Hey, Men of Literotica, we've poled the ladies, now enlighten us:

[RedRyder50]

Hey, Men of Literotica, we've poled the ladies, now enlighten us:
1. At first impression, what is it about a woman that attracts you?
2. As a first impression, what do you find most repulsive?
3. After first impressions, what is it that keeps you interested?

 

[jason28053]

1. Pretty face and nice smile

2. rudeness, loudness

3. sense of humor

 

[HeyAll]

1. First impression

I've never had a 'one' thing that grabs me. That's because different women have different attributes. You could have a skinny girl standing next to a curvy girl, and they'd both be equally hot. Or you could have two women with totally different faces, or one tall and the other petite, and they'd both be equally hot as well. I've never had a preference.

2. Repulsive

Assuming I thought she was attractive, I've always been repulsed by abrasive attitudes and rudeness. Painful to observe.

3. Interested

Again, different women have different attributes. Did you all see that girl on Jeopardy who went viral because she said, "Two Pack" instead of "Tupac?" When I saw the clip, I thought she was totally hot because she was pretty, super smart, kind of a dorkiness thing, and just had that something.

On the flip side, there are girls who are the opposite with attractive personalities.

Basically, if a girl is friendly and outgoing, then that's attractive.

 

[RedRyder50]

I guess since I started this thing I should put in my 2 cents worth.
An interest in me is probably the first and most important thing. Of course we all have physical things that we find attractive, but those fall far short of mutual interest.
Rudeness, arrogance and failure to find value in those around her or failure to take care of herself physically are equal turnoffs for me.
Self confidence, openness, desire to try new things and inquisitiveness keep me interested.

 

[plesmore]

1. Pretty face and nice smile

2. rudeness, loudness

3. sense of humor

Let me practice:
Gosh, my smile is great - I have all my teeth
Shut up and dance with me
I love it when you forget to pull up you zipper in public

 

[SissySalina]

First is the nose and lips.
Second is really short hair on the head.
Third would be a soft luring voice.

 

[turbocs37]

1. In a crowd it is her body, mostly her ass. If she is on the thinner side with narrow hips, that gets my attention right away. If we are talking about someone we are interacting with, I would say it is much more about personality. A positive attitude and a sense of humor goes a long way in my book.
2. Smokers. Just a big no-no for me.
3. Back to the positive attitude and sense of humor. Can't stand constant complaining or negativity. Love a sense of adventure too.

 

[screwher]

Hey, Men of Literotica, we've poled the ladies, now enlighten us:
1. At first impression, what is it about a woman that attracts you?
2. As a first impression, what do you find most repulsive?
3. After first impressions, what is it that keeps you interested?

1. I'm happily married so it would be, a very first glance, designs on her clothes that showed a mutual pop culture interest. That said though, I am an ass man lol.
2. "Holy shit, is she a bitch! Never mind!"
3. The ability to just actually converse. A willingness to just be themselves, let there hair down, and hang.

 

[suckonsimon]

1. A sparkle, humour, and easy confidence in her personality.

2. The term is too strong for me; there's no woman who I find repulsive. But for sexual chemistry I rarely have it with really very rounded woman. Such women I can like or love to bits but sexual desire for her might not kick in for me.

3. Look. I have deep friendships with blokes; the woman in my life who I go deep with needs to want fucking. A lot. And all the associated play that goes with it. ... and I'm smiling.

 

[Deleted member 1655181]

Hey, Men of Literotica, we've poled the ladies, now enlighten us:
1. At first impression, what is it about a woman that attracts you?
2. As a first impression, what do you find most repulsive?
3. After first impressions, what is it that keeps you interested?

1 Pretty face and smile, combined with a fit body (don't think I could be attracted to a pretty face if obese down below)
2 Haughty attitude and demanding nature (high maintenance)
3 Brains, quick wit and a gentle, forgiving spirit

 

[Christobal]

I don't care what you look like. It's your brain that will engage me.
Kind of like a present covered in pretty wrapping. The wrapping doesn't matter. It's what's inside that will hold my attention.

 

[Deleted member 1655181]

I don't care what you look like. It's your brain that will engage me.
Kind of like a present covered in pretty wrapping. The wrapping doesn't matter. It's what's inside that will hold my attention.

