ZacharyFagg
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- Jun 18, 2022
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I need to rant.
Hookup apps can be fun, but they can be frustrating, and occasionally downright creepy. Here's a few things that people should know about them. If you have other things to add, feel free to add them. The people that need to read this probably won't, but you might feel better.
Your blank profile is useless. Fill out your profile. I get that people need to be discreet, but you can at least put your age, stats and what you are looking for. If you feel that you cannot, at least send it in a message. Say “40 year old 6’0 200# top looking for some fun.” Don't just say “hey” or “looking” from a totally blank profile.
Read other people's profiles before messaging them. And, have a little respect for what they say that they are looking for. If someone says that they are a total top who's looking for smooth, twink bottoms, do not message them if you are not that. If someone says they are a total bottom, do not message them and ask them to top.
Do not ask for pics without having some on your profile or sending some. And if you ask for pics, and someone sends one, at least say something to them. Nobody likes pic collectors.
Be polite and have a little game. Flattery, dirty talk, or flirting will get you further than "looking?" "Hosting?" “wyd” or “rn?”
Don't get pushy, and don't spam someone if they don't reply right away. And if someone says they aren't interested, just look elsewhere.
People have lives. They may not be sitting around wanting to go right now. If you're interested in someone, but they can't meet right then, stay in touch. Occasionally let them know that you are still interested.
If someone says that they are just looking for a NSA hookup, they are just looking for some casual fun. They probably don't want to send 30 different pics, or tell you their life story.
Most importantly, if you agree to meet someone, don't flake. Especially if the other person is hosting. It's a terrible feeling to give out your address to a stranger, then have them not show.
Hookup apps can be fun, but they can be frustrating, and occasionally downright creepy. Here's a few things that people should know about them. If you have other things to add, feel free to add them. The people that need to read this probably won't, but you might feel better.
Your blank profile is useless. Fill out your profile. I get that people need to be discreet, but you can at least put your age, stats and what you are looking for. If you feel that you cannot, at least send it in a message. Say “40 year old 6’0 200# top looking for some fun.” Don't just say “hey” or “looking” from a totally blank profile.
Read other people's profiles before messaging them. And, have a little respect for what they say that they are looking for. If someone says that they are a total top who's looking for smooth, twink bottoms, do not message them if you are not that. If someone says they are a total bottom, do not message them and ask them to top.
Do not ask for pics without having some on your profile or sending some. And if you ask for pics, and someone sends one, at least say something to them. Nobody likes pic collectors.
Be polite and have a little game. Flattery, dirty talk, or flirting will get you further than "looking?" "Hosting?" “wyd” or “rn?”
Don't get pushy, and don't spam someone if they don't reply right away. And if someone says they aren't interested, just look elsewhere.
People have lives. They may not be sitting around wanting to go right now. If you're interested in someone, but they can't meet right then, stay in touch. Occasionally let them know that you are still interested.
If someone says that they are just looking for a NSA hookup, they are just looking for some casual fun. They probably don't want to send 30 different pics, or tell you their life story.
Most importantly, if you agree to meet someone, don't flake. Especially if the other person is hosting. It's a terrible feeling to give out your address to a stranger, then have them not show.
