How do I tell him....

[jeff68]

Love the look of it and think I'd actually enjoy it as well! I'm on the website and not exactly sure how to find that specific toy. Any help?

it is a feeldo....look out that will give you both a wild ride wooohhooo

 

[EzraPound]

It's called "share" there are a few differnt modles ..sorry I thought I linked right to it

 

[EzraPound]

I just checked my own link ok so it's just a pict.
The outfit who makes it is called "Fun Factory"

 

[MsLovey]

Thank you! That website it awesome! If/when he decides he's ready, I'll give him a look at it

 

[Maxell46]

Take things slow and do not just whip out the dildos and lube

Work up to it.
It sounds like you are 90 % there if you've been rimming him and exploring with your fingers.

Does he moan/squirm/enjoy the fingers and tongue on his anus?

If so...
You are there!

A long ago and far away girlfriend started that way with me.
OMG... I loved it!
But was to damn shy to say " I'd like more!!!"
Real men don't like their butts played with was how I thought when I was a youngun.
I know beter now

Keep us updated.

 

[Jayzus]

I was playing with an ex and she asked me if I'd ever take a ringer up there. I said maybe. She started playing wildly with her pussy. "Slide a finger up your ass for me." I said no, in which she said, "DO IT , slide a finger up your ass for me." I said maybe later, "NO, NOW, you're not allowed to fuck my hot little ass until you slide a finger up there." I sucked on my middle finger and slide it up there. The sight alone caused her to orgasm explosively. She never stopped playing. "Slide another finger up there, look at howfucking wet you're making me. Do it for me." I told her I was unsure if I could do it or not. "Work it in, it'll fit." I started working it in slowly and she wen insane and squirted once I started fucking my ass with two fingers.

Once I saw how hot it was for her, I was willing to try it a bit more. I went out and got myself a medium sized plug and some lube. It felt so damn good, I started to fall in love with it. I went from plug to four fingers right up to the knuckle. I couldn't fist my ass, and was a bit apprenhensive to go further. I have done anal in many months, but I find that my ass opens up in anticipation. You know that open feeling you get after taking something nice up there.? I get that feeling when I get really into an anal mood, my ass gets all ready for something big.

I can't see how nobody would enjoy anal, it feels so damn good. I f it wasn't so cold over here I'd have a little anal fun.

 

[escriterra]

MsLovely, your fascination and desire to provide pleasure for both yourself and your man is shared by many women. The truly fortunate men are the ones who let their women lead them into the multiple delights of receving a loving man-fucking from a spouse or girlfriend who gets turned on by the idea and whose orgasms and enjoyment are intense before, during, and after the act. Whether it is your tongue, your finger(s), your butt plug, or your strapon (and the feeldoe is excellent as a means of maximizing your own pleasure from the act), you will be providing your man exquisite enjoyment as you take him through the various stages leading up to his first man-fucking from his loving woman. Each step along the way---and preparation is both necessary and incredibly, tortuously exciting as the desire builds---offers its own rewards. You may find some inspiration and ideas to your liking sprinkled among the descriptions of the act, the preparation, and the sexy ways to introduce this to a man in the various stories I've posted here on Literotica. If so, please share your own real-life versions of the conversations, the feelings, the images, the sexiness of the scenario with your colleagues here. You are truly a lucky woman to be on the precipice of an erotic adventure . . .

 

[MsLovey]

I was playing with an ex and she asked me if I'd ever take a ringer up there. I said maybe. She started playing wildly with her pussy. "Slide a finger up your ass for me." I said no, in which she said, "DO IT , slide a finger up your ass for me." I said maybe later, "NO, NOW, you're not allowed to fuck my hot little ass until you slide a finger up there." I sucked on my middle finger and slide it up there. The sight alone caused her to orgasm explosively. She never stopped playing. "Slide another finger up there, look at howfucking wet you're making me. Do it for me." I told her I was unsure if I could do it or not. "Work it in, it'll fit." I started working it in slowly and she wen insane and squirted once I started fucking my ass with two fingers.

Once I saw how hot it was for her, I was willing to try it a bit more. I went out and got myself a medium sized plug and some lube. It felt so damn good, I started to fall in love with it. I went from plug to four fingers right up to the knuckle. I couldn't fist my ass, and was a bit apprenhensive to go further. I have done anal in many months, but I find that my ass opens up in anticipation. You know that open feeling you get after taking something nice up there.? I get that feeling when I get really into an anal mood, my ass gets all ready for something big.

I can't see how nobody would enjoy anal, it feels so damn good. I f it wasn't so cold over here I'd have a little anal fun.

Sounds like a woman who knew what she wanted! It's so great that you were willing to try it and ended up finding something so pleasurable for yourself. And yes, I do know that wonderful open feeling...

