How common is incest?

[Guest]

You never really hear about it in 'everyday life' but then you look on the net and it is everywhere, which isn't a bad thing by the way! So how common do you guys and gals reckon it is?

 

[Mistress]

Too damn common, yuck!

 

[OUTSIDER]

I know at least one person who was raped by her father when she was thirteen, she's a good friend and it has taken her years to get over it, I guess that it's more prevalent than we like to think.

The kind of incest you read about on this site, you know the kind where both partner's are consenting and happy are very rare indeed and I can only think of a couple of real life storie's like that, and none that happened to anybody I know directly.

 

[unusuallyconfused]

It pretty much completely fucked up my life, so I would say it is a bad thing. On the other hand, I like many others are aroused by the stories which are fantasy only. If you are into the incest thing, there are specific web sites for that. Also, the personals have a few who are in to it.

 

[Guest]

Incestuous relations have been tempting mankind for generations. Don't think a lot of people find it enticing? Then look at the language used when "normal" people discuss the subject. Scathing! "Unnatural" is a frequently used word to describe the urge for intra-family sex, but Freud remarked that you don't need stringent laws to prevent people from doing "unnatural" things.

Dr. Poindexter of the Kinsey Institute for Sex Research at Indiana University has said: (Not a direct quote, since I don't have the book in front of me, but the idea is clear.) "In interviews with several hundred normal Americans we found scores of instances where fathers and their daughters were engaging in mutually enjoyable sex."

 

[freakygirl]

i find it erotic to read about.. but the thought of it in real life.. doesn't turn me on.. does that make sense??

 

[Nicole]

i find it erotic to read about.. but the thought of it in real life.. doesn't turn me on.. does that make sense??

Yes it does make sense.

My point of view on the whole thing .... stories are good, erotic, non fictional things that are there to make you hot and horny, and for the most part do.

If for some reason you want to take it further, then find a willing partner and Role Play the scene out it's done on more occasions than you think.

NEVER get involved with a family member, the hurt and pain that is caused by incestuous affairs can never be healed. Is it worth hurting yourself and others over a sexual act that you can get somewhere else?

Incest IS probably more common than we think, but like was said earlier, I'm sure that 98/99 % of that isn't by consent.

 

[Guest]

I'm sure that 98/99 % of that isn't by consent.

Your wrong. I bet it is.

 

[Laurel]

It's a helluva lot more common than people think. I would bet that most incestuous activity is, unlike the fun fantasies here at Lit, non-consentual and harmful. I'd bet that the vast majority of said molestations go unreported. A very, very close & dear relative of mine was abused by her father for years and years, and I didn't find out until fairly recently. She's an adult now, and the abuse has ruined her. She's also unlucky enough to have a hereditary mental illness - schizophrenia - on top of all her other problems. Thus, she hasn't reported the father and probably won't ever. Her mental state is deteriorating so quickly that I doubt she'll be able to report anything by the end of the year. It's fucked up. I hate that man more than anyone on the planet.

Parent-child molestation goes unreported, IMHO, because the child doesn't have enough life experience to know what's wrong or right. They think that maybe all parents do this to their kids. Even if they start to think they might be unique, the child still feels love for the parent - along with the fear and hatred. The hatred brings on guilt. This mix of emotions is too hard to sort out for a kid, so they never say anything. They endure it. They bury their feelings. It's the ultimate abuse of power, the ultimate betrayal. Slowly, the abuse begins to destroy them from the inside out. And a lovely young child is ruined, all because some asshole couldn't keep his dick in his pants.

Why then, you may ask, do I run a site featuring incest stories? I love horror movies but I'm no fan of real-life violence. I love Dirty Harry cop flicks but loathe vigilante justice. It's FANTASY. And I can see how these fantasies can be fun, even cathartic. That's what fantasy is for - to enable us to explore activities that we would never attempt in real life. However, let's not kid ourselves...parent-child incest is abuse (except in the rare case where the child is a consenting adult). No matter how consenting a kid may appear to be, it's still hurtful. It DESTROYS LIVES. So please, keep it in your head, eh?

 

[bluntforcemama]

I sleep with my brother all the time! Monk... he really was more of a sibling than a lover. Anyway, that's history. Time to find a new brother.

 

[PurpleHaze]

And a lovely young child is ruined, all because some asshole couldn't keep his dick in his pants.

Your assuming that all incest is perpetrated by a predatory male, with out knowing the true statistics. Possibly it is mothers masturbating their son's, is where the most harm has been done.
Has anyone else noticed how many females strive to have had the damaging incestuous experience? I wonder if they are trying to wear it as a badge of honor, sort of like; "Oh look at me will you I, have been all messed up." And they all gather around.
I better not go there or they will all gang up on me.

