How do men view sluts?

[Haida_lee]

I'm sometimes looked down upon when I talk about my situation as a submissive wife. They argue based on their moral standards based on their religion. But the facts show that men who claim to be very religious are actually very morally corrupt. They use religion as a mask to justify their actions. I've had sex several times with my husband's friends, who he says are very pious and religious at home. It turns out their sexual fantasies are very wild, and they seek outlets for those fantasies outside the home. Because their wives can't keep up with their fantasies... please give me your opinion... thanks.

 

[CaptCharles]

I think this part of you makes you more beautiful and attractive.. some men just need to get out of their own way?

 

[000777]

I think this part of you makes you more beautiful and attractive.. some men just need to get out of their own way?

I think you are a perfect wife. Giving pleasure and receiving pleasure is a great gift! The reality is many men and women try to live up standards that society and friends deem acceptable. Many are sexually repressed. You have broken free of that and can live your life by doing what you enjoy and what you think is best for you, and your husband. I don't judge people when it comes to sex and having desires, fantasies and needs. Even religious people need love, passion and sex and they are human too. We all need those things. Regardless of your views on religion and sex or sex in general if you aren't religious, we are all imperfect human beings.

 

[Kolejdayz]

I'm sometimes looked down upon when I talk about my situation as a submissive wife. They argue based on their moral standards based on their religion. But the facts show that men who claim to be very religious are actually very morally corrupt. They use religion as a mask to justify their actions. I've had sex several times with my husband's friends, who he says are very pious and religious at home. It turns out their sexual fantasies are very wild, and they seek outlets for those fantasies outside the home. Because their wives can't keep up with their fantasies... please give me your opinion... thanks.

Sluts have a special charm all their own. I have never minded if my wife had little affairs with my friends, or my friends with my wife.

Your remarks about religion are interesting. Are there any religions or denominations have the wildest sex lives or fantasies.

 

[Chernosoth]

For some men, the answer may include "with binoculars."

 

[Biguy77578]

Women who enjoy sex as much as most men should not be considered any less of a person. My wife has had sex with others almost always with me present. That's her choice.

 

[wouldloveto]

I ignore any opinion based on religion. Why worry what someone thinks that believes in fairy tales?

 

[gtnlynn]

My wife admits to being a slut when we were dating in college, and I let her have a few dates with other men after we had been married a while. I love her for her openness and her ability to separate physical sex acts from the love that she feels for me.

 

[Stargatefan78]

I would date a slut.

 

[impresso]

It's definitely much better, more attractive and sexy than a grumpy jealous housewife who has forgotten what it is to enjoy life and sex )

 

[CaptCharles]

It's definitely much better, more attractive and sexy than a grumpy jealous housewife who has forgotten what it is to enjoy life and sex )

 

[MaturemanAJ]

I'm sometimes looked down upon when I talk about my situation as a submissive wife. They argue based on their moral standards based on their religion. But the facts show that men who claim to be very religious are actually very morally corrupt. They use religion as a mask to justify their actions. I've had sex several times with my husband's friends, who he says are very pious and religious at home. It turns out their sexual fantasies are very wild, and they seek outlets for those fantasies outside the home. Because their wives can't keep up with their fantasies... please give me your opinion... thanks.

Exactly correct,
" May you go in peace and let all your sins be forgiven " what a crock

 

[live4thebj]

I would say every single woman and girl I fucked after my divorce were sluts. I don’t judge and I enjoyed them being one. Most moms and some early 20’s as young as 21.

 

[Baztrachian]

I ignore any opinion based on religion. Why worry what someone thinks that believes in fairy tales?

Muslims are all too often willing to murder you or yours for ignoring their opinions. If you travel anywhere that has a Muslim population you'd be well advised to pay close attention to their beliefs unless you're willing to fight them to the death over their beliefs.

Now you may not be willing to fight to the death over Islam but I can assure you that a good many Muslims are.

 

[Dearelliot]

I think the world of them. Any lady who enjoys the slutty world of mens sex fantasies, god bless. I wish my wife would...but she is what I think of a nice normal sexy lady.

 

[WildHawthorne]

Most emotionally secure men love sluts. Especially when they are viewing them from above... while the slut is on their knees.

