How do I get her to do other guys?

[Guest]

I am a 22 year old married guy from Georgia. My wife is 20, and very beautiful. Thin, long brown hair, perky tits and braces, a knockout. I've been hinting around to her that I want to see her with another guy, but she says it's too much like cheating. I say it's not if I want her to do it. Can anyone help me talk her into it??? Thanks!

 

[Wizard]

Hey Jamie,
You and your wife are both young and if she is not willing to do this then respect her wishes,you will find that your marrage will last longer, Don't force it on her if she wants to she will let you know.

 

[Dixon Carter Lee]

I absolutely agree with Wizard. And tell her to e-mail me.

 

[MADDOG]

I have that fantasy as well, but be very careful that it's what you actually want. Ask yourself the following...

1. If she liked it better with the other guy, would you be hurt?
2. If she decided that sex with just you wasn't enough, would you be hurt?
3. If you caught her with a guy you set her up with, would you be hurt?

If you answered yes to ANY of these questions, I'd steer well clear of the situation.

MADDOG

 

[Wizard]

Well put MADDOG!!!!!

 

[Firesprite]

I agree

 

[Guest]

Talking from experience...my husband loves to watch while I have sex with other men. It is such a turn on...knowing that he is watching me get it on with another man. Sometimes he joins in and we make it a big party. I approached my husband first and he was all for it. My sex life couldn't be better. Don't give up on your wife maybe she will change her tune...*S*

 

[Guest]

Jamie I have had those feelings also, Although I have never acted on them. I did introduce her to Literotica's chat board and she loves having sex with her cyber-buddies.It also is a turn on for me and has allowed me to express things to her that I never would before. Our sex life has improved 100%. Try it. She might like it and allow her to act out her fantasies and inhibitions

 

[Cranberry_cola]

Don't if she doesn't want to.

 

[PeaceChild]

Please! Don't pressure your wife on this issue! Also, you need to be really sure inside yourself about this. Trust me - things can get complicated fast. I gave in to pressure from my ex, and it tore our relationship apart - I didn't feel right about it, and it turned out to be more than he could handle to think about me with someone else. If either of you have any doubts, you are better off staying with each other only.