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Hello guys and gals.

Edit: Gender = Male. In case I didn't mention it.

I just dropped by to ask some questions. Well I guess I'll only phrase one now. I do have a few more on BDSM, but I'll ask later. To summarize things for now: I've had an on-and-off again interest into BDSM. I'm not really that sexually experienced in the bedroom, and college doesn't seem to be full of similarly minded people. Anyways, onto my main point, for tonight at least. There is this girl, we met through some mutual interest, yada yada. Long story short, she currently resides several hundred miles away. We've done some things such as cyber/phone sex, etc.. It has always been a fun time, even though there's no physical contact. Anyways, as if reading my mind, she informed me I'm not allowed to cum for a week. Furthermore, she told me she plans to tease me at least everyday, but instructing me to do such things as edging myself... Well that's about when I started to get worried. Being an 18 year old and a freshman in college(btw, turning 18 wasn't as cool as I thought it was, looking forward to 21 though! ;)), I'm sure you understand how often I'm used to orgasming in a week, at least 5, and often up to 10. I can't ever recall going this long without being able to take care of some "business" since I went to summer camp for two weeks when I was 13! Physiologically, I've changed a lot since then. So I'm worried I either won't be able to make it, or might get like a perpetual erection all day in my classes. I'm used to casually glancing at my female peers throughout the day, now I'm worried I'll be trying to hide a large bulge in my pants! Are there any tips, short of a CB-6000, for keeping desire / any possible perpetual erection at bay during the course of the day? Also, any tips on how to control myself when I'm being told to bring myself close? I've tried the "think of something else" method before, but I think I need to take it up a notch. Sadly, I own one of those fleshlight things, so I'm worried that's going to factor into play too!
 
No advice, but wanted to say hello and welcome.

Someone will come along with a tip or two for you, I'm sure. -kitty
 
whoa123whoa123 said:
Hello guys and gals.

Edit: Gender = Male. In case I didn't mention it.

I just dropped by to ask some questions. Well I guess I'll only phrase one now. I do have a few more on BDSM, but I'll ask later. To summarize things for now: I've had an on-and-off again interest into BDSM. I'm not really that sexually experienced in the bedroom, and college doesn't seem to be full of similarly minded people. Anyways, onto my main point, for tonight at least. There is this girl, we met through some mutual interest, yada yada. Long story short, she currently resides several hundred miles away. We've done some things such as cyber/phone sex, etc.. It has always been a fun time, even though there's no physical contact. Anyways, as if reading my mind, she informed me I'm not allowed to cum for a week. Furthermore, she told me she plans to tease me at least everyday, but instructing me to do such things as edging myself... Well that's about when I started to get worried. Being an 18 year old and a freshman in college(btw, turning 18 wasn't as cool as I thought it was, looking forward to 21 though! ;)), I'm sure you understand how often I'm used to orgasming in a week, at least 5, and often up to 10. I can't ever recall going this long without being able to take care of some "business" since I went to summer camp for two weeks when I was 13! Physiologically, I've changed a lot since then. So I'm worried I either won't be able to make it, or might get like a perpetual erection all day in my classes. I'm used to casually glancing at my female peers throughout the day, now I'm worried I'll be trying to hide a large bulge in my pants! Are there any tips, short of a CB-6000, for keeping desire / any possible perpetual erection at bay during the course of the day? Also, any tips on how to control myself when I'm being told to bring myself close? I've tried the "think of something else" method before, but I think I need to take it up a notch. Sadly, I own one of those fleshlight things, so I'm worried that's going to factor into play too!
Have you talked to her about your concerns? She might very well understand exactly where you're coming from, and have some advice for you. I don't mean ask her if you can get out of the requirement, but something like "Mistress, I am used to coming frequently during the week, and I am concerned about x, y, and z...do you have any tips for how I might be able to follow your orders without being too uncomfortable?"
 
I have to agree, that's a lot to ask an 18 year old thats in college.

Still, your mental sexuality certainly puts you in a different category as the other college physically/hormone driven co-students. I know I was one. One things I can offer up is a pat on the back on your impressions. The depth the mind can provide towards things even other than sex is endless. Turn that towards sex and it becomes more than, "That girl is hot!"
 
lollll think about grandparents doing the dirty....that'll kill any "thoughts"
 
Hi Noctame

I know exactly how you feel. My Master and I have been in an LDR for months now and in between visits he would always demand a period of abstinence the week before I saw him again. Like you, he'd call and tease me, even have me touch myself or wear love eggs inside me but not to come. I found this very hard and first and I'm a little older than 18 but I quickly learned a few things.

Displeasing Master is a bad idea and will earn little or no sympathy
I wanted to prove I could do it
Everywhere I went I had this guilty secret making me wet
I couldn't possibly lie to him and masturbate anyway
If it hadn't been so bloody difficult I wouldn't have enjoyed the final release so damn much

That's what you're holding out for here, the reward, the moment she pushes you to the orgasm of your life and trust me, it will be. I would suggest taking sex off your radar as much as possible. Don't check out your classmates, don't watch porn, don't constantly fantasize, definitely don't touch yourself till your balls ache and then expect to get through it. You can squeeze the tip of your penis firmly to make an erection subside - albeit temporarily. Your mistress wants to control you from the inside out, to command your loyalty. She is teaching you that, from this point on, your dirty thoughts belong to her.

And she knows how exciting that knowledge is for you, the sadistic bitch :D

Best of luck :rose:
 
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