Hearts for AJ

i am sorry to hear of your loss. my prayers goes out to you and your family.
 
I haven't really spoken to you, AJ, but I just wanted to say I'm so sorry for your loss :kiss:
 
i'm so sorry for your loss aj :rose: take your time getting to where you need to be. know that there are plenty here who care about you. :heart:
 
I was extremely saddened to read this news. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
 
Feel free to lean on me AJ. My thoughts are with you and your family.
 
AJ, I'm sorry about your mom. I know it has been a journey. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in the time ahead. :rose:
 
We all know our good friend funluvinaj is going through a very hard time. As her LIT family, let's lift up her spirits by showing her how much we love her.

:heart::heart::heart::heart::heart:

We love you AJ!

Oh sweetie!!! Thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart for doing this... I came home to all of these well wishes and offers of sympathy and support and tears filled my eyes.

I really do consider so many at Lit to be my family - from those who are as close as brothers and sisters to the cousins you enjoy hanging with at a reunion... I am more myself here than anywhere else in my life.

I am hanging in there. I miss her so much... everyone... if your moms are still alive - please call them, email them, text them, hug them... tell them you love them. i have no regrets - we told each other ALL the time how much we loved each other. Her services are Sunday/Monday and all of this love and support will help hold me up.

I'm sorry I don't have the energy to respond to each and every poster right now but I will next week. To those of you I already call friend - you know I love you... to my acquaintances thank you for reaching out - may we get to know each other better... and to those of you who are strangers... thank you so much for touching my heart with your kindness.

Now go tell your moms you love them... and if you've lost your mom already then I now know the pain you feel. To think I'll never hear... "Hi honey, it's mom" again breaks my heart - save some silly voice mail she leaves you - I wish I had.
 
Oh sweetie!!! Thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart for doing this... I came home to all of these well wishes and offers of sympathy and support and tears filled my eyes.

I really do consider so many at Lit to be my family - from those who are as close as brothers and sisters to the cousins you enjoy hanging with at a reunion... I am more myself here than anywhere else in my life.

I am hanging in there. I miss her so much... everyone... if your moms are still alive - please call them, email them, text them, hug them... tell them you love them. i have no regrets - we told each other ALL the time how much we loved each other. Her services are Sunday/Monday and all of this love and support will help hold me up.

I'm sorry I don't have the energy to respond to each and every poster right now but I will next week. To those of you I already call friend - you know I love you... to my acquaintances thank you for reaching out - may we get to know each other better... and to those of you who are strangers... thank you so much for touching my heart with your kindness.

Now go tell your moms you love them... and if you've lost your mom already then I now know the pain you feel. To think I'll never hear... "Hi honey, it's mom" again breaks my heart - save some silly voice mail she leaves you - I wish I had.

*give AJ a hug bear hug!* We all love you, sweetie!
 
Grieving

Oh sweetie!!! Thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart for doing this... I came home to all of these well wishes and offers of sympathy and support and tears filled my eyes.

I really do consider so many at Lit to be my family - from those who are as close as brothers and sisters to the cousins you enjoy hanging with at a reunion... I am more myself here than anywhere else in my life.

I am hanging in there. I miss her so much... everyone... if your moms are still alive - please call them, email them, text them, hug them... tell them you love them. i have no regrets - we told each other ALL the time how much we loved each other. Her services are Sunday/Monday and all of this love and support will help hold me up.

I'm sorry I don't have the energy to respond to each and every poster right now but I will next week. To those of you I already call friend - you know I love you... to my acquaintances thank you for reaching out - may we get to know each other better... and to those of you who are strangers... thank you so much for touching my heart with your kindness.

Now go tell your moms you love them... and if you've lost your mom already then I now know the pain you feel. To think I'll never hear... "Hi honey, it's mom" again breaks my heart - save some silly voice mail she leaves you - I wish I had.

