Hookup apps

[ZacharyFagg]

I try to not waste your time on apps. If you contact me, I'll be honest and tell you how difficult it is for me to get out. I don't start chats with guys unless I have a good chance of getting out. I love the profiles that say they are looking for a future hookup. It gives us opportunity to plan time together.

I actually love that. Often I am just bored at work and looking for something later. It's always fun to sext, and then meet up.

 

[chapter6plan]

I WFH one day a week ... yes, I've taken some long lunches on those days. Yum!

 

[Wanking_Frank]

My favorite is an anonymous, blank profile that just says "Looking?"
No info, no pic, no stats nothing.

Then they send a message like "hey"

 

[ZacharyFagg]

Then they send a message like "hey"

Yes. And if you say hey back they say "Sup."
I don't mind that if they have a profile, and I can see what they are and what they're into, but if it's blank I'm probably not going to respond.
I understand why guys have blank profiles. I completely respect that some want to be extremely discreet.
But, send stats and what you are looking for in the first message.

 

[Wanking_Frank]

Yes. And if you say hey back they say "Sup."
I don't mind that if they have a profile, and I can see what they are and what they're into, but if it's blank I'm probably not going to respond.
I understand why guys have blank profiles. I completely respect that some want to be extremely discreet.
But, send stats and what you are looking for in the first message.

Yeah just a little common courtesy would go a long way
I have everything filled out but don't put pictures on until we exchange messages. Unfortunately it seems nobody reads the profiles at all. Maybe at least now that there's icons for and on your bubble you might think that would help?

 

[ZacharyFagg]

Yeah just a little common courtesy would go a long way
I have everything filled out but don't put pictures on until we exchange messages. Unfortunately it seems nobody reads the profiles at all. Maybe at least now that there's icons for and on your bubble you might think that would help?

I completely understand that.
The Icons don't seem to help. Mine is a , and just today several guys have asked if they could suck me, or tried to get me to top.
I have no idea.
I think these guys just shoot their shot with everyone.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

I don't know if they don't read profiles or just don't care.
I always read profiles, and I don't message them if I am not what they are looking for.
If a guy says that he is into twinks, I won't message that guy since I am in my late 30s. It's really that simple. I'm definitely not going to try to convince him to meet me, knowing that I am not what he is looking for.

 

[chapter6plan]

I don't know if they don't read profiles or just don't care.
I always read profiles, and I don't message them if I am not what they are looking for.
If a guy says that he is into twinks, I won't message that guy since I am in my late 30s. It's really that simple. I'm definitely not going to try to convince him to meet me, knowing that I am not what he is looking for.

I've messaged guys with something like "I know I'm not what you're looking for, but DAMN! your pics are hot! If you're ever bored enough ...". Sometimes I even get a or in response.

 

[chapter6plan]

And then there's the story about the guy who would ask every woman at the bar, "Hey, wanna fuck?". When asked why he did this when the women were either disgusted or, at best, amused by his approach, he replied, "Well, sometimes they say 'Yes' ".