Helping exwife date

[a88841]

Husband cheats on wife- she catches him and is done with marriage. However, they have kids and don't want to lose house so they only separate in the emotional and sexual sense. They remain married and share same bed. However, they each intend to date but strugle with the mechanics of it after marriage.

Wife relies on husband to be wingman, which created tension since he's still attracted to his wife.

Also, husband has to hear her stories afterwards but husband can't let it show how much it bothers him while surprisined at how much be is turned on by it. He is especially aroused because after ten years of marriage there is nothing she won't do for her new dates. Plus, husband hits a dry spell.

 

[ThePhoenixMan]

This has potential along the lines of "War Of The Roses" kind of vein!

I could see it being a rather lengthy story with many chapters, each evolving with multiple scenarios. The man may be successful at first, but later hits a dry spell! Maybe they both make a deal, that if the other brings a lover home, the other has to hide in the closet! Wach one starts making life hell for the other. Maybe then they start making bets and other "arrangements" that put the other into compromising or uncomfortable positions.

I could see the woman gaining an upper hand as she finds her sexual freedom, and the husband slowly falling into a submissive state as he finds excitement in his wife's activities!

 

[snoopercharmbrights]

... They remain married and share same bed. ...

We moved the twin beds from the guest room and put the double in there. It really is easier.

... they each intend to date ...

When she brought her steady date home they used the guest room until five or six in the morning, then crept into our room so the kids wouldn't guess. Of course, being kids, they knew almost from the first time.

... surprised at how much be is turned on by it. ...

True, I was.

... Plus, husband hits a dry spell.

No - I didn't have that problem, but I never brought mine home.

 

[a88841]

Woman's side of this

I think the woman has severe internal tension.
Most women crave emotional intimacy before they share physical intimacy.
In this case she has emotional ntimacy with her husband.
However, post-marriage many women learn to turn to a man for physical intimacy because they financially and emotionally cannot get hurt again.

Thus, you've got a torn husband dealing with a wife all over the map.

 

[a88841]

In one vein, the wife uses a walkout basement for her suitor. Thus, husband can know what's going on without being in closet.

The couple also could get small studio apartment for both to use for extracurriculars. Eventually husband stops using and wife uses extensively. Husband gets to know security man who tells him of comings and goings.

 

[a88841]

In one vein, the wife uses a walkout basement for her suitor. Thus, husband can know what's going on without being in closet.

The couple also could get small studio apartment for both to use for extracurriculars. Eventually husband stops using and wife uses extensively. Husband gets to know security man who tells him of comings and goings.

Thoughts?