I am meeting a gal this afternoon for her first girl-girl experience. I have been around a little; but still not super experienced bi married mom. I think I am quite a bit oder than her. Can't wait, but I don't want to scare her with my hungry mouth. Can be aggressive. Any suggestions? I am so wet now thinking of it. Making out, letting her touch me, call the shots. Gad, can't wait. I don't do this too often.
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Good luck...I always wanted to watch two women - see how they interact and watch them build and then reach the climax.
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As with any first time experience, it's the experience that will make or break her lust and craving for more. She's obviously interested in exploring her sexuality and isn't anything but intrigued about our way of life. She may not be completely "out" yet, so this may promote inhibition depending on how truly curious she is. I have been many a girls' first g-g encounter and I can tell you regardless of how excited she is, there may be still some reservation. I've seen this play out in the pacing of things and I've had girls do everything from practically tackle me at the door to drive their tongue down my throat to walking up behind me to grab my pussy and pull my hair (somehow thinking it would be a turn on).
As we in the gay community are not typically known to be the most "commited" partners, partners can tend to mean sexual not romantic. Bare this in mind as you talk to her and understand where she's coming from. Some girls may want to have their first time to try it on bc their BF or hubby is begging for a 3-way and may not really be committed to letting go for a true experience. Other girls wanna ditch the male species and their clothes at your door (while this can be fun, it may lead to dissappointment down the road as these are the ones who typically go back screeming into the closet).
I like to make things casual, romantic and easy. I insist that everyone remove their shoes at my door (3 reasons; Borbour, relaxation, I love girls feet). Also, how well a girl takes care of their feet is a pretty good indication of how well they take care of the rest of their body as well. A glass of wine, seated on the floor with candles (or fireplace), pillows and a soft blanket are really about all it takes to set the mood. With naked toes, a soft foot massage can turn into a sensual foreplay leading to gettin down with your bad naked selves. Toes lead to ankles, lead to thighs, lead to worlds beyond (remember the first time another woman touched your inner thighs ;-)
Wear something provocitive but not slutty. You want to wear easily removable (or easily to access in-spite of), clothes that will allow you to enjoy a relaxed casual experience without the worry of sitting on something uncomfortable or irritating. Let your hair down and enjoy your company.
Just my thoughts.
-J.
As we in the gay community are not typically known to be the most "commited" partners, partners can tend to mean sexual not romantic. Bare this in mind as you talk to her and understand where she's coming from. Some girls may want to have their first time to try it on bc their BF or hubby is begging for a 3-way and may not really be committed to letting go for a true experience. Other girls wanna ditch the male species and their clothes at your door (while this can be fun, it may lead to dissappointment down the road as these are the ones who typically go back screeming into the closet).
I like to make things casual, romantic and easy. I insist that everyone remove their shoes at my door (3 reasons; Borbour, relaxation, I love girls feet). Also, how well a girl takes care of their feet is a pretty good indication of how well they take care of the rest of their body as well. A glass of wine, seated on the floor with candles (or fireplace), pillows and a soft blanket are really about all it takes to set the mood. With naked toes, a soft foot massage can turn into a sensual foreplay leading to gettin down with your bad naked selves. Toes lead to ankles, lead to thighs, lead to worlds beyond (remember the first time another woman touched your inner thighs ;-)
Wear something provocitive but not slutty. You want to wear easily removable (or easily to access in-spite of), clothes that will allow you to enjoy a relaxed casual experience without the worry of sitting on something uncomfortable or irritating. Let your hair down and enjoy your company.
Just my thoughts.
-J.
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