How do men actually work?

[Peachyprincess0]

Then you need to come in being touchy.

Me?

 

[MillennialNerd90]

Me?

Yes girlie. Show that man you want him

 

[Peachyprincess0]

Yes girlie. Show that man you want him

What should I do?

 

[MillennialNerd90]

What should I do?

Be flirty. Laugh at his jokes. Offer to share food and drinks. Tease him. And touching. Nothing too much. Light grazes, accidental bumps, that kind of stuff. And if you can manage it, eye contact.

 

[Peachyprincess0]

Be flirty. Laugh at his jokes. Offer to share food and drinks. Tease him. And touching. Nothing too much. Light grazes, accidental bumps, that kind of stuff. And if you can manage it, eye contact.

He’s a tickler

 

[Rob_Royale]

He initiated something a while ago I rejected him but now I’ve clearly shown my interest we tease each other everyday.

If I were him I'd be wondering why she's interested in me now, but not then. I'm the same guy, so something about her has changed. Was she recently rejected by someone where I'm now a viable prospect? No one likes to be anyone's second choice.

 

[MillennialNerd90]

He’s a tickler

Perfect. Shouldn’t be difficult to find reasons to touch him

 

[MillennialNerd90]

If I were him I'd be wondering why she's interested in me now, but not then. I'm the same guy, so something about her has changed. Was she recently rejected by someone where I'm now a viable prospect? No one likes to be anyone's second choice.

This is a fair point. If you get to a point where a conversation is happening, just be honest with him.

 

[Peachyprincess0]

If I were him I'd be wondering why she's interested in me now, but not then. I'm the same guy, so something about her has changed. Was she recently rejected by someone where I'm now a viable prospect? No one likes to be anyone's second choice.

It’s really not like that it’s just we met at work and he came onto me insanely strong

I asked him to stop biting me and he pulled back but now he texts me a lot, he sends me his day to day stuff and we flirt

 

[Peachyprincess0]

This is a fair point. If you get to a point where a conversation is happening, just be honest with him.

I’m not saying I like him, he’s never said he likes me

Another reason I rejected him

 

[MillennialNerd90]

I’m not saying I like him, he’s never said he likes me

Another reason I rejected him

If he voices concerns, or you sense he’s concerned, be honest with him.

 

[Rob_Royale]

I asked him to stop biting me

Biting you?

 

[Peachyprincess0]

Biting you?

Yes

 

[Rob_Royale]

Yes

Find someone better.

 

[MillennialNerd90]

Yeah. The biting is hard to get around

 

[Peachyprincess0]

Find someone better.

It was in a sexual way
But I didn’t ask that’s why I stopped him

 

[MillennialNerd90]

It was in a sexual way
But I didn’t ask that’s why I stopped him

So part of his move was biting? Bold

 

[Peachyprincess0]

So part of his move was biting? Bold

Yeah lol

 

[MillennialNerd90]

Yeah lol

I have to ask. I know you stopped it, but were you at all into it?

 

[Peachyprincess0]

I have to ask. I know you stopped it, but were you at all into it?

I was getting into it but when he went to kiss me I bobbed away

 

[MillennialNerd90]

I was getting into it but when he went to kiss me I bobbed away

I see. Then ig the biting wasn’t a deal breaker

 

[Peachyprincess0]

I see. Then ig the biting wasn’t a deal breaker

I’m only really attracted to him now

 

[MillennialNerd90]

I’m only really attracted to him now

Then I say go for it

 

[jd_sw]

You rejected. That's your only chance. Once rejected I would never be serious with that woman again. I moved on.

 

[EctoJohn]

He initiated something a while ago I rejected him...

That's game over.