So you're saying that you could be attracted to someone completely disgusting physically if you came to find that they were quick witted, informed, and could consequently engage you in intellectual matters?

 

[HoldYouDown]

1. At first impression, what is it about a woman that attracts you?

Smile - and her face in general, which should reflect an overall positive attitude. (Though anyone can have a bad day.)

2. As a first impression, what do you find most repulsive?

If she hasn't taken the time on her appearance - grooming, clothing, etc., it's a turn off. Especially sweat pants, bad hair, bad shoes.

3. After first impressions, what is it that keeps you interested?

Personality - is she a happy person? Friendly? Sweet? Feminine?

 

[soflabbwlvr]

Hey, Men of Literotica, we've poled the ladies, now enlighten us:
1. At first impression, what is it about a woman that attracts you?
2. As a first impression, what do you find most repulsive?
3. After first impressions, what is it that keeps you interested?

1. It depends. With different women, different things can be attractive. Sometimes it's her physical attributes, sometimes it's her inner qualities. It could be a pretty face, her figure, her tits, legs or ass. It could be her voice, her laugh, or her smile. Sometimes it's her confidence, poise, or her intelligence. Competence--doing whatever she does like a boss. It could be her sass or her sense of humor. Maybe brazen sexuality, or even sometimes the polar opposite--demureness. It's not any one thing--but it could be anything.

2. An obnoxious personality.

3. A pleasant personality. Anything less is a deal breaker.

 

[KentuckyDom1971]

Pretty smile with eyes that say there is more.

Rude, loud, arrogance

Mystery, kindness, sexuality

 

[Carnevil9]

Hey, Men of Literotica, we've poled the ladies, now enlighten us:
1. At first impression, what is it about a woman that attracts you?
2. As a first impression, what do you find most repulsive?
3. After first impressions, what is it that keeps you interested?

1. Painted fingernails. That turns my head every time. And if she wears glasses, that's a huge plus, too.

2. Being a bitch: rude to a bartender or companion or a stranger.

3. Brains and a twisted sense of humor.


PS - sometimes I've heard this type of question phrased as: "What do you like in your women?" In that case, the obvious answer is "my dick!"

 

[RedRyder50]

Ladies, there you have a good sample of men to go from. What do you get from this. Or, do you care?

 

[whyimkinky]

Her smile and eyes

If she's smoking or wearing sweatpants.

Sense of humor and sensuality

 

[julybaby04]

Really nice to see guys being open and honest.

Interesting that the smile was important to so many. That is really a beautiful thing to see. .

 

[roc23]

1. Her hair,her lips,her eyes,the way she moves.

2. Rude,lack of empathy,smoking.

3. Intelligence,down to earth,gets my sense of humor.

 

[Thecsm]

Hey, Men of Literotica, we've poled the ladies, now enlighten us:
1. At first impression, what is it about a woman that attracts you?
2. As a first impression, what do you find most repulsive?
3. After first impressions, what is it that keeps you interested?

!. Long dark hair, her eyes and then her smile.

2. Rudeness, arrogance.

3. Down to earth, interesting, can handle my twisted sense of humor. don't want to change me.

 

[Monica_112]

Ladies, there you have a good sample of men to go from. What do you get from this. Or, do you care?

Don't care if I'm honest

I've always found that all you need to do is show interest in a man that's generally enough to spark their interest

 

[KinkyCEO]

Don't care if I'm honest

I've always found that all you need to do is show interest in a man that's generally enough to spark their interest

True, but sparking it is one thing. Sustaining his interest is another. Perhaps that's too general of a statement. It's possible I fall outside the norm.

 

[StrongMaster7]

1. At first impression, what is it about a woman that attracts you?

A smile, a spark of personality, a shapely body, big tits.

2. As a first impression, what do you find most repulsive?

Cold attitude, poor hygiene, excessive piercings and tattoos.

3. After first impressions, what is it that keeps you interested?

Mutual attraction, interest, humor, openness.

 

[CuriousTxGuy]

Hey, Men of Literotica, we've poled the ladies, now enlighten us:
1. At first impression, what is it about a woman that attracts you?
2. As a first impression, what do you find most repulsive?
3. After first impressions, what is it that keeps you interested?

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