Help required by writer regarding "Father Fixation/Complex"

[000zing]

I've had a thread up on this matter in "Story Ideas" for a while and have received quite a few thoughts which seem interesting.

What I need also though is some input as to:

1. whether this complex actually exists and is not a product of over-heated, male wishful thinking

and, if so

2. what a female "sufferer" (?) can genuinely experience and feel in given situations

Anyone is welcome to contribute on point 1 but if any ladies (from birth) would care to answer a few questions on point 2 could they please contact me via PM/"conversation". I must stress that "Johns in Frocks" need not apply and proof will be required of female status.

 

[EvaLane]

I must stress that "Johns in Frocks" need not apply and proof will be required of female status.

What does this mean?

 

[000zing]

I'm just looking not to be messed around by any of the hundreds of "pretend females" on here. Any lady who contacts me in the way described is free to suggest a method with which she would be happy. Similarly, I have the right to object to any way which seems open to abuse.

Fair..?

 

[EvaLane]

I'm just looking not to be messed around by any of the hundreds of "pretend females" on here. Any lady who contacts me in the way described is free to suggest a method with which she would be happy. Similarly, I have the right to object to any way which seems open to abuse.

Fair..?

Not really. You’re seeking information from supposedly real life women who have experienced what I can only assume is a vulnerable and deeply personal thing to share with you - a stranger.

Asking for upfront verification about her sex reads more like you’re looking to get off yourself than write or produce anything worth the effort you’re asking others to go through for no personal gain.

That could all be bogus, but as a real woman, that’s the instant vibe you gave me. Your approach may need work, especially if you’re going to continue tackling such delicate topics.

I’m not trying to be combative, just honest. It’s on you to wade through the dicks, just like the rest of us women have to intuition and a good sense of judgement will get your further than demands/requests of evidence.

 

[000zing]

I can't help what "instant vibe" you get personally.

The situation is as described - I'm a long-standing contributor to the Story Ideas forum and my thread can be found there -and I believe I'm being fair and reasonable. No-one is being forced to approach me... but from those who do I need authoritative input and not mendacious crap.

 

[000zing]

Worth bumping a few times.

 

[Daddy4uhoney]

Not really. You’re seeking information from supposedly real life women who have experienced what I can only assume is a vulnerable and deeply personal thing to share with you - a stranger.

Asking for upfront verification about her sex reads more like you’re looking to get off yourself than write or produce anything worth the effort you’re asking others to go through for no personal gain.

That could all be bogus, but as a real woman, that’s the instant vibe you gave me. Your approach may need work, especially if you’re going to continue tackling such delicate topics.

I’m not trying to be combative, just honest. It’s on you to wade through the dicks, just like the rest of us women have to intuition and a good sense of judgement will get your further than demands/requests of evidence.

Well said Eva

 

[000zing]

Ignoring the suck-up-to-anything-which-has-a-female-sounding-username merchants, I present to you... my next 'bump'...

 

[000zing]

Maybe one last try.