Have you ever . . .

[FurryFury]

Have you ever been walked in on at a truly inconvenient time?

Never, because I lock the doors but I've been interrupted at a truly inconvenient time more often than I can count! *gak*

Oh, wait . . . there was that time in a public pool. Yes!

Fury

 

[FurryFury]

Have you ever found yourself face down being really just screwed into the bed, had him flip you over on your back to play a bit differently and your brain just exploded in pain?

Fury

 

[Shankara20]

Have you ever said "I love you"
to the wrong person,
at the wrong time,
for the wrong reason?

 

[Salvor-Hardon]

Have you ever had a chacne to make all your wishes come true, but couldn't step forward to claim them?

 

[FurryFury]

Have you ever said "I love you"
to the wrong person,
at the wrong time,
for the wrong reason?

I don't think I have.

The wrong person? Sure.

The wrong time? I don't think so but possibly.

The wrong reason? No.

Fury

Have you ever had a chacne to make all your wishes come true, but couldn't step forward to claim them?

No, I can't say that I have. I really can't imagine it either.

Fury

 

[raven2]

Never, because I lock the doors but I've been interrupted at a truly inconvenient time more often than I can count! *gak*

Oh, wait . . . there was that time in a public pool. Yes!

Fury

Public pool? Have you ever told us that story?

 

[graceanne]

Public pool? Have you ever told us that story?

Pictures would be good, too. You know, for proof.

 

[raven2]

Pictures would be good, too. You know, for proof.

A picture is worth 1000 words. Less writing for Fury.

 

[graceanne]

A picture is worth 1000 words. Less writing for Fury.

Oh, true enough. We're just thinking of her, we don't want to tire her out.

She's so lucky to have friends like us.

 

[His_pita]

Have you ever laughed so hard whatever you were drinking came up your nose?

Yes to you graceanne and Fury's questions. I am so damn in love with my Dom right now that I'm crying all the time it seems.

 

[FurryFury]

Yes to you graceanne and Fury's questions. I am so damn in love with my Dom right now that I'm crying all the time it seems.

Aww! That's so wonderful!

*hugs*

Fury

 

[FurryFury]

Public pool? Have you ever told us that story?

I don't know, probably?

LOL!

Um, I was preggers and dating this really hot guy. He made the fortunate/unfortunate mention of how the last person he fucked and loved, they did it ALL sorts of places. Little Miss Insecure went a bit nuts after that, making sure we did it ALL sorts of places.

So one night I convinced him to sneak down to the pool in his complex about midnight. He was on night shift and I've always been a night owl.

We got busy, making waves, fucking away and then we heard some giggling. Oops!

Looking back we saw another couple. Fuckers! Probably came to do what we were doing and couldn't keep quiet to let us finish!

Joe Law, (my man) was ALL upset. He figured we'd get arrested or he'd get thrown out of his apartment. Nothing happened except we went back to his place to finish our recreation alone!

That's the story, there are No pictures! Thanks for trying to save me some trouble though. *L*

Fury

Wow, I'm cussing a lot. That just goes to show you what sort of a mood I'm in. I'm afraid I'm actually going to have to make a doctors appointment if this stuff keeps up. *grr*

 

[raven2]

I don't know, probably?

LOL!

Um, I was preggers and dating this really hot guy. He made the fortunate/unfortunate mention of how the last person he fucked and loved, they did it ALL sorts of places. Little Miss Insecure went a bit nuts after that, making sure we did it ALL sorts of places.

So one night I convinced him to sneak down to the pool in his complex about midnight. He was on night shift and I've always been a night owl.

We got busy, making waves, fucking away and then we heard some giggling. Oops!

Looking back we saw another couple. Fuckers! Probably came to do what we were doing and couldn't keep quiet to let us finish!

Joe Law, (my man) was ALL upset. He figured we'd get arrested or he'd get thrown out of his apartment. Nothing happened except we went back to his place to finish our recreation alone!

That's the story, there are No pictures! Thanks for trying to save me some trouble though. *L*

Fury

Wow, I'm cussing a lot. That just goes to show you what sort of a mood I'm in. I'm afraid I'm actually going to have to make a doctors appointment if this stuff keeps up. *grr*

Very interesting. Similar to a few interludes I have been part of. All were quite stimulating.

