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SweetErika
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pellso27 said:He won........ I lostLAdymorrgian said:
Hmmm...I couldn't put my finger on why you two were going back and forth so rudely, but knew there was some relation. With a quick check, my memory was refreshed! You were madly in love a few days after meeting in BDSM Personals, and just a few weeks later you've broken up and there's this much animosity? What's up with that?
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I was never in love with him. You will never find a post on here with me saying I loved Pellso. Love is not something most people can obtain over the net. And this girl shure the hell is NOT one of those few who can. I broke up with him for my own reasons and we are still decent enough coresspondents. but it is very platonic.SweetErika said:Hmmm...I couldn't put my finger on why you two were going back and forth so rudely, but knew there was some relation. With a quick check, my memory was refreshed! You were madly in love a few days after meeting in BDSM Personals, and just a few weeks later you've broken up and there's this much animosity? What's up with that?
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I'm sure I was just confused by the "I<3P" and amorous nature of your posts.LAdymorrgian said:
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Dude you better cum next time!
Amber, lets agree to disagree!
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Yes words are all we have I am not perfect or good looking but I deserve a slight word! You know I am above all of this, life has much to offer other than words spoken without reason! Platonic/love hummmmm! just thinking.LAdymorrgian said:
Dude you better cum next time!
Amber, lets agree to disagree!
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When have your looks ever entered into anything I ave ever had to say to you? and you know how to FUCKING spell my name...so do it right will ya?pellso27 said:Yes words are all we have I am not perfect or good looking but I deserve a slight word! You know I am above all of this, life has much to offer other than words spoken without reason! Platonic/love hummmmm! just thinking.
Dude you better cum next time!
Amber, lets agree to disagree!
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You would make a great Dom. I was half drunk, well Drunk when I wrote that I have almost always spelled your name right. Lets try to be friends baby! I will alwaysLAdymorrgian said:
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Can you please stop that.pellso27 said:
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You know I mean it, just because we have a different future doesn't mean I don't feel for you I really wish you the best! I will always be here and do almost anything for you! your are very special and.........sorry I will stopLAdymorrgian said:
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As to the thread's original topic...
I can speak from personal experience on this topic. I get mixed reactions from women, but at least I warn them in advance not to take it personally when it happens.
Please don't read this post as anything even close to bragging...I'm just sharing insights with no other intentions.
As to the husband in question here...I agree that erection is not the problem at all and his excitement level is not diminished either. With myself, I'm always in a state of "can't seem to get enough of this woman...and if I cum now then things will wind down until the next round...so keep going!" But sometimes it's just simply impossible to climax even though it feels so amazingly, perfectly good. A lover could be eagerly coaxing and stimulating me in all of the right ways and it still takes a long time (more than an extra hour) or I just simply continue pleasuring her between spurts of intercourse until she tells me she's totally satisfied and then I crawl up beside her to gently rub her down and help her to calm down. Eventually my erection fades but I get an all-over full-body warm tingle as though I had just had a good climax even though I didn't actually. It's sort of tantric I suppose... (Grin)
So I'm glad to hear that you're not taking it personally since it has nothing to do with lack of interest and anything being wrong. Just enjoy it for what it is and how good it feels. If he gets frustrated about not cumming with you then he'll let you know. Hey, you can even suggest to him that it would be super sexy to watch him make himself cum...that you'd enjoy watching him and maybe even touch yourself while he does it. This is a very positive & supportive way to enjoy it when it happens so that nobody gets any bad vibes or has any feelings of worry about it happening. Hell...it'll even give him plenty to fantasize about in the future and will keep things simmering hot in the relationship down the road as well. (Grin)
Hope that helps...
I can speak from personal experience on this topic. I get mixed reactions from women, but at least I warn them in advance not to take it personally when it happens.
Please don't read this post as anything even close to bragging...I'm just sharing insights with no other intentions.
As to the husband in question here...I agree that erection is not the problem at all and his excitement level is not diminished either. With myself, I'm always in a state of "can't seem to get enough of this woman...and if I cum now then things will wind down until the next round...so keep going!" But sometimes it's just simply impossible to climax even though it feels so amazingly, perfectly good. A lover could be eagerly coaxing and stimulating me in all of the right ways and it still takes a long time (more than an extra hour) or I just simply continue pleasuring her between spurts of intercourse until she tells me she's totally satisfied and then I crawl up beside her to gently rub her down and help her to calm down. Eventually my erection fades but I get an all-over full-body warm tingle as though I had just had a good climax even though I didn't actually. It's sort of tantric I suppose... (Grin)
So I'm glad to hear that you're not taking it personally since it has nothing to do with lack of interest and anything being wrong. Just enjoy it for what it is and how good it feels. If he gets frustrated about not cumming with you then he'll let you know. Hey, you can even suggest to him that it would be super sexy to watch him make himself cum...that you'd enjoy watching him and maybe even touch yourself while he does it. This is a very positive & supportive way to enjoy it when it happens so that nobody gets any bad vibes or has any feelings of worry about it happening. Hell...it'll even give him plenty to fantasize about in the future and will keep things simmering hot in the relationship down the road as well. (Grin)
Hope that helps...
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This happens with my boyfriend quite a bit because of the medication he takes for his chronic pain issues....so we are pretty used to it by now. Most of the time he has no problem getting an erection, but he can't come.....it's not a big deal with us, because he loves getting me off as much as he can, and it still feels good for him.....so that's all that matters to us.
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