How do people do it?

[KinkyTeacherGuy]

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[NiceNastyMann]

My wife and I are separated right now, and I am living in Denver while she lives with the kids in Tennessee (don't ask how THAT happened; it's job-related). Both of us envision getting back together eventually, but between issues with our marriage and uncertainty regarding the sale of the Tennessee house, I have no idea when that will happen.

At the moment, this VERY moment, I don't know how people get by like this. It's been nearly a month, and I'm so horny I'm about ready to explode. Going out and trying to hook up doesn't really seem realistic, considering I'm 40 (but not bad-looking at all), considering that my finger either has a ring on it or a clearly-indicated ring mark where it was previously, and considering that I'd rather just be able to be honest with people about where I am with my life at the moment.

So here I am surfing Literotica again, probably making things worse for myself. I cruised the Casual Encounters section of CL earlier, and they all sound like totally fake ads. I've enjoyed chatting with people on Yahoo Messenger now and again, but in the end, I'm still alone and taking care of business all by myself. The funny thing is, what I miss most is KISSING. Just making out, with our mouths caressing each other, and tasting each other, and tongues dancing together and floating between her lips and her cheek and her neck and her chest and back to her mouth again. I can give MYSELF an orgasm, but I really, really miss female touch and the taste and feel of a woman's mouth.

Not really sure what I'm doing here or why I am writing this or what I'm looking for in response, but I needed a place to post this and vent and talk about it without getting judged and without people I know finding out.

That's it, I guess.

Day by day by mind numbing day.

 

[StrayKat]

The same way people live with any kind of burden.
You get a cold shower or a pain killer and bear with it.

 

[KinkyTeacherGuy]

The same way people live with any kind of burden.
You get a cold shower or a pain killer and bear with it.

Yeah, that's pretty much what I figured people would say.

 

[DiablosWhore]

It being Memorial Day, it might be wise, and less selfish, to reflect on how our military men and women do it. Gone for months, if not years, at a time, then have only a few days or a week to be together again. How do they do it? I don't know, but my guess is that Stray Kat didn't miss it by much ...a good cold shower at the right time, and some pain/sleeping pills when it's worse.

Take a moment to reflect on it.

Also, you being a school admin, and school is almost out, why not get ready to go back to her instead of posting to a personals ad on LIT or some other similar site?

 

[LadyVer]

My wife and I are separated right now, and I am living in Denver while she lives with the kids in Tennessee (don't ask how THAT happened; it's job-related). Both of us envision getting back together eventually, but between issues with our marriage and uncertainty regarding the sale of the Tennessee house, I have no idea when that will happen.

At the moment, this VERY moment, I don't know how people get by like this. It's been nearly a month, and I'm so horny I'm about ready to explode. Going out and trying to hook up doesn't really seem realistic, considering I'm 40 (but not bad-looking at all), considering that my finger either has a ring on it or a clearly-indicated ring mark where it was previously, and considering that I'd rather just be able to be honest with people about where I am with my life at the moment.

So here I am surfing Literotica again, probably making things worse for myself. I cruised the Casual Encounters section of CL earlier, and they all sound like totally fake ads. I've enjoyed chatting with people on Yahoo Messenger now and again, but in the end, I'm still alone and taking care of business all by myself. The funny thing is, what I miss most is KISSING. Just making out, with our mouths caressing each other, and tasting each other, and tongues dancing together and floating between her lips and her cheek and her neck and her chest and back to her mouth again. I can give MYSELF an orgasm, but I really, really miss female touch and the taste and feel of a woman's mouth.

Not really sure what I'm doing here or why I am writing this or what I'm looking for in response, but I needed a place to post this and vent and talk about it without getting judged and without people I know finding out.

That's it, I guess.

Usually, the personals are held to a different standard where negative comments aren't appropriate because the op is in a vulnerable position. It takes courage to post a personal. I hear what you're saying. I've been in a similar situation. You may get some good feedback by posting in the How To forum. And there is nothing selfish about your post.

 

[KinkyTeacherGuy]

Usually, the personals are held to a different standard where negative comments aren't appropriate because the op is in a vulnerable position. It takes courage to post a personal. I hear what you're saying. I've been in a similar situation. You may get some good feedback by posting in the How To forum. And there is nothing selfish about your post.

Thanks, LadyVer.

 

[DiablosWhore]

.... I hear what you're saying. I've been in a similar situation. ...

So why didn't you tell him something that might have helped him? While I don't know, of course, but I'm guessing that there are more people than just the OP in that situation. Your help and advice might have helped many people. Holding back that valuable experience and knowledge is being a bit selfish, isn't it?

