dashd
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- Jul 28, 2006
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My wife... pretty vanilla... has finally agreed to help my fulfill a fantasy... basically orgasm denial, use of a chastity cage and tease. she asked me to put some aspects of my fantasy in writing to act as a guide. WHat I hav put down so far follows but what I am looking for is some ideas, especially from a woman's perspective, to make it more enjoyable for her as well.
You are to have absolute and total control of when, where, how and if I achieve orgasm
My body is to be used in any way you see fit for your pleasure
I am absolutely not allowed to cum unless you initiate sex
I am only allowed to cum with your specific permission and for your pleasure (yes I must ask or be told first)
Lock up is also a tool to keep me from taking matters into my own hands therefore I must be locked up whenever you cannot control my ability to take matter into my own hands
I must be your slave (sexually and otherwise including chores and favors... have fun with this one!) or not be allowed to cum but doing them does not guarantee my being allowed to cum
There must be punishment for misbehavior (i.e. longer period of time before allowed to cum or a knee or otherwise to the groin, more chores, spanking)
Misbehavior can be as you define including failure to do what you tell me, touching myself without your permission or direction, cumming without permission, disturbing your sleep, having an erection for no apparent reason, attempting to initiate sex when you are unwilling, allowing myself to become too stimulated too quickly
You may achieve orgasm in any way, place, and when you please... initially at least 4 times before I am allowed to cum
There may be sex where I receive no genital stimulation and I may or may not be locked up during this.
There may be sex where I am brought to the edge of orgasm or brought to the edge of orgasm repeatedly and then denied (the closer I am brought to orgasm the better)
There must be a significant period of time before I am allowed to cum and between my orgasms (at least 2-4 weeks... maximum as you define even as you once mentioned 6 months or more for you are in control)
If you decide you like the attention, my slavery and control, lock up and orgasm control and slavery may be extended as long as you like including indefinitely
Sex is to be for your pleasure and my teasing
The purpose of this control is to make me so horny and want to cum so badly that I would do absolutely anything you ask of me to be allowed to cum and I must prove it! (YES MAKE ME PROVE IT... but that does not mean I will be allowed to cum)
At no time shall any of the above be taken to mean I will be allowed to cum, or to be allowed to cum within a certain period of time.
thanks for your ideas
You are to have absolute and total control of when, where, how and if I achieve orgasm
My body is to be used in any way you see fit for your pleasure
I am absolutely not allowed to cum unless you initiate sex
I am only allowed to cum with your specific permission and for your pleasure (yes I must ask or be told first)
Lock up is also a tool to keep me from taking matters into my own hands therefore I must be locked up whenever you cannot control my ability to take matter into my own hands
I must be your slave (sexually and otherwise including chores and favors... have fun with this one!) or not be allowed to cum but doing them does not guarantee my being allowed to cum
There must be punishment for misbehavior (i.e. longer period of time before allowed to cum or a knee or otherwise to the groin, more chores, spanking)
Misbehavior can be as you define including failure to do what you tell me, touching myself without your permission or direction, cumming without permission, disturbing your sleep, having an erection for no apparent reason, attempting to initiate sex when you are unwilling, allowing myself to become too stimulated too quickly
You may achieve orgasm in any way, place, and when you please... initially at least 4 times before I am allowed to cum
There may be sex where I receive no genital stimulation and I may or may not be locked up during this.
There may be sex where I am brought to the edge of orgasm or brought to the edge of orgasm repeatedly and then denied (the closer I am brought to orgasm the better)
There must be a significant period of time before I am allowed to cum and between my orgasms (at least 2-4 weeks... maximum as you define even as you once mentioned 6 months or more for you are in control)
If you decide you like the attention, my slavery and control, lock up and orgasm control and slavery may be extended as long as you like including indefinitely
Sex is to be for your pleasure and my teasing
The purpose of this control is to make me so horny and want to cum so badly that I would do absolutely anything you ask of me to be allowed to cum and I must prove it! (YES MAKE ME PROVE IT... but that does not mean I will be allowed to cum)
At no time shall any of the above be taken to mean I will be allowed to cum, or to be allowed to cum within a certain period of time.
thanks for your ideas
