Help! Confused by sudden crossdressing fetish

[Cabeza]

So i assume you also enjoy wearing women’s clothes/lingerie?
(Also i haven’t worked my way up to wearing things out… much)

 

[neon_noodle]

So i assume you also enjoy wearing women’s clothes/lingerie?
(Also i haven’t worked my way up to wearing things out… much)

Love it. If I have the time I'll slut all up in panties, stockings, garter belt, skirt, bra, and tight top, and spend hours jacking off. I usually finally shoot so hard the cumload splatters my face and open mouth.

 

[Cabeza]

I think the best thing about panties is how they cup your ass

 

[Lemmetri]

I think the best thing about panties is how they cup your ass

What if the panties are a thong?

 

[Boymeetsworld]

I am still discovering all of the many facets to cross dressing. For me, I really feel quite sexy and beautiful when wearing women’s clothing, in a way that I’ve never felt wearing my everyday attire. I’ve only ever dressed in private and never more than panties for an ex-fwb. I dream of being with a women, dressed in women’s clothing myself.. I love when a woman is attracted to my feminine side. I am hard when I wear clothes alone, but if I’m able to share the experience with a chat partner, it is much more enhanced.

I just bought some makeup today for the first time at the request of a new chat friend. I’m excited to try makeup for the first time. And im excited to see if my new friend is equally as excited or not.

 

[Leslie51]

I think the best thing about panties is how they cup your ass

Love wearing lingerie. It is so soft and silky against your body. I love wearing body shapers. They give you a nice feminine shape. I love being dressed like a woman. I even have a nice pair of breasts. I love the way I fill my bra.

 

[Cabeza]

What if the panties are a thong?

Dunno, i haven’t worn one yet

 

[Lemmetri]

Dunno, i haven’t worn one yet

They feel very sexy!

 

[Buffalogurl]

Hi all,
I’m a married (to a woman) middle aged guy who has had bisexual experiences in the distant past. Recently I was complaining to my wife that my jeans were too tight (I’d like to say it’s cuz I’m so well endowed lol) and she offered me her skirt… literally took it off and handed it to me. I put it on and… wow. I got hard instantly. It felt so good swishing around my legs. Since then I’ve worn it every chance I get and I want to wear more women’s clothes. I don’t want to *be* a woman… just a man dressed feminine. Am i alone? Is this weird? Do women (or men) think I’m crazy?
- Turned on but confused

Sweetie, do yourself a favor and purchase your own gurl clothing..... take up shaving all of your body hair and moisturize don't buy any underwear with lace it'll rub you raw..... just say'in......and yes this can be confusing, be careful not to let this engulf your life.... don't mess up your marriage, this can easily happen......
Sweetie when ya get it right, the wig, boobs, shapewear and heels.......you become someone else......

 

[Cabeza]

Sweetie, do yourself a favor and purchase your own gurl clothing..... take up shaving all of your body hair and moisturize don't buy any underwear with lace it'll rub you raw..... just say'in......and yes this can be confusing, be careful not to let this engulf your life.... don't mess up your marriage, this can easily happen......
Sweetie when ya get it right, the wig, boobs, shapewear and heels.......you become someone else......

Thanks, I appreciate the advice. I’m absolutely planning to go shopping for some clothing soon… hopefully with my wife to help me decide!

They feel very sexy!

I’ll make sure to pick one up next time I’m in Target!

 

[Buffalogurl]

Thanks, I appreciate the advice. I’m absolutely planning to go shopping for some clothing soon… hopefully with my wife to help me decide!

I’ll make sure to pick one up next time I’m in Target!

Sweetie in the theme of full disclosure.. I must say.... be very careful about this, just ask any of the other gurls crossdressing has a dark side, from guilt to fear and more.....
I'm not trying to frighten you at all it's just that you become two people, two personalities, two wants and needs....yes crossdressing can be and is absolutely fun
Here's a few more thoughts to ponder...... now don't take this wrong I'm not try to hurt anyone.... with that said, if your somewhat overweight, start taking better care of yourself walk a mile every day (this alone will do wonders for your legs).
Stop eating any and all fast food that shit'll kill ya, if you smoke, stop. if you consume alcohol, stop that'll do wonders for your skin.... your gonna discover that you'll groom yourself better nails, skin, posture.... just to name a few... there's lots and lots more.....

 

[Cabeza]

I do genuinely appreciate your thoughts Buffalogurl. I don’t see myself as two people, I see myself as a man who has opened his eyes to the feminine aspects of himself.

