she might be making you her panty boy
Help! Confused by sudden crossdressing fetish
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Could be fun but I doubt it. I suspect my adventures wearing panties will be a solo thing :-(
AlexBailey
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Is it a kink or a fetish? Kinks are more like odd interests while fetishes are more like needs.
I have lots of kinks that are fun but that I can go without if I need to. Cross dressing often feels like a need. It’s linked to something deep inside me that feels some sort of confirmation by it. The best feeling to me is when someone else connects with this feeling or is attracted to my feminine side.
I often feel like an imposter as a guy - sometimes like I’m really trans-masc instead of trans femme. That’s probably why I like tomboys so much. I’ve always gotten crushes on tomboys and femme guys - especially cute ones who don’t necessarily pass.
I have lots of kinks that are fun but that I can go without if I need to. Cross dressing often feels like a need. It’s linked to something deep inside me that feels some sort of confirmation by it. The best feeling to me is when someone else connects with this feeling or is attracted to my feminine side.
I often feel like an imposter as a guy - sometimes like I’m really trans-masc instead of trans femme. That’s probably why I like tomboys so much. I’ve always gotten crushes on tomboys and femme guys - especially cute ones who don’t necessarily pass.
Is it a kink or a fetish? I don’t know. It’s not even just sexual. It’s just that wearing skirts and panties has felt so right…Is it a kink or a fetish? Kinks are more like odd interests while fetishes are more like needs.
I have lots of kinks that are fun but that I can go without if I need to. Cross dressing often feels like a need. It’s linked to something deep inside me that feels some sort of confirmation by it. The best feeling to me is when someone else connects with this feeling or is attracted to my feminine side.
I often feel like an imposter as a guy - sometimes like I’m really trans-masc instead of trans femme. That’s probably why I like tomboys so much. I’ve always gotten crushes on tomboys and femme guys - especially cute ones who don’t necessarily pass.
I wore panties to work today for the first time. I got to the office and started to pull off my hoodie and then thought “wait if I pull my hoodie up and my tee pulls up, everyone will see the lacy tops of my panties.” I chose to be discreet lol
MeganFachs
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That’s how my hubby puts it. He just feels right when he crossdresses. Like using the pen in the hand it is most natural in… with more shaving and makeup lol
Leslie51
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I love to dress in lingerie and it feels so sexy. Love to feel like a woman.
Have any suggestions for a new cross dresser? (Is that even the right word??)
Leslie51
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Just enjoy the feeling of being feminized. You can imagine how it feels to a woman. Their lingerie is so soft and feels so soft against your body. I love being dressed like a woman. I love being a sissy and being used as one. I started dressing from a young age. It’s a journey that can take you to new heights.
MeganFachs
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I realize the temptation will be to “borrow” a woman’s panties or more. Unless you have permission or encouragement, don’t do that. Gross. Buy your own. Hell half the stores have self serve checkouts so there’s no risk of anyone even noticing and they wouldn’t say anything even if they did. If you enjoy wearing, work up to shopping in women’s clothing stores, asking for them to help you find your size, ask to use the dressing room, and eventually ask their opinion if something looks cute or hot on you…
To be clear, the only panties I’ve worn are my wife’s, and she not only gave consent but she suggested it in the first place. In fact I’m wearing a pair now.
I can identify with how you feel. I love dressing up in lingerie and jerking, sometimes fucking my arse with a nice lubed dildo. I have had lots of fantasies of being dressed as a hot slut, and used by two or three sexy men- cum in and over, and sucked them all clean……
ChrisOU812
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I agree totally!
ChrisOU812
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TY lovingpantyboy!
DeeDeeGQ
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I do so enjoy the taboo thrill of shopping for my own lingerie, in both large department stores with lots of other (women) shoppers around or in small lingerie boutiques where personalized service is the norm.
My favorite part, particularly when others are in line behind me, is the checkout counter experience. The looks I get from the female staff and other customers really enhances the thrill, particularly as the sales staff slowly and gently folds my purchases as wraps them singularity in tissue paper. I love it when they hold each garment up at eye level and inspect them before folding each item. I've received a few winks at this point over the years.
Smoothshavendad
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How very naughty. Perhaps I should give you an x rated conference call…
You wouldn't go and distract me from work, would you?
Smoothshavendad
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Mmmhmmmm….You wouldn't go and distract me from work, would you?
Continuing to tell my story here cuz i have no one else to tell it to… Im in a hotel this week and brought some of my wife’s panties (with permission). Just wearing a pair of basic black ones while I do things in my hotel room but it’s definitely feeling good!
neon_noodle
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Very hot, love a nice hotel dress up session too. You got anything else to slide into tonight?
neon_noodle
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Stockings feel so good and sexy sliding up your legs, and then attaching them to garter straps will make your head spin.I brought a short comfy skirt… but honestly i tossed it aside to just walk around in panties. I wish I had more lingerie but I’m new to this
I’ve been thinking about stockings a lot in the few weeks I’ve been wearing women’s clothes. But I feel like I need to shave my legs and that’s such a big time commitment
neon_noodle
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A must if you wear them out, but just for hotel jacking off, you'll still love the way stockings feel.
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