Help! I broke my libido!

[Darla_Darling]

I want sex. Pretty much always. Same as you, right? Otherwise, what are you doing here?

I don't usually have a problem getting sex when I want it. Actually, there's a sexy, charming guy who lives just blocks away from me who has invited me over to his house tonight for obvious erotic purposes, and I've turned him down for reasons I can't quite fathom.

I'm feeling down and lonely and disconnected and horny. So why did I say no? Why am I so miserable lately?

Why am I typing on here instead of getting my brains fucked clean out? Any theories?

 

[Gaslamp_Society]

You may be unconsciously desiring other needs that sex doesn't provide.... Although some put sex in the bottom rung of Maslow's Hierarchy of Need, I see it way above in the upper tier where creativity and self-actualization belong. Emotional things often need to be addressed in order to help those find their healthy sexual voice. Never hurts to talk to a counselor!

 

[Que]

clinical depression

If things that normally interest you can't entice you out of the doldrums most likely is actual depression. Pills work better than therapy for non environmentally caused depression, but side effects suck...naturally can look at diet standard healthy stuff helps, complex carbs, fruits...all those alleged aphdodisiacs likely are just anti-depressants, try 'em all.

exercise even if you dont want to,..

good luck

 

[george51]

I want sex. Pretty much always. Same as you, right? Otherwise, what are you doing here?

Why am I typing on here instead of getting my brains fucked clean out? Any theories?

No. The first part I agree with. The second part I don't understand.

Good luck anyway.

 

[Darla_Darling]

Thanks all. I realise that I'm down. In a terrible funk. Not so far that I'm in a clinical depression. I do take anti-depressants, by the way. So I recognize real clinical depression when I feel it. This is just a bad mood. It will pass. George, I know what you're saying. Crazy, right? That's how bad my bad moods get.

 

[coastal-boy]

sounds to me like he needs to show up on your doorstep with dinner, wine and a movie...fucking amateurs