How do yo

[Juspar Emvan]

cope with/ move on from the person you love above all others accusing you of wanting to be with an ex?

 

[lobito]

sit and talk with them, and don't get up, until you both agree that everythings ok.

 

[Wiggles]

Swallow your pride, understand their insecurity.

Have a long hard talk about how much you love them and how much it hurts that they don't trust you completely. Recognize that they just feel inadequate, and they think that they deserve to be cheated on (maybe?).

Love, time, talking, comforting, and more talking.

I think?

(Hugs) Just make it work, you know? Don't take it personally or offensively. It's usually some deeper issue that they're dealing with. Abandonment? Self-esteem? Etc..?

This is coming from a girl who's been known to throw accusations out, usually because of the above reasons.

Hope it goes ok, Juspar. You do deserve this.

 

[Juspar Emvan]

Wiggles, thanks. That made me cry, and it's so observant. I relaly appreciate it.

Lobito - that is all I couild think of, and that's why I hate Long Distance Relationships.

 

[Guest]

cope with/ move on from the person you love above all others accusing you of wanting to be with an ex?

It's not easy. The one you love needs to find some self esteem, and you can't give them that. No matter what you say, it will come up again.

I hate jealousy. It's screwed up some pretty good relationships in my past. I've had to move on reluctantly more than once because of that green eye'd monster.

Moon

 

[Guest]

Talk to them. Look in their eyes. Speak from your heart. Work through the issue together. Partners, you know?

It's tough. And, I'm sorry.

 

[Juspar Emvan]

Re: Re: How do yo

It's screwed up some pretty good relationships in my past. I've had to move on reluctantly more than once because of that green eye'd monster.

Thank you moon, I agree and apreciate your words. On this point though - I refuse to give up, this is the one.

Thanks rain dancer, if only it was three miles, not three hundred.

 

[lobito]

Juspar, I did the LDR thing before getting married finally. Over 1000 miles, and not knowing when trust issues would come up.

Hang in there, it's gonna get better, I guarantee you. Or your money back.

 

[lickerish]

This thread was fucking intelligent.

Unbelievable.

 

[Juspar Emvan]

this thread was turning to the few friends I have in a search for a way to save the one thing that is most important to me

 

[Siren]

 

[lickerish]

Yes people, lets have an open forum discussion on how insecure Lickerish is.. and let's all give Juspar a big hug because we feel so bad for the poor guy.

Whatever.

Would have been nice to run it by me first. Don'tcha think?


Next up, lets talk about Juspar's sexual disfunctions, we're all friends here.. I'm sure he won't mind.

Gah.

 

[Juspar Emvan]

Lickerish is what she is, and I love her. But I'm a typical guy and can't put my emotions into the right words. There was a rift in the most important relationship I have, and I sought help. I never asked what was wrong with my girl friend, I asked if people could help me solve my problem.

But there is no way to win this.

 

[lickerish]

Fine J.. you do things your way... I'll make it less embarrassing for me and do things mine.


lickerish has left the building.

 

[Siren]

 

[sexy-girl]

i second what siren says maybe this question shouldnt of been asked here ... but will just say quickly keep in mind long distance relationships SUCK ... they can be the stepping stone onto something amazing ... and they do have some amazing parts to them of course but the downs are really really tough ... gee i use to feel insecure about lisa and she did about me ... i think everyone feels that way sometimes in a long distance relationship