HELP ME I NEED TO KNOW ABOUT ORAL SEX

[Renagade21]

how do i give oral sex to a lady?? help me please i know the basics but i am looking for icing on the cake, guys and gals are welcome resopse, ladies how do you like to be eaten out?? and guys how or what are the finer points in doing it? andything would be of great help.


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Renagade21

 

[jenjen]

I like it when a guy spends a lot of time licking me slowly before penetrating me with his tongue. Lots of slow, long strokes with his tongue and a few flicks along my clit. Then when I get all hot and bothered then I love to have my clit gently grabbed between a guys lips and almost sucked. Thats when it is nice to have a finger or vibrator inside of me too. And make sure you take your time~! Girls take a lot longer than guys do to get off!

 

[Renagade21]

thank you

thank you and keep them cumming in a sense!!! i need all the help i can get!

 

[Kasha]

well.....

this is a difficult subject due to the fact that all women are different. Some like it featehr light and teasing... others like it a bit more aggressive. Personally, I think that time is the key element. This is not something tht can be done quickly. As in the other post...it does take a woman a bit longer to get off than a guy.. I think that exploration is good and really enjoying... we can tell if this is just something a guy is doing briefly so he can get his...ya know. I think that you should kinda know what gets this particular woman off first... like you should have seen her pleasure herself, that way you know what kinda momentum she likes. Then when you are actually there doing it...you should gently insert a finger into her and once it is in curve your finger up towards her belly. I think this gives optimum pressure to her g-spot and ...if you do it right....whoo!!!!!! She will probably be your love slave... I hope that helps ya. Let us know...

 

[Jake2001]

Go easy

Be gentle with your tongue. Make sure that you don't get too rough enduring your own passion. The clitoris is a very sensitive female organ and too much pressure (especially applied too soon) can bestow the opposite effect that you are trying to achieve.

I learned this the hard way [no pun intended].

 

[Renagade21]

ok cool new question

what turn you on personally? and what just blows your mind that a guy can do to you during sex?? And thank you for all your posts keep replying to all questions on here i check back every day!!

 

[Weird Harold]

Re: ok cool new question

what turn you on personally? and what just blows your mind that a guy can do to you during sex?? And thank you for all your posts keep replying to all questions on here i check back every day!!

I think this is a question that you should ask your partner. Every woman is just a little different and the best soource for finding those differences is the woman involved.

 

[FeatherLight]

Re: well.....

this is a difficult subject due to the fact that all women are different. Some like it feather light and teasing... others like it a bit more aggressive.

*grins* Did I hear my name? lol. jk.

Like Kasha said, It's all different. Maybe you should ask HER what she likes. As you're doing it, keep asking her "you like that?" or something along those lines. She'll let you know.

What turns me on? Dirty Dancing. No, not the movie, which I can't stand. But stripping down, and dancing with my man (who's also a dancer)... man, that just turns me on like you wouldn't believe.

You should try it sometime, really. May not sound too much, but "bumping and grinding" when naked is like nothing else there is.

 

[Renagade21]

I thank all of you

along with helping me i am asking for your personal ideas because i am curious about what everyone is like if you want to be open and tell all go ahea and if not that is fine too. i am sure that anyone that posts on here is not only helping me but themselves and all others who read this post. so keep them cumminG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

 

[Whispersecret]

Long assed post warning

Here are my suggestions as posted months ago. Note all of this is what I like personally. This may not hold true for all women.

TIP #1: I like to be seriously teased first. Don't zero in on the clit right away like it's the bull's eye in a game of darts. Lick softly anywhere and everywhere but. A couple of feather light touches here and there are okay, but don't go for the gusto right away.

TIP #2: Start softly and slowly. And I mean really soft. For me, I might be nicely coasting toward a great orgasm, and then, whoops, my man goes at it too hard, and immediately we're back to Square One. Picture the road to Orgasm as a hill. If a guy goes at me too hard halfway there, I roll all the way back down to the bottom.

TIP #3: I don't like a pointy tongue on my clit. Ouch. Keep it flat.

TIP #4: Pay attention to myresponse. You should be able to tell (by mymoans, my hips shifting, my hands gripping your head) if I like the specific thing you're doing at the time. If I like it, KEEP DOING IT. Momentum is important. (Remember the hill? Don't let me stall.)

TIP #5: Try not to sigh while you're eating me. Sometimes it takes me a long time to come, and I worry that my guy is getting tired of it and is wishing he never started in the first place. I worry that he feels OBLIGATED to make me come if he ventures downward. So, a sigh would indicate impatience, and foster that sense of guilt that I haven't come yet and it's been <looks at her watch> fifteen twenty/whatever minutes already! Worry isn't helpful when I'm trying to come.

TIP #6: I don't know about other girls, but for a long time I was really worried about my smell and taste and that it was unpleasant. Your girl may have the same concerns I used to have. Maybe you want to tell her how much you like the way she smells and tastes.

TIP #7: Personally, I'm not really much into the stiff-tongue-in-the-vagina thing. Cocks do that type of thing much better than a tongue.

TIP #8: Give me room to move around. I don't know about other women, but sometimes I need to shift my hips this way or that to keep your tongue where I want it or move away from a too-intense assault. If you hold me down in a static position, you're likely to shove me back down that hill. Sometimes on the road to orgasm I need to back off a little, and sometimes I need to get a little more of that particular good thing you are doing.

TIP #9 Be careful of that five o'clock shadow. If you really want to be good to me, shave. The sandpaper abrasion of your stubble can be painfully rough.

TIP #10: Between the clitoris and the vagina is the urethra, that little opening where the urine comes out. You might want to veer away from that little place. If it's abraded or rubbed too much the girl can develop a nasty bladder infection. (Same thing can happen when she wears jeans that are too tight.) An orgasm from a man's tongue can be magically intense, but not worth painful urination, a trip to the gynecologist, chugging cranberry juice, and prescription drugs.

TIP #11: For those of you too young to remember the Herpes "epidemic" of the eighties, don't go down on her (or vice versa) if you have cold sores or canker sores.

TIP #12: After I come from a tongue on me, I'm usually ULTRA sensitve to any penetration of my pussy. Anything inside me makes me feel like I'm having one long intense orgasm. Tongue is good, but fingers (against the g-spot) or a cock is even better. Don't dawdle around too long after that oral orgasm if you want to take advantage of that window of opportunity. The period of ultra-sensitivity doesn't last that long.

Again, this is all from my own personal experience. Other women may feel differently. Best of luck.

 

[Jake2001]

A wonderfully informative and instructive set of tips WS. As a male who feels there is always more to learn about his favorite subject, I savored all twelve. I found it particularly interesting that many of the tips seem (to me) to be shared by my wife. I wonder if she wouldn't also agree with you about the balance. [I'll ask her but tonight isn't good]

This leads me to the point. You stated that these tips are your personal preferences. Is this, in general, a good list for how most women feel? How many lit women agree with these twelve points? If not, how do you disagree/differ from them?

 

[Renagade21]

Thank you!

wow whisper secret thatnk you i will cherish allthese tips!! thank you one and all and keep them Coming these tips benifit all men so maybe your guy could get a hint here in order to help you achive that sexual 10 th cloud.
once agian thank you.

 

[Flagg]

Is this renagade male or renagade female we're talking to here?

 

[Whispersecret]

Flagg, I really hope it's a male. If a female is asking for tips on cunnilingus, she must really be detached from what causes her own enjoyment.

 

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