Hookup apps

[chapter6plan]

I WFH one day a week ... yes, I've taken some long lunches on those days. Yum!

 

[Wanking_Frank]

My favorite is an anonymous, blank profile that just says "Looking?"
No info, no pic, no stats nothing.

Then they send a message like "hey"

 

[ZacharyFagg]

Then they send a message like "hey"

Yes. And if you say hey back they say "Sup."
I don't mind that if they have a profile, and I can see what they are and what they're into, but if it's blank I'm probably not going to respond.
I understand why guys have blank profiles. I completely respect that some want to be extremely discreet.
But, send stats and what you are looking for in the first message.

 

[Wanking_Frank]

Yes. And if you say hey back they say "Sup."
I don't mind that if they have a profile, and I can see what they are and what they're into, but if it's blank I'm probably not going to respond.
I understand why guys have blank profiles. I completely respect that some want to be extremely discreet.
But, send stats and what you are looking for in the first message.

Yeah just a little common courtesy would go a long way
I have everything filled out but don't put pictures on until we exchange messages. Unfortunately it seems nobody reads the profiles at all. Maybe at least now that there's icons for and on your bubble you might think that would help?

 

[ZacharyFagg]

Yeah just a little common courtesy would go a long way
I have everything filled out but don't put pictures on until we exchange messages. Unfortunately it seems nobody reads the profiles at all. Maybe at least now that there's icons for and on your bubble you might think that would help?

I completely understand that.
The Icons don't seem to help. Mine is a , and just today several guys have asked if they could suck me, or tried to get me to top.
I have no idea.
I think these guys just shoot their shot with everyone.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

I don't know if they don't read profiles or just don't care.
I always read profiles, and I don't message them if I am not what they are looking for.
If a guy says that he is into twinks, I won't message that guy since I am in my late 30s. It's really that simple. I'm definitely not going to try to convince him to meet me, knowing that I am not what he is looking for.

 

[chapter6plan]

I don't know if they don't read profiles or just don't care.
I always read profiles, and I don't message them if I am not what they are looking for.
If a guy says that he is into twinks, I won't message that guy since I am in my late 30s. It's really that simple. I'm definitely not going to try to convince him to meet me, knowing that I am not what he is looking for.

I've messaged guys with something like "I know I'm not what you're looking for, but DAMN! your pics are hot! If you're ever bored enough ...". Sometimes I even get a or in response.

 

[chapter6plan]

And then there's the story about the guy who would ask every woman at the bar, "Hey, wanna fuck?". When asked why he did this when the women were either disgusted or, at best, amused by his approach, he replied, "Well, sometimes they say 'Yes' ".

 

[ZacharyFagg]

I'd like to suggest a few more things.
Don't ask a person to chat somewhere else. Especially Telegram.
Don't immediately ask for personal information such as phone numbers or email.
Any sane person will probably stop talking to you.

 

[RobLivesInTexas]

I'd like to suggest a few more things.
Don't ask a person to chat somewhere else. Especially Telegram.
Don't immediately ask for personal information such as phone numbers or email.
Any sane person will probably stop talking to you.

I agree, especially about phone numbers. The moment someone asks for my cell #, I drop the conversation and block them. It's one thing to flirt and hookup online, but if a person asks for your cell number, they are probably trouble.

Also, if they refuse to answer your questions, such as physical stats, age, marital status, etc., drop them Evasive people are teasers at best, dangerous at worst.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

I agree, especially about phone numbers. The moment someone asks for my cell #, I drop the conversation and block them. It's one thing to flirt and hookup online, but if a person asks for your cell number, they are probably trouble.

Also, if they refuse to answer your questions, such as physical stats, age, marital status, etc., drop them Evasive people are teasers at best, dangerous at worst.

I agree, especially about phone numbers. The moment someone asks for my cell #, I drop the conversation and block them. It's one thing to flirt and hookup online, but if a person asks for your cell number, they are probably trouble.

Also, if they refuse to answer your questions, such as physical stats, age, marital status, etc., drop them Evasive people are teasers at best, dangerous at worst.

Yeah, I won't give out anything, including my burner email address. There's no need. The apps work fine. The messenger on lit works fine. If someone asks I immediately end the conversation.
I've been getting alot of this on here lately.

 

[dingdongditchding]

There's always been alot of bullshit on dating sites and hookup apps but lately it seems like it's gotten worse. Way worse.

agree, I didnt lie the few times I used them. If you lie you will be found out. I also use very recent pics of myself.

 

[dingdongditchding]

I agree, especially about phone numbers. The moment someone asks for my cell #, I drop the conversation and block them. It's one thing to flirt and hookup online, but if a person asks for your cell number, they are probably trouble.

Also, if they refuse to answer your questions, such as physical stats, age, marital status, etc., drop them Evasive people are teasers at best, dangerous at worst.

I have met a few folks that way. After PM or posts for a long time tho, at least 3 to 6 weeks. Both times I did that it worked out. I met a great male FWB for one of them. Unfortunately we are a lil under 2 hours apart.