Homewreckers?

[TitfuckerMike]

Any ladies out there who relished being, or keep the fantasy of being the "other woman" or "homewrecker" ?

It is more powerful as a fantasy since there's no real collateral damage to deal with, but I've known a few ladies who loved the feeling of power that came from taking something from another woman. There is something powerfully alluring about a confident woman embracing that brazen nature, I do admit. Yum

And any homewreckers feel free to message me

 

[positivetension]

Any ladies out there who relished being, or keep the fantasy of being the "other woman" or "homewrecker" ?

I have a firm rule against cheating or being involved in another person's infidelity. It's not something I would ever actually do because I wouldn't want it to happen to ME. I often enjoy the fantasy of being the other woman, secretly (but never a homewrecker).

It seems like more than half the guys here (and on every other adult social site) are married and unsatisfied for one reason or another...missing the spark they used to have, not feeling any interest or participation from their wives, not able to communicate in their relationships, afraid to share their deeper kinks, etc, etc.

The idea of stepping in and being exactly what he needs is a huge turn-on. It's both the satisfaction of being there for someone and of being wanted so intensely. The thought of being the literal embodiment of someone's fantasy, the memory he'll never forget, is pretty fucking hot.

I don't ever think of it as a power thing or taking him away from her. There's a little pride, perhaps, in being the girl who does everything she won't, but I always imagine it as a secret. I always imagine that he still loves her, and when he goes home to her again their relationship is actually better because I've soothed his frustrations.

 

[Lovemylife1999]

I find the love between a husband and wife is greater in a open and honest marriage. I know since we have started swinging it has made us stronger as a couple and opened our eyes to the lasting joys of sex. I find it so freeing not holding secrets and enjoy watching my wife as the other women as I'm doing his wife.

 

[NaughtyKitty06]

I love this feeling... But it's more enjoyable when the wife wants her husband to enjoy me. When she knows he deserves me.

Any ladies out there who relished being, or keep the fantasy of being the "other woman" or "homewrecker" ?

It is more powerful as a fantasy since there's no real collateral damage to deal with, but I've known a few ladies who loved the feeling of power that came from taking something from another woman. There is something powerfully alluring about a confident woman embracing that brazen nature, I do admit. Yum

And any homewreckers feel free to message me

 

[Miss_Scarlett]

I have a longstanding cuckcake fantasy, to the point that I've been having such fantasies long before I ever knew it had a name. I know it almost certainly stems from my formative sexual experiences, as the man to whom I lost my virginity was a married neighbour whose wife caught us in a compromising position in their bed further down the line and all bar one of my long-term sexual relationships have been with married men, including my now-husband. I do get a thrill, which I'm not proud of but which I am honest enough to admit to, when a married man actively chooses to take me to bed rather than his wife; those moments when he knows he should go home, is on the verge of going home then without me doing or saying anything particularly provocative or trying to delay him, he decides he can't resist sliding his cock inside me one final time, making himself late in the process. I'm sure an amateur psychologist would have a field day with all sorts of "low self-esteem" diagnoses but what it boils down to when it happens is a primal, visceral triumph based on the knowledge that at that precise moment he prefers fucking me to fucking her even at a risk to himself.

A major difference between the various realities and my fantasies is that IRL, I have never had any kind of friendship or contact with my lovers' wives apart from that first affair with the neighbour. In my fantasies, I am much more a part of both their lives and she can't avoid reminders of my presence even when I'm not physically there. My fantasies include everything from him fucking me behind her back while I wear her wedding dress, to him trying to give her a "duty/pity fuck" but being unable to get aroused by her so needing me to step in, to he and I going to a function at her workplace together and making out in front of her and her colleagues, to the extreme of him making his speech at their wedding reception while taking me from behind over the top table. The fantasies always stop short of him leaving her for me though, so I guess in that sense it's not truly home wrecking - although it's also important that she doesn't get pleasure from being a cuckquean; she is merely resigned/compliant/occasionally distressed.

In reality we have tended not to discuss the wives much, although my current lover knows something of my fantasies and is happy to indulge me with the occasional comment that he knows will appeal to that side of me (for example we have a lot of anal because she won't entertain the idea, or when we were still in the ill-fated "no penetration" pact stage of our relationship, he persuaded me to masturbate to orgasm for him by telling me he wanted to be able to picture me cumming when he was with her) but it's a fine line and a tricky balance to achieve as in reality I wouldn't want to be longterm intimate with someone who was too eager to denigrate or humiliate his wife. I want to have my cuckcake and eat it, as it were.