I’m also already pretty healthy. Maybe a touch of a dad bod lol

 

[Cabeza]

I’m going to propose a bold hypothesis, because it’s my thread and I can. I’m standing here in a pair of women’s panties - not super slutty or anything - and they feel great. I think men’s underwear is (intentionally or not) designed to “keep things in check”. There’s a heavy waistband and a bunch of fabric and honestly it feels like the point is to minimize the fact that we have dicks. Whereas the panties have just enough waistband and ride low and basically they’re barely there. And I love it.

 

[JeanPanty]

I’m going to propose a bold hypothesis, because it’s my thread and I can. I’m standing here in a pair of women’s panties - not super slutty or anything - and they feel great. I think men’s underwear is (intentionally or not) designed to “keep things in check”. There’s a heavy waistband and a bunch of fabric and honestly it feels like the point is to minimize the fact that we have dicks. Whereas the panties have just enough waistband and ride low and basically they’re barely there. And I love it.

True...many panties can't even contain the male anatomy, especially if aroused...

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I get so turned on by a cock popping out of lace panties…

 

[Bisnjguy]

I love when my cock is poking out of a pair of nice lace panties.

 

[Cabeza]

I’ve started wearing panties somewhat regularly and it’s such a thrill! I always wonder if people notice when I bend over or lift my arms or when I’m pulling them down at a urinal

 

[MeganFachs]

I’ve started wearing panties somewhat regularly and it’s such a thrill! I always wonder if people notice when I bend over or lift my arms or when I’m pulling them down at a urinal

Do you do little things to increase the risk of exposure? Do you wish women, men, or both would see you wear women’s underwear?

 

[Kevthebrit]

You’re not alone. I’d say turned on for sure. My 1 st wife let me wear her things. It all started as a dare one day when we were shopping. She was clothes shopping, and asked me my opinion on some things. Then she went to the panty and bra area to look. We picked out a couple things, then she picked a pair of panties and said, I think these would look good on you. I just laughed as she put them in the cart. That night she had me wear them. From then on I have worn pretty much anything lace and sexy. She is gone but I really like dressing in lace still.

Very nice.

 

[Cabeza]

Do you do little things to increase the risk of exposure? Do you wish women, men, or both would see you wear women’s underwear?

Both women and men, but I think about women seeing me more. Partly because I'm more into women in general, and partly because they seem like they'd be more accepting and less likely to kick my ass lol. Yes I do little things to increase the chance of someone seeing, at least if I'm around strangers (i.e., not at work). Bend over and hope someone's checking out my ass and sees the lace. Or reach for something on the top shelf or whatever. I really need some more creative ideas, tho, I'm new to this!

 

[stargame]

Do you do little things to increase the risk of exposure? Do you wish women, men, or both would see you wear women’s underwear?

I'm sure I unconsciously do. Sometimes, when I go to the hardware store, or a big box stores I will lean over in hopes that someone will see that i'm wearing lace panties.
And of course, I love going lingerie shopping. I love touching all the fabrics, and i'm sure that some of the ladies know that i'm buying for myself.

 

[Cabeza]

I'm sure I unconsciously do. Sometimes, when I go to the hardware store, or a big box stores I will lean over in hopes that someone will see that i'm wearing lace panties.
And of course, I love going lingerie shopping. I love touching all the fabrics, and i'm sure that some of the ladies know that i'm buying for myself.

I haven’t had the pleasure of going lingerie shopping for myself yet. Yet.

 

[smoothwiener]

I haven’t had the pleasure of going lingerie shopping for myself yet. Yet.

It's only embarrassing the first few times. I've done it so many times I'll ask for help finding something without thinking twice about it . Not saying for myself, but saying picking up stuff for my wife. I'm wondering if any of them remotely suspected they were for myself. If they did they didn't lead into it.

I have enough to literally last me the rest of my life, but the thrill of a new pair is strong enough to keep me buying more.

 

[Cabeza]

It's only embarrassing the first few times. I've done it so many times I'll ask for help finding something without thinking twice about it . Not saying for myself, but saying picking up stuff for my wife. I'm wondering if any of them remotely suspected they were for myself. If they did they didn't lead into it.

I have enough to literally last me the rest of my life, but the thrill of a new pair is strong enough to keep me buying more.

I like how you think. Looking forward to starting my own collection….

 

[Cabeza]

I tried on my wife’s silk nightgown today and it felt marvelous. Looking forward to a night when I can “borrow” it for a while!