for unfaithfulness as well. Hence in Old French we find the word cucuault, composed of cocu, “cuckoo, cuckold,” and the pejorative suffix –ald and used to designate a husband whose wife has wandered afield like the female cuckoo. An earlier assumed form of the Old French word was borrowed into Middle English by way of Anglo-Norman. Middle English cokewold, the ancestor of Modern English cuckold, is first recorded in a work written around 1250.

 

[HardNightDay]

I do not understand it either but when I caought my wife in an affair my mind was mixed with several emotions including rage, depression, and arousal. I can remeber one of the first thoughts that popped into the back of my mind was a threesome with her and her lover as I was questioning her. When she left me, all I wanted was to fuck her and leave my seed in her. I t took me a few months to deal with this feeling. Interesting. I don't understand it and I really don't want to go there again but that was on of the emotions that I felt. Why?

I had a similar experience years ago. My wife had an affair;I couldn't have been more shocked. I went through the usual male emotions anger, sadness, betrayal, etc. I had the unfortunate experience of finding out about it while it was going on. I of course confronted her, she admitted it. She got the ultimatum to stop or I would divorce her. She agreed to stop. Only problem was she didn't right away. I confronted her again, but she denied it was still going on. We both knew though when she was late coming home where she'd been. It was hell. It made me feel like crap. The affair finally ended for good a month later.

Thing is during that 1 month I knew what was going on, could picture it in my mind and a part of me was turned on. After a time i even developed some masturbation fantasies that included the three of us.

I would never want to live my life as a cuckold, but it didn't take long for me to learn that with the right woman, in the right circumstances, in an honest committed relationship, cuckolding can be a very exciting, erotic part of the couples sex life.

To answer the original posters question I would have no interest in being strongly humiliated (my ego is big enough to talk a little embarrassment), denied, lied to, or abused in any way. If that were going on in a relationship, I would kick her butt to the curb pretty quick.

 

[Somehowyou]

Yes but why

I know the topic of the thread was "how do you like your cuckolds" I am asking a different question (I feel this is OK since the thread was dead for a month). Why? Why does knowing that your wife/GF is sleeping around excite most men? This almost seems to be an "instinctive" response but why? This does not make sense. I do like these stories and I am trying to determine why.

 

[HardNightDay]

I know the topic of the thread was "how do you like your cuckolds" I am asking a different question (I feel this is OK since the thread was dead for a month). Why? Why does knowing that your wife/GF is sleeping around excite most men? This almost seems to be an "instinctive" response but why? This does not make sense. I do like these stories and I am trying to determine why.

What does it make you feel? What are your base reactions?

 

[Somehowyou]

Some thoughts

What does it make you feel? What are your base reactions?

Mostly I feel arousal. Maybe its because basic sex between a man and a woman, while enjoyable, is too vanilla to read about? This kind of sex pushes the envelope. I think the jealousy factor helps make it more erotic. You want something that someone else wants too. You appreciate her so bad when you are on the razors edge of losing her. When you know she is cheating on you or (take it the next step) if you can watch someone else fuck her you realize how sexy she is. When someone wants her she is all the more desireable.
It makes everything new. You no longer have that "I've already had her" feeling. She is now as sexy as that girl that you walked by on the street that you wish you could have. You lose control. Her rebellious nature is exciting. You see a new side of her. The fact that she is acting like a slut or a whore breaks the vanilla sterotype of the predictable, boring, soccor mom that you feared that she has become. Couples like to lay in bed and talk about it. "Show me how you make love to your boyfriend" or "Honey, I want you to take on a lover" while you are fingering her. You don't really want to go through with this but the fantasy is exciting.

These are some very random thoughts. How about a story of a psychologist that is conducting research on the subject and while in the middle of his ressearch, his wife begins an affair? He is intrigued at first and then he becomes totally caught up in the game. He loses all control. If he wants to have her he must share her with her lover. He must spend tortured hours waiting for her to come home and than she tells him how she was made love to by her boyfriend....

 

[AchtungNight]

<To answer the original posters question I would have no interest in being strongly humiliated (my ego is big enough to talk a little embarrassment), denied, lied to, or abused in any way. If that were going on in a relationship, I would kick her butt to the curb pretty quick.> I'm like this too. Sex where the parties involved are honest, loving, and accepting is great. But take that out and it becomes [bleah]. Jealousy, envy, selfish pride, intolerance- I accept these things exist, but I still don't like them. Especially not in my lovers.

Somehowyou: I think you stated the reasons people like this stuff pretty well. I want to add something though. Loose women excite men... well, open-minded men at least. And I think most men who would read erotic stories are pretty open-minded. These women have a lust for life, and are willing to enjoy all they can of it. This expression of free spirit from the women, whether it attracts them to men or to other women or to both, captivates us men. We want to feel that way ourselves and celebrate such spirit with the women who have it. It enhances our feelings towards them, and we hope that our acceptance and excitement does the same for their feelings towards us. That's what I believe anyway.

