How do I get my girlfriend to have anal sex?

[Smart Mark]

She lets me finger her in the ass but wont let me go any further cos shes worried about the size

 

[ShyGuy68]

Smart Mark.

Was it really nessesary to post this question in 3 different threads??


ShyGuy

 

[Wizard]

Hey Mark, Anal can be awsome did ya ever think about talking with her and asuring her that if I hurts you would stop, buy some butt plugs and work up to it and be gentel about it and perhaps maybe she will consider it.

 

[Melody_lane]

ShyGuy, you f*cking read my mind!!

Maybe mark, ain't so smart.....
Damnit, I couldn't resist.

[This message has been edited by melody_lane (edited 05-27-2000).]

 

[Gingersnap]

Mark, why don't you demonstrate how wonderful it can be by using a happy stick on yourself.... It would proably go a long way in adressing her fears.....

[This message has been edited by Gingersnap (edited 05-28-2000).]

 

[Gingersnap]

LOL Melody_Lane!!!

 

[Guest]

I agree with Wizard. For the longest time I was scared to try anal sex 'cause I thought it would hurt (but I loved anal play). It wasn't until a little over two years ago that I finally decided to lose my "anal cherry". To be honest, it did hurt at first... My boyfriend at the time and I were laying in the spoons position so I could have more control on how we were going to do it. Now it's one of my favorite things to do, and I get extremely wet when having anal sex.

Anyway, about your problem... Try talking to your girlfriend about it. If she enjoys the pleasure of anal play, then we will love anal sex. She just needs to start slowly. There are several dildo's and vibes designed for anal sex specifically, as well as specific lubes that are thicker for anal... Don't try to force her to take your dick if she feels it's too soon, and above all, stop if she says so.

[This message has been edited by Tiggs (edited 05-28-2000).]

 

[Skitten]

I also agree with wizard and tiggs, you hve to start slow and work your way into anal. It is not something you want to jump into, try listening to her fears too. And eventually work up using some butt plugs and virators go shopping with her and try some toys that might not scare her as much. Also have an open communication with so that she know that you won't pressure her and if she is not enjoying herself or it hurts you will
pull out with out questions or be mad at her.

 

[MunchinMark]

All good advice. But I'll add some.
If your girlfriend isn't sure about anal sex, don't push it too hard. Gently mention it if you must, but not too often, that will almost certainly put her off it more.

And I know why Smart Mark posted thrice. He wanted an answer, worked dinnit?

 

[Lovely Latina]

I'm still waiting for the punchline.