 

[Delirium]

The other kinds....

There are other kinds, which I would say are more common even than parental incest, and (maybe) less damaging... that between siblings and cousins... still incest, but not really any different than what might happen with neighbors when kids are all the same age and start "exploring"... The Doctor game came from somewhere, and there's a reason everyone knows it...
Adult/Child incest I just think is wrong... Just plain wrong. It's a power thing, and kids are so darn impressionable that it would just screw everything up.

Peer incest .. is not so bad. It's an exploratory thing... especially when kids are really young, and are just figuring their bodies out.. .. once kids involved get older than 8 or 9, or if there's a big age gap between kids involved, I think you start to go right back to the parent/child situation...

Just thought I'd mention it, since everyone seemed to be focused on the parental/adult side of things... I think the sibling/cousin type would be far more common...

 

[Celestiale]

Your wrong. I bet it is.

And you're sick...get a grip.

 

[Morden]

Simpy put forcing yourself on your children or other members of your family is wrong and it deals horendous damage to those that are in that situation. You should personally be ashamed of yourself for wanting to inflict that kind of torment onto those individuals. Personally anyone who takes advantage of a person in any matter like that deserves the fullest infliction of revenge in what ever form they can get!!!! NOT to mention its ILLEGAL! I personally hope they track your IP and through in jail!

<growls and grips his Katana>

 

[Laurel]

Your assuming that all incest is perpetrated by a predatory male, with out knowing the true statistics. Possibly it is mothers masturbating their son's, is where the most harm has been done.

Actually, I was referring to a rather specific instance of abuse - the one I mentioned. In that instance, the perpetrator was a male. Hence the penis reference. Touchy, are we?

Has anyone else noticed how many females strive to have had the damaging incestuous experience? I wonder if they are trying to wear it as a badge of honor, sort of like; "Oh look at me will you I, have been all messed up." And they all gather around.

Gee, you're right. Young girls really see it as an honor to have their fat, smelly, drunken dads groping them from age 12 on. Because that's how we women are - we just sit around and ask to be abused so we can all brag about it later. My 12-year-old sister practically threw herself at our nasty alcoholic father, just so she'd have something to "brag" about 10 years later. Wow, thanks for pointing that out. What a brilliant analysis.

 

[unusuallyconfused]

Your assuming that all incest is perpetrated by a predatory male, with out knowing the true statistics. Possibly it is mothers masturbating their son's, is where the most harm has been done.
Has anyone else noticed how many females strive to have had the damaging incestuous experience? I wonder if they are trying to wear it as a badge of honor, sort of like; "Oh look at me will you I, have been all messed up." And they all gather around.
I better not go there or they will all gang up on me.

I just can't ignore that statement. Gee, when I was 5 I was seducing my father just so I could say "look at me, poor victim" through out my life. Get a grip, PH. I was a terrified kid who hid from my father so I wouldn't get beat or other things. I am completely responsible for my current actions but I can't ignore that the abuse completely affected my decision making skills or lack there of. Yes while other kids were going on vacations and worrying what the kids at school would say about their new outfit, I was wondering every fucking day if I would get beat. The only affection my father showed me was in a sexual way. A six year old really can handle feeling good sexually with their father, geez PH. Why would a person at 18 get married to their spouse knowing with a certainty they would divorce that person just to get the hell out of Dodge, so to speak.

I was an extremely intelligent and athletic girl with many potential dreams to be fulfilled thru scholarships, etc. I could of become anything I wanted. As it turns out I became successful in spite of it all and now am a women business owner and earn an income that is well above average. I am able to use the negative affects in my childhood for the positive. I don't go around with the victims attitude. However, I have made so many bad relationship choices because I had no foundation to build upon. Do you understand the difficulties?

 

[Purple Haze]

For those of you without good eyesight,

I've had my identity stolen again. The above posts aren't from me.

 

[unusuallyconfused]

Re: For those of you without good eyesight,

I've had my identity stolen again. The above posts aren't from me.

I thought that was out of character, sorry.

 

[Laurel]

Re: For those of you without good eyesight,

Originally posted by Purple Haze I've had my identity stolen again. The above posts aren't from me.

Fucking-A. Sorry, man. Can't believe I didn't catch that one...

 

[LordMagicMan]

I know several females that where sexually violated in their youth. For some reason I end up getting close to those woman that have. One was an Uncle, one was a drunk older brother, and couple fathers.