 

[Mike130]

I'm sometimes looked down upon when I talk about my situation as a submissive wife. They argue based on their moral standards based on their religion. But the facts show that men who claim to be very religious are actually very morally corrupt. They use religion as a mask to justify their actions. I've had sex several times with my husband's friends, who he says are very pious and religious at home. It turns out their sexual fantasies are very wild, and they seek outlets for those fantasies outside the home. Because their wives can't keep up with their fantasies... please give me your opinion... thanks.

I view sluts favorably. Women and men have similar desires and libidos. Acting on your desires is natural, unless you’re controlled by artificial factors or fear of disease. Everyone has sexual needs, I think things were a bit more open maybe in the 1960’s-80’s before HIV became more widespread.

That said I wouldn’t have a problem if my wife took on a few lovers if she was careful and safe. We’re here for our lover’s happiness and to satisfy all their physical needs.

 

[Ratchetman1982]

I think everyone should live the life they want. If that means lots of sex, do what makes you happy

 

[Britva415]

Seems like this thread is about married sluts, specifically?

It's fine as long as it isn't dishonest and disrespectful toward the spouse.

 

[FoxtrotJulietRomeo]

You describe yourself as 'a submissive wife'. The Oxford English Dictionary defines 'slut' as 'a woman who has many casual sexual partners'. In your case, I don't see a direct connection.

A submissive woman who has sex with men as required or directed by her Dom is not necessarily a slut. A woman who habitually has casual sex with random men is not necessarily submissive, thus the two are not inextricably linked.

Do you consider yourself a slut - or do you want to be a slut? Are you using your submission to make that?

Not suggesting - simply exploring...

 

[nostuff]

I'm sometimes looked down upon when I talk about my situation as a submissive wife. They argue based on their moral standards based on their religion. But the facts show that men who claim to be very religious are actually very morally corrupt. They use religion as a mask to justify their actions. I've had sex several times with my husband's friends, who he says are very pious and religious at home. It turns out their sexual fantasies are very wild, and they seek outlets for those fantasies outside the home. Because their wives can't keep up with their fantasies... please give me your opinion... thanks.

I hate to sound like a radical, but so much of religious morality is bullshit, especially where sex is involved. It is perpetuated by a mostly male hierarchy and largely comes down to, "Do what I say, not what I do." If you need examples, look no further than all the pedophile priests shielded by the Catholic church. Or Jerry Falwell Jr.'s cavorting with the "pool boy." Etc., etc., etc.

"Judge not lest ye be judged."

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

I'm sometimes looked down upon when I talk about my situation as a submissive wife. They argue based on their moral standards based on their religion. But the facts show that men who claim to be very religious are actually very morally corrupt. They use religion as a mask to justify their actions. I've had sex several times with my husband's friends, who he says are very pious and religious at home. It turns out their sexual fantasies are very wild, and they seek outlets for those fantasies outside the home. Because their wives can't keep up with their fantasies... please give me your opinion... thanks.

Before I address the topic at hand let me add a caveat to consider…

Some of us grew up “dyed in the wool” or “walking in the light” so to speak. Our religion of choice was against everything that was fun, but they were always up for good fight in the church. We were also exposed to the “forbidden fruit” theory. That which was denied, was very much sought.

So when those hormones started raging, and we were given a modicum of freedom; sex, drugs, and rock&roll baby!

With that being said, am I morally corrupt? Maybe? I don’t feel morally corrupt, but I can sure see where others may think that. I tend to be less judgmental about these things…obviously!

As for the topic at hand. I was always in favor of women who were, let’s say, more “open” about their sexuality.

 

[000777]

I view sluts favorably. Women and men have similar desires and libidos. Acting on your desires is natural, unless you’re controlled by artificial factors or fear of disease. Everyone has sexual needs, I think things were a bit more open maybe in the 1960’s-80’s before HIV became more widespread.

That said I wouldn’t have a problem if my wife took on a few lovers if she was careful and safe. We’re here for our lover’s happiness and to satisfy all their physical needs.

It would certainly be a way less fun world without sluts.

 

[steamboat610]

Like a person that enjoys sex? What's wrong with that idea?

 

[Exploringwife46]

This brings up a pet peeve of mine...why are men and women viewed so differently based on being sluts? Men seem to be idolized while women are criticized for it.