.... And there is nothing selfish about your post.

That's a matter of opinion, isn't it? Besides, maybe we could ask his wife if he's being selfish. After all, she's back in Tennessee taking care of the house and the kids. Selfish?

 

[LadyVer]

So why didn't you tell him something that might have helped him? While I don't know, of course, but I'm guessing that there are more people than just the OP in that situation. Your help and advice might have helped many people. Holding back that valuable experience and knowledge is being a bit selfish, isn't it?



That's a matter of opinion, isn't it? Besides, maybe we could ask his wife if he's being selfish. After all, she's back in Tennessee taking care of the house and the kids. Selfish?

What you don't get is someone else's personal is not the place to make personal judgements and condemnations. And to turn someone else's personal into your own platform for your issues shows a lack of judgement on your part. The end.

 

[KinkyTeacherGuy]

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[KinkyTeacherGuy]

What you don't get is someone else's personal is not the place to make personal judgements and condemnations. And to turn someone else's personal into your own platform for your issues shows a lack of judgement on your part. The end.

The one thing lacking on Lit is the ability to "like" a post.

 

[DiablosWhore]

What you don't get is someone else's personal is not the place to make personal judgements and condemnations. ....

I didn't do any of that, and you know it. So why are you falsely accusing me?

 

[Aka_MrMiracle]

What you don't get is someone else's personal is not the place to make personal judgements and condemnations. And to turn someone else's personal into your own platform for your issues shows a lack of judgement on your part. The end.

If you had to attach that to every one of Diabloswhore's posts, you wouldn't have enough people on this site with enough time to do it.

 

[Aka_MrMiracle]

I didn't do any of that, and you know it. So why are you falsely accusing me?

Oh, here we go. "Who, me?" Do fuck off.

 

[DiablosWhore]

I really didn't want to respond to any of this, but if you want to know - I lost my job when my school was closed, and I got a job in Denver, which my wife and I agreed would be a great place to live, and then my wife told me that she wanted to stay in Tennessee with the kids and think about our future. Considering I had no job in Tennessee, and I had a job in Denver, I didn't have a lot of choice in the matter. So I'm pretty sure that everyone involved is being selfish. ...

And yet, through all of that, you haven't explained what you're seeking here. Nor have you explained what your wife is doing to quell the loneliness and separation, or how she's doing all that housework and childcare without you. See?

None of that is any of my business, but it certainly might be of interest to some woman who is seeking a man on this site. So, see, ...it's not just me reading a asking, there are many who read the posts but never comment. Be careful how you present yourself ....even to someone like me.

 

[DiablosWhore]

If you had to attach that to every one of Diabloswhore's posts, you wouldn't have enough people on this site with enough time to do it.

I've only made just over 650 posts, so attaching anything to them shouldn't be all that time-consuming for you or anyone else. Check it out, you'll not see much of that on my posts. ;=)

 

[DiablosWhore]

Oh, here we go. "Who, me?" Do fuck off.

Is that, like, some advice you might take yourself? Where did you come from and why? ;=)

You jump in here and criticize my postings ....for criticizing someone else's posts? ....and you don't see that as you being a flaming hypocrite? ...LOL!!

 

[KinkyTeacherGuy]

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[DiablosWhore]

 

[KinkyTeacherGuy]

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[DiablosWhore]

Wow. You're really quite the bitchy troll, aren't you?

Perhaps.

But in the interesting of words and meanings, ...what do you call a husband who leaves his wife in some far away place to take care of his kids and his home while he goes off looking for some woman who will fuck him now and then so he won't be so horny?

Is there a word for a guy like that? "bitchy troll"? No, that won't work, will it? It's already taken ....and has been used by that same man who leaves his wife and kids and seeks fucking and sucking from some other woman.

 

[KinkyTeacherGuy]

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[StrayKat]

Well this escalated fast.
And whats with that "alt with 6 posts rushing into rescue" thing?

Welcome to the Lit, Mr. teacher, enjoy your stay

 

[bobcat2003]

It being Memorial Day, it might be wise, and less selfish, to reflect on how our military men and women do it. Gone for months, if not years, at a time, then have only a few days or a week to be together again. How do they do it? I don't know, but my guess is that Stray Kat didn't miss it by much ...a good cold shower at the right time, and some pain/sleeping pills when it's worse.

Take a moment to reflect on it.

Also, you being a school admin, and school is almost out, why not get ready to go back to her instead of posting to a personals ad on LIT or some other similar site?

How do the military men do it? Isn't there still such a thing as the women "giving it up" as a reward for their service like the good old days?

 

[KinkyTeacherGuy]

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