Today is the final visitation at the funeral home and tomorrow is the actual funeral. AJ is having a very rough time right now - lets have everyone send a bunch of good thoughts, good karma her way to help her in this time of sorrow. :heart::heart::heart::rose::rose::rose::kiss:
 
(((((((((((((((((((AJ)))))))))))))))))))))))) So sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. :heart:
 
Offering my warmest thoughts and prayers to you! I am so incredibly sorry for your loss!:rose:
 
You know that I am here for you. Having lost my mom not to long ago, I know how you feel... and it is a slow process. HUGS and KISSES!:rose:
 
i'm so sorry for your loss aj :kiss: i just found out tonight. i hope that you are taking the time you need to grieve in your own way. know that you have all the love and support here when you need it. :heart:
 
First and foremost to my dear sweet friend Papa - thank you. Thank you for not running from the discomfort that is around when someone is grieving. You have touched my heart in an everlasting way.

I'd also like to add a thank you to two other Lit friends - you know who you are... K & J - you did not post here but you contacted me ever day - via phone, texts, flowers, jokes, whatever you could think of that would lift my spirits. I felt your love envelope me and hold me when I could not hold myself. The two of you are amazing. Thank you.

DaemonofSin - thank you for extending your sympathy.

Frosty - Thank you sweet lady... anything? ;) It's just one day at a time, one foot in front of the other. Plenty of people get through worse than this - with the way I feel I can't imagine how.

Maggie - Thanks honey - I felt all of yours and everyone's thoughts with me so much.

Fred - Thank you ... :heart:

DrunknBarbarian (though i always think of you as Cowboy) Thanks for your warm words. Peace will come in time I'm sure.

Newbie - thanks doll... i am greatly humbled by the support shown here.

Likes - can't wait to be in those arms sweet pea. :kiss: Thank you for everything.

hdlynnette - so many memories - you are so right - they continually flood my mind - painful now, but will grow into comfort.

Drac - Thanks my friend - you and the Mrs. have been steadfast friends. So glad we found each other in this crazy place. :)

Suadela - thank you - that is so kind.

Mrs. H - thank you for listening that night... i hated to have to tell you that way - it was comforting to talk with you as always. Love you too.

Sensualdreamer - Thank you for taking the time to share these sentiments... the warmth in your eyes shines from your AV so I wasn't surprised.

BBB - LY - thanks for the continued ongoing support. You are wonderful.

Emmy - Thanks so much for being part of my family. Love you dear.

Border - Thank you sweetie - your sympathies accepted with an open heart.

Sober - Thanks sweet man - your words touch my heart.

Belle - thank you. in time it will all work out.

Mac - Thanks hon.

Kendra - Thank you - and for the special words you shared with me via IM - thank you so much - i will keep her alive in the boys.

Anita - thanks sweet lady - i am so blessed to have friends like you.

whambam - thank you my new friend - i will be ok - it was a shock - she'd been doing so much better.

Lake - thank you honey. good thoughts always.

Alabaster - Thank you so much - my heart is so full with everyone's thoughts and kindness.

Rox - Thank you - it's brought the family a bit closer for at least now.

saj420 - my loss is heaven's gain - thank you for the kindness you've shown me.

Daus - Thank you - your words have strength and knowing. I feel her with me so I know it is true. Thanks for the gorgeous roses. :)

Me - thanks hon - we've crossed paths here and there - next time I'll stop and say hi. thank you again.

AS2U - I lost Dad last May - as we were not very close and there were issues it was a much easier death to process. I was left saddened but nothing like the grief that weighs on me now. I know this will take lots of time.

Kat - thank you dear friend. She is at peace now.

Ani - Thank you so much - your words shot straight to my heart.

Rain - Thanks beautiful.

Northern - Thank you. Your kindness means the world.

Cinner - At a time like this it's impossible not to lean - i've always been a strong and fiercely independent woman but I simply could not stand alone.

CP - Thank you my dear, dear sweet friend. Thanks too to Mrs. Hairball... both of you have been so supportive through the journey the last couple months.

SweetMystery - Thank you.

Dave - Thanks honey - your support and kindness have not gone unnoticed or unappreciated. Thanks for the support.

Rich - Thank you so much - It was hardest to deal with telling my kids - so including my loved ones is so appropriate.

Julybaby - thanks beautiful lady. your kindness, along with so many from Lit has lifted me up.

Spenser - Thank you honey - and to PW as well - it's hard to believe it's just been under 2 weeks.
 
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