Babydoll508
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I am a very bi-curious 29 year old female, who has been curious for 9 years now. The thought of making love to a woman turns me on so much. I just don't know how to go about meeting one.
How do I approach a woman
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JUDO
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How?
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Do you mean how? or where?
It's really the same as meeting anyone. You have to find the proper environment. I don't know where you live. Certainly big metropolitan areas are easier. If you live in a small town, it may be next to impossible (often way too much pressure and prejudice). In a large city, you can find women in their own clubs and bars. If you don't know anyone who is bi to ask about one, then try the internet. At least, on the Net you can make initial contacts to find out more information and maybe, just maybe, meet someone local.
Also, what are you looking for? Do you want a loving relationship? friend? fuck-buddy? A one-time, let's see if this flies? Or, do you want to see them again? This all depends on where you are in your head. Hmmm...
Since you've been fantasizing about this for nine years (OMG!), I would reccomend staying away from a sudden leap into bed and finding someone (a bi-friend?) who can talk to you first. Talk to you about what you think you need, etc, a "sounding board." You may need to come down off the fantasy and find a confidant. Going slow is always a good idea.
If not and you feel ready to be seduced or be the seducee, then you may just want to dress sexy (see the other thread here in 'How To' started by me), find a club or bar that caters to women and put yourself out there.
Best of luck, hon. Hope to see you across a crowded room. *wink*
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B -
Do you mean how? or where?
It's really the same as meeting anyone. You have to find the proper environment. I don't know where you live. Certainly big metropolitan areas are easier. If you live in a small town, it may be next to impossible (often way too much pressure and prejudice). In a large city, you can find women in their own clubs and bars. If you don't know anyone who is bi to ask about one, then try the internet. At least, on the Net you can make initial contacts to find out more information and maybe, just maybe, meet someone local.
Also, what are you looking for? Do you want a loving relationship? friend? fuck-buddy? A one-time, let's see if this flies? Or, do you want to see them again? This all depends on where you are in your head. Hmmm...
Since you've been fantasizing about this for nine years (OMG!), I would reccomend staying away from a sudden leap into bed and finding someone (a bi-friend?) who can talk to you first. Talk to you about what you think you need, etc, a "sounding board." You may need to come down off the fantasy and find a confidant. Going slow is always a good idea.
If not and you feel ready to be seduced or be the seducee, then you may just want to dress sexy (see the other thread here in 'How To' started by me), find a club or bar that caters to women and put yourself out there.
Best of luck, hon. Hope to see you across a crowded room. *wink*
- Judo
tiffanytodd
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Hi I was kinda like you. I can help you. I can't make it happen. Well I can if you were near where I' from.
I meet my first female lover in Foley's mall. I went to the dressing room with some clothes and tried on a LOT of outfits. She keep coming back and forth becasue she knew I had a lot. I told her my an was taking me on a shopping spree and i wanted to know what size before we come because He doesn't like waiting while I try on. She was plenty helpful. Or you ucould be like you just lost a lot of weight and wanted to see how it actually feels to be able to try on what you like. anyway finally after coming back and forth getting e different sizes, I decided to be topless one time she came in. IT WORKED, she was like looking and when she left I heard her breath again. Well before I left, she brushed up againt me and gave e her business card. I called her that night and she came over to my place. I told her I was not bi and had never done this. She showed me the ropes. Go for it girl.Af
Try a particular place you don't vissit much often, like the next town or something. Size up you a person, if she is your type or what you are looking for and approach her. Wear something sexy and daring. Gaze into her eyes. A bi woman loves a sexy bitch.
I meet my first female lover in Foley's mall. I went to the dressing room with some clothes and tried on a LOT of outfits. She keep coming back and forth becasue she knew I had a lot. I told her my an was taking me on a shopping spree and i wanted to know what size before we come because He doesn't like waiting while I try on. She was plenty helpful. Or you ucould be like you just lost a lot of weight and wanted to see how it actually feels to be able to try on what you like. anyway finally after coming back and forth getting e different sizes, I decided to be topless one time she came in. IT WORKED, she was like looking and when she left I heard her breath again. Well before I left, she brushed up againt me and gave e her business card. I called her that night and she came over to my place. I told her I was not bi and had never done this. She showed me the ropes. Go for it girl.Af
Try a particular place you don't vissit much often, like the next town or something. Size up you a person, if she is your type or what you are looking for and approach her. Wear something sexy and daring. Gaze into her eyes. A bi woman loves a sexy bitch.
Babydoll508
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I have
I have done that already, that is how I starting chatting to this one girl over a year ago, but she became too pushy. I need to take my time to get to know someone
I have done that already, that is how I starting chatting to this one girl over a year ago, but she became too pushy. I need to take my time to get to know someone
tiffanytodd
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I don't recommend a online site service becuase though there ARE normal and sane people on there, how do you know that you've fund one. But I do still recommend keeping your eyes openand not rushing into anything like you stated. You should watch for females at work how they act, Wear somehting sexy, short skirt with some sheer stocking and pumps if you are that type person, watch which females, gaze at you, then slowly start a conversation with one you're interested in, get to know her. you never know she may be curious also. Don't jump up and be like can we hit the sks, this is sometign that is taboo and should be dealt with gently
lilminx
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I agree wih you, Judo. Any sort of romantic or sexual relationship between coworkers is usually frowned on, and may even be grounds for dismissal. And although we live in a pretty open-minded era, I think a same-sex relationship would be looked down upon more than a male-female relationship in the workplace.