MsLovely, your fascination and desire to provide pleasure for both yourself and your man is shared by many women. The truly fortunate men are the ones who let their women lead them into the multiple delights of receving a loving man-fucking from a spouse or girlfriend who gets turned on by the idea and whose orgasms and enjoyment are intense before, during, and after the act. Whether it is your tongue, your finger(s), your butt plug, or your strapon (and the feeldoe is excellent as a means of maximizing your own pleasure from the act), you will be providing your man exquisite enjoyment as you take him through the various stages leading up to his first man-fucking from his loving woman. Each step along the way---and preparation is both necessary and incredibly, tortuously exciting as the desire builds---offers its own rewards. You may find some inspiration and ideas to your liking sprinkled among the descriptions of the act, the preparation, and the sexy ways to introduce this to a man in the various stories I've posted here on Literotica. If so, please share your own real-life versions of the conversations, the feelings, the images, the sexiness of the scenario with your colleagues here. You are truly a lucky woman to be on the precipice of an erotic adventure . . .

There have actually been some advancements due to recent conversations between he and I. He now knows how much pleasure I get just from the idea of this specific exploration with him. Last night, we tried something new and I'm still flying high from the feelings that it brought to me. Details will come soon....

 

[DfrntLovin]

Apologies if I repeat others... there have been so many great postings here, many reflecting my thoughts.

DAMN your man is lucky.


Ok, now that I have THAT out of the way...


NO SHAME ALLOWED! You are only exploring your desires and that of your man's, never shame about our bodies!

Take a shower or bath together... get good and soapy... play around... maybe finger a bit... amazing what a little licking and tonguing can do... a wet and slippery blowjob is a wonderful idea, then turning to wet hand job while you tongue and finger his ass.

Cannot recommend WET PLATINUM enough!


The ass for an ass idea isn't too shabby either, lol.


Good luck!

that the only thing I've been able to think about for a week is playing with his amazing ass? Over the past few years, I've come to develop a "thing" for the male asshole but it's never constantly been on my mind. I want to lick, finger and fuck him to my little heart's content.

We have been very experimental, as both of us are very open minded, but I just don't think he'll react well to this. I've rimmed him numerous times and rubbed it gently with my fingers but that's as far as I've gotten. The shame that has come with these feelings has become somewhat overwhelming and I'm not sure how to deal with it.

I don't even know if this is the right place for me to post this but I really need some advice. I don't want to scare him or make him feel pressured into trying anything he's not comfortable with but I don't want to set my desires aside either.

Please help...

 

[greystardust]

How did things turn out Ms Lovely? Damn, you sound like a fine woman.

Well, in case you were still seeking advice, I'd say get your guy really hot, and while he's fucking you good and deep, and building up momentum...slip in some sultry talk - describing just what you'd like to do, in sexy and dulcit tones. If that takes him over the cliff, you've hit the jack pot.

I have so often wanted the girl I was with, to take the lead, and in so doing release me from my inhibitions. But only on rare occasions would this happen, and always at my instance.

I had a girlfriend once, who was really tall and sultry, taller than me. When we were fucking, she would gently, like a lady, just hint at my ass, rimming her finger round the O. She did it so softly, but would'nt penetrate. It drove me wild. I think she was a bit of a witch. Any way, I never had the courage to just say, slip it in, or fuck me, or anything. I just took my lust out on her ass, using one and then two fingers in her (until she'd notice and pull them out).

Your guy is lucky to have your lust so high. My guess is that he might feel ashamed at letting go, hence my suggestion re suggestive talk during your sexing.

Good luck, and tell what happened, even if it's a let down, it's life after all

 

[Tampafel]

Speaking as a Male who isn't interested in penetration, if my girl came to me and told me she craved what you had originally posted it would absolutely get me excited to try something just seeing how the thoughts drove her wild.

That's just me though, and she seems content having me adore her ass so the issue has never come up.

 

[gaius7]

if he's letting you rim and fondle his ass, he probably would reall like you to penetrate him. I'd suggest you join him in the shower and fondle him like you have been doing and maybe try a little pressure. If he's okay with it try slipping the tip of your finger in, not real deep, just maybe just to the first knuckle. If he's okay with that try going in and out and gradually go deeper. He also might be more open to it if you did while giving him felatio or licked his balls while you did it.

Since this is a BDSM thread i should also mention that you could just tie him up and do what you want to him. As long as he doesn't use his safe word, it doesn't violate agreed upon limits and you're taking precautions, have at him.

good luck

 

[skinnysinner]

Quietly and wearing very little...

That's how I was told, and it worked wonders!

The rimming was always good and I had sort of wondered but sort of thought no way. But when I was told how hot it made her, I had to allow her, as she allows me to experiment, and then we agree on what does it for both of us... and its now fab, I regularly have a small plug or something called a booty screw (feels amazing!) in when away from my partner and it keeps me ready for more!