Interesting story idea about the psychologist. I'd be intrigued to read that.

 

[Somehowyou]

<Somehowyou: I think you stated the reasons people like this stuff pretty well. I want to add something though. Loose women excite men... QUOTE]


Lets hear it for loose women! I couldn't agree more AchtungNight. From here on out, all my relationships will be open ones!

 

[agedmac]

when I was still a teenager realized I had fantasies in this area. Was a bit of a jock and a 'stud' type with the ladies and got with this one girl who I really was into. Then, one night I went by her house to see her and saw another guy I knew car in her driveway. The car was rocking. I snuck up and even though the windows were pretty fogged up, I could see her riding him hard and heard her moan and say, 'fuck me hard!'.

I still remember the two emotions. I wanted to jerk the car door open and beat the crap out of both of them. And I felt myself get hard and I pulled down my zipper on my shorts and jerked off on the side of the car!

The next day she came up to me at school and whispered, "I saw you watching; did you like it?" Damn! Didn't see her again but it really got to me.

In college, at a party with a girl and she ended up making out with a friend as I watched. He leaned over to me and said, "If you let me, I'll fuck him in front of you!" I didn't say anything as so she did. I got up and left when I saw him pull out and jerk his condom off and spew over her.

Now, I've been married forever and I've never fooled around and my wife (to my knowledge) hasn't either. And deep down, when I thought (wrongly) many years ago that she had an affair, I went through both the anger and arousal emotions.

According to research, the #1 male fantasy is watching your wife/girlfriend doing somebody else (the number one female is some sort of seduction by a mysterious stranger).

So, I think the whole cuckold thing is pretty complicated.

 

[HardNightDay]

when I was still a teenager realized I had fantasies in this area. Was a bit of a jock and a 'stud' type with the ladies and got with this one girl who I really was into. Then, one night I went by her house to see her and saw another guy I knew car in her driveway. The car was rocking. I snuck up and even though the windows were pretty fogged up, I could see her riding him hard and heard her moan and say, 'fuck me hard!'.

I still remember the two emotions. I wanted to jerk the car door open and beat the crap out of both of them. And I felt myself get hard and I pulled down my zipper on my shorts and jerked off on the side of the car!

The next day she came up to me at school and whispered, "I saw you watching; did you like it?" Damn! Didn't see her again but it really got to me.

In college, at a party with a girl and she ended up making out with a friend as I watched. He leaned over to me and said, "If you let me, I'll fuck him in front of you!" I didn't say anything as so she did. I got up and left when I saw him pull out and jerk his condom off and spew over her.

Now, I've been married forever and I've never fooled around and my wife (to my knowledge) hasn't either. And deep down, when I thought (wrongly) many years ago that she had an affair, I went through both the anger and arousal emotions.

According to research, the #1 male fantasy is watching your wife/girlfriend doing somebody else (the number one female is some sort of seduction by a mysterious stranger).

So, I think the whole cuckold thing is pretty complicated.

I suspect it somehow reaches into our more base instincts. There's some part of me that feels that this phenom goes all the way back to the cave man days when males competed physically for females. I imagine it was not uncommon then for the losing male to not only put up with the indignity of losing the fight but also watching the female he desires get taken by the man that just beat him. I can also imagine back then, when a man and woman were mated that she might harbor desires for some other well hung scantily clad male and that she might enjoy the power she wields in getting them to fight for her and the pleasure she gets from the victor...after all he's far more likely to produce strong offspring, right?

I know for me the above is a part of the equation. However, there's more to it. It's also about truly loving the one your with and wanting her to feel good and being evolved enough to say I don't need to feel threatened by this. Of course, deep down inside that inner cave man really is a little jealous.

One thought, the male and female fantasies are not incompatible. She can be seduced by the mysterious stranger while her mate watches.

 

[Somehowyou]

I suspect it somehow reaches into our more base instincts. There's some part of me that feels that this phenom goes all the way back to the cave man days when males competed physically for females. I imagine it was not uncommon then for the losing male to not only put up with the indignity of losing the fight but also watching the female he desires get taken by the man that just beat him. I can also imagine back then, when a man and woman were mated that she might harbor desires for some other well hung scantily clad male and that she might enjoy the power she wields in getting them to fight for her and the pleasure she gets from the victor...after all he's far more likely to produce strong offspring, right?

I know for me the above is a part of the equation. However, there's more to it. It's also about truly loving the one your with and wanting her to feel good and being evolved enough to say I don't need to feel threatened by this. Of course, deep down inside that inner cave man really is a little jealous.

One thought, the male and female fantasies are not incompatible. She can be seduced by the mysterious stranger while her mate watches.

I agree. This is probably a basic instinct that is probably deep in our genetic code. I suspect that jealousy is probably an instinct that ensures our propagation. How else can you explain one of the feeling you have when you catch your wife fucking around you are so aroused. One of your most basic urges is to fertilize her eggs. It is a big competition...like survival of the fitest. You are trying to fight for what is yours and she is trying to find the strongest mate.