We would often sit and watch TV while I rub her pussy...faster during the sexual scenes, slower during the others. I ask her to promise me not to cum until after the show. However she always cums sometime during the first half of the show. How do keep her from cumming so soon?
How do I keep my Girlfriend from cumming?
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rosco rathbone
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mjnelson said:
Tell her you are going to give her a cocklash right across the chops so hard they'll think she got botox if she dares to even think about busting a nut.
That's how I do it anyhow.
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mjnelson said:
You don't specify if you're in a D/s or M/s relationship, or mostly vanilla with what the Baptists call forbidden sex. So...
If vanilla (or mostly so):
If you can trust her to be honest with you, have her tell you when she's getting close. When she does, stop for a little bit. You can play with her breasts or let her suck you a little (keeping her head turned toward the TV, of course - wouldn't want her to miss a plot twist). Then, after she's had a chance to get her rpms down, resume prior activities.
If D/s or M/s:
Have her tell you when she's getting close. When she does, stop for a little bit. You can play with her breasts or let her suck you a little (keeping her head turned toward the TV, of course - wouldn't want her to miss a plot twist). Then, after she's had a chance to get her rpms down, resume prior activities.
Note that the only difference is whether you can trust her to be honest with you.
Third option: Watch shorter shows.
MissTaken
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WriterDom said:
We use that rule too and I have it used as part of my own training as a submissive.
I think that once a sub has been mentally conditioned to rely on the Dom's permission for orgasms, the permission aspect far outweighs the desire to orgasm. So, you can take them to the peak, tell them "Not yet" and they will stop.
It has, in my own experience, taken some time to get to that point, though.
Sir_Winston54
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I was thinking - from personal experience - that a lot of men wish their women had that problem!
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I am just giggling my ass off at this thread...
I'm sorry, I'm sure it's a very serious matter.
I'm sorry, I'm sure it's a very serious matter.
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Again, you need to specify how non-vanilla your relationship is. If we are to assume it is a somewhat d/s relationship, you could add distractors like clothespins on the nipples, dildo in her butt, or one of my favorites- spanking during the commercials.
Also, if I may suggest you should try backing off a little too. I think you'll find that even more rewarding than making someone cum when they aren't supposed to is being able to keep them on the crest of the wave where they are barely able to keep from cumming, and you keep them on that crest for 15-30 minutes.
Not much can measure up to an exhausted, sweaty, and dripping subbie.
Also, if I may suggest you should try backing off a little too. I think you'll find that even more rewarding than making someone cum when they aren't supposed to is being able to keep them on the crest of the wave where they are barely able to keep from cumming, and you keep them on that crest for 15-30 minutes.
Not much can measure up to an exhausted, sweaty, and dripping subbie.
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Here is an exercise you can do with your sub.
This is what Master does:
If you have a vibe, this works even better. It is called "cum training" for lack of a better term.
Start out with the vibe on high, and go for one minute, time it, don't let her cum. If she comes, then punish.
Rest for 30 seconds.
Do 2 minutes...same thing, don't let her cum.
Rest for 30 seconds.
Do 3 minutes... same thing, don't let her cum. By now she should be squirming.
Rest for 45 seconds.
Do 4-5 minutes, depending how long your girl can hold herself. And then, if she can last the four minutes, let her have the most glorious cum in the world.
After a few times, your girl should be able to control when she cums.
This is what Master does:
If you have a vibe, this works even better. It is called "cum training" for lack of a better term.
Start out with the vibe on high, and go for one minute, time it, don't let her cum. If she comes, then punish.
Rest for 30 seconds.
Do 2 minutes...same thing, don't let her cum.
Rest for 30 seconds.
Do 3 minutes... same thing, don't let her cum. By now she should be squirming.
Rest for 45 seconds.
Do 4-5 minutes, depending how long your girl can hold herself. And then, if she can last the four minutes, let her have the most glorious cum in the world.
After a few times, your girl should be able to control when she cums.
