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I pretty much have the same problem as the woman who posted earlier. Whenever me and my girlfriend are fooling around she is always silent and has a hard time saying erotic things. How can I make her loosen up?
FlamingoBlue
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Actually....
There are books published on this topic. Check out your local bookstore.
She may also have a deep seated pschological problem with sex and "dirty" talk may just make it worse. And then, you could always TALK about it.
blue
There are books published on this topic. Check out your local bookstore.
She may also have a deep seated pschological problem with sex and "dirty" talk may just make it worse. And then, you could always TALK about it.
blue
ManOSafety
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Is it just me?
Or is one of the good answers to many of the questions that we see here is "try talking to him/her/them/the dog/your butt/the judge about it"?
I realize that frequently it is difficult to actually discuss certain issues with someone, especially sexual ones, however, if you're willing to come on-line and talk about it with complete strangers (for the guests) then shouldn't you also be able to find someway to discuss it with a loved one?
Now, stepping off of my soap box, in this case, in addition to saying try talking about it, I'd also suggest talking dirty to her. The more she hears it, the greater the odds of her eventually finding it acceptable and talking dirty back to you.
Or is one of the good answers to many of the questions that we see here is "try talking to him/her/them/the dog/your butt/the judge about it"?
I realize that frequently it is difficult to actually discuss certain issues with someone, especially sexual ones, however, if you're willing to come on-line and talk about it with complete strangers (for the guests) then shouldn't you also be able to find someway to discuss it with a loved one?
Now, stepping off of my soap box, in this case, in addition to saying try talking about it, I'd also suggest talking dirty to her. The more she hears it, the greater the odds of her eventually finding it acceptable and talking dirty back to you.
goddess_euphoria
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I don't know how long you two have been together, but I know when I first start getting intimately involved with someone, I'm a little reluctant to talk dirty to him. I'm not sure if it's becuase I'll scare him off, or if I'm just uncomfortable with it at first. At any rate, don't be too pushy, maybe suggest some dirty talk over the phone, it might be easier for her that way.
