Help...on the edge

[energizer03]

hello and i'm new here nice to meet you, and thank you for viewing the first in probably will be many questions, but enough about me on to my problem...me and my girl have been dating, and we have set our limits to such things as fingering and handjobs. she has told me (she's a virgin and not experienced, much like me) that she gets the "buildup" when i'm fingering/rubbing her clit. but it is like it goes and will just kinda go away , still feel good, but go away. it is like i can't get her "over the edge of orgasm"..any suggestions, thoughts, flames..

 

[Zmey]

can you lick her or that would be over the limit?
Has she ever made her self cum?
I don't think you can accomplish much with fingers only ...

Keep rubbing, listen for her moans, speed up when you see her enjoying it and don't stop.

 

[English Lady]

Communication is the key here, she needs to let you know what feels good,when she wants you to sped up or slow down, wghen she wants you to be hard and when she needs you to be soft.

It's difficault stimulating your partner with just your fingers because you don't know exactly what feels good for her,and as a woman i nkow sometimes i need direct clitoral stimulation and other times that is just too much.

 

[energizer03]

hmm very interesting. Me and her have "dry humped" and we do that on occasion. i can tell she's really into it cause she will tense up and grab me really tight, but then as she said its just as she can't get over that edge

 

[Belilica]

Try a small vibrating egg with varying speeds. You can use it while fingering her, or during oral if you decide to go that far. Also, don't limit the vibrations to her clit, experiment with other places you can rest it to get reactions. You could try using lube as well, sometimes if things are too dry it begins to be painful.

 

[intelligencenazi]

"I don't think you can accomplish much with fingers only ... "

BITE YOUR TONGUE! Energizer, don't listen to that part of Zmey's post. Your hands can be a wonderful thing. English Lady's right. Communication is definitely key. Pay attention to what she tells you, how she moves, her breathing, sounds she makes, etc. You also might want to read the "try this and report back" thread.