 

[irishblade]

^^^ your candidness is so....sexy. Not sure why. Bit I appreciate your honesty though its somewhat intimidating lol

 

[BiTodd]

I have a firm rule against cheating or being involved in another person's infidelity. It's not something I would ever actually do because I wouldn't want it to happen to ME. I often enjoy the fantasy of being the other woman, secretly (but never a homewrecker).

It seems like more than half the guys here (and on every other adult social site) are married and unsatisfied for one reason or another...missing the spark they used to have, not feeling any interest or participation from their wives, not able to communicate in their relationships, afraid to share their deeper kinks, etc, etc.

The idea of stepping in and being exactly what he needs is a huge turn-on. It's both the satisfaction of being there for someone and of being wanted so intensely. The thought of being the literal embodiment of someone's fantasy, the memory he'll never forget, is pretty fucking hot.

I don't ever think of it as a power thing or taking him away from her. There's a little pride, perhaps, in being the girl who does everything she won't, but I always imagine it as a secret. I always imagine that he still loves her, and when he goes home to her again their relationship is actually better because I've soothed his frustrations.

This kinda happened to me, and I got a divorce, 3 months ago. Best thing that ever happened to me.Now I am free to pursue a partner that really knows me and is the embodiment of all i crave. It was incredible to be in that moment knowing that i would never find satisfaction in my marriage again, but enjoy it with a naughty vixen that understood me and my kinks.

 

[KinkyGAGuy]

I find myself in a fortunate place to be with a woman that wants me to have sex with other women, however she must approve of the women I have sex with. It also very much helps, if the woman or women are bisexual, as she is.

We had a conversation about swapping partners the other day, she told me she is not interested in being with other men, just women.

 

[MaddysSecret]

This isn't exactly a fantasy of mine, and bringing hurt to another woman isn't in and of itself something I would want. But having a secret relationship with someone married is exciting from the sneaking around, and in either situation, as the other woman or homewrecker, knowing I was better than the other girl excites me and makes me proud (not that I'm proud of feeling this way, though). I do think each of us girls has to stay our best or we could get replaced. Once, I had to pack and leave when a guy replaced me because I had started partying so much I was a bitch and unreliable. It was humiliating, but I deserved it.

 

[Dreamer110]

Who in their right mind would 'replace' a woman like you?

 

[mikendel]

Hmmm, hubby showed this thread and It made me think. I have helped some of our male friends that were not getting sex at home from their wives or girlfriends. I was very turned on fucking them and sending them home happy. We hung out as couples since and the glances between myself and the men are kinda sexy. I don't think I have wrecked any homes but this thread did make me think about it for a minute.

 

[policywank]

I have always taken the view that fidelity in a marriage is between the partners. If one or the other is unfaithful it isn't up to me or anyone else to rectify that.

On one hand I don't respect a man who is sneaking around when he has a loving a supportive (including sexually) wife at home - I won't fuck him because I don't like him but not because I owe his wife anything.

On the other hand I believe sex is a part of a healthy marriage. If she is healthy and able yet denies him sexual fulfillment over an extended period of time she is not holding up her end of the commitment. It is not reasonable to expect your spouse to live a sex deprived life just because you aren't interested and I don't blame him or see him in a negative light for going elsewhere.

"I want you to be faithful to me and I will take care of your sexual needs" is completely different from "I won't fuck you or will only fuck you as much as my mom and I think is reasonable and I don't want you to fuck anyone else either."

In those situations, yes I do take pleasure in being the woman he wants. As another post stated, the idea that he would rather risk it all to be with me than go home to his wife is flattering and stimulating. I don't want to wreck anyone's home but I do take a guilty pleasure from being the better woman and lover to her man.

I feel very strongly about female empowerment. But true equality means being able to be a strong partner. It is sexist to expect your wife to do as you say, but it is altogether reasonable and fair to expect her to be fully aware of what you enjoy sexually (not just the parts she finds acceptable) and do her best to be a good partner.

If a woman is hiding behind silly notions to deny her partner's sexuality, I don't feel the least bit bad for fucking him. And I enjoy showing him that we aren't all so caught up in our need to carve out our place that we can't see the needs of a real man.

 

[secretholder]

TBH.. I believe the major thrill comes at first being secretive. The high you get from a message and then from a call or meeting. "Homewrecker" is a strong term but appropriate in some cases but not all. If one part of the couple is constantly left in need and unsatisfied then what should they do? If their partner doesn't care about their pleasure then they have the right to be pleased by someone else! But if their relationship suffers more or falls apart then ultimately they are to blame because they weren't trying to please their partner in the first place. When you are that selfish then it shouldn't be a surprise when you end up by yourself and the woman who pleasured your man ends up with him