 

[ObsidianRose]

Cried because someone was unexpectedly nice to you?

Fury

Yes!!! I remember a time when I had gone so long without simple kindness that the first time someone touched me in a kindly manner I winced...it almost burned....hurt.

I'm not nearly as cynical now...but I still cry at unsolocited acts of kindness. Then again, I've always been a cryer. Totall wuss!

 

[FurryFury]

Have you ever been so tired of dealing with other people's feelings you could scream??

Fury

 

[Private_Label]

Have you ever been so happy you cried?

Yes. Um... Yes.

 

[Private_Label]

Have you ever laughed so hard whatever you were drinking came up your nose?

Yes, once. It was Mountain Dew. And just after eating some pretzels. Ouch! and YUCK!

 

[shy slave]

Cried because someone said something nice..? Yes that used to happen if people said a nice thing about the way I looked or dressed.
Followed my instincts regardless of others...? Oh, only my whole life. It drives my family crazy ROFL. I now make a living from being a psychic lol
Laughed so hard drink came down my nose...? Yes, on a first date some years ago, it was also the last date, as he never came back lol
Been walked in on at an inconvienent time...? Yes, when my children were very young i sent them outside to play as I had a new man to play with (I know it was wrong, but I still did it!), one son came running in to the room at precisely the wrong moment shouting 'Mum, mum can we have a choc biscuit?' My response was 'Yes, Yes' 'Oh Great' he said, 'We can have two!!'
I love you to the wrong person, at the wrong time, for the wrong reason...? Very recently. last yr was on phone to ex husband and had mentally dismissed him from my mind and was thinking about the next call I was going to make to Andante. As I said 'bye' to the ex, I said 'I love you' There was a short silence and he said in a small voice 'Umm are you sure' I laughed so much at the worry in his voice, in case I had actually meant it.

And finally, ever been so tired of other peoples feelings you could scream...? Going through it all the time at the moment. My mother has cried so much since my son died, it has caused me to feel unable to show any form of emotion in her presence. The strain of this has affected my physical health. I wish I could be a better person and see it as her way of coping, but deep down I see she uses it to manipulate situations she doesn't like and to manipulate people around her (Babiesmile, thats my bitchy comment )


Have you ever cried during orgasm?

 

[Private_Label]

Have you ever been walked in on at a truly inconvenient time?

Yes. I was naked and talking to my friend on IM, and playing with myself ... and my mother walked in at 2 am to ask me a question about our elderly dog, without knocking.

She kept trying to ask her question while I pushed her back out the door and told her it was not a good time and I would talk to her in the morning.

When I moved back home we had a rule about knocking before entering. I started locking my door after that.


What?



Oh you want to know about the talk... oh the usual. With Lots of crying and hugging.

 

[FurryFury]

Cried because someone said something nice..? Yes that used to happen if people said a nice thing about the way I looked or dressed.
Followed my instincts regardless of others...? Oh, only my whole life. It drives my family crazy ROFL. I now make a living from being a psychic lol
Laughed so hard drink came down my nose...? Yes, on a first date some years ago, it was also the last date, as he never came back lol
Been walked in on at an inconvienent time...? Yes, when my children were very young i sent them outside to play as I had a new man to play with (I know it was wrong, but I still did it!), one son came running in to the room at precisely the wrong moment shouting 'Mum, mum can we have a choc biscuit?' My response was 'Yes, Yes' 'Oh Great' he said, 'We can have two!!'
I love you to the wrong person, at the wrong time, for the wrong reason...? Very recently. last yr was on phone to ex husband and had mentally dismissed him from my mind and was thinking about the next call I was going to make to Andante. As I said 'bye' to the ex, I said 'I love you' There was a short silence and he said in a small voice 'Umm are you sure' I laughed so much at the worry in his voice, in case I had actually meant it.

And finally, ever been so tired of other peoples feelings you could scream...? Going through it all the time at the moment. My mother has cried so much since my son died, it has caused me to feel unable to show any form of emotion in her presence. The strain of this has affected my physical health. I wish I could be a better person and see it as her way of coping, but deep down I see she uses it to manipulate situations she doesn't like and to manipulate people around her (Babiesmile, thats my bitchy comment )


Have you ever cried during orgasm?

*hug* I had the same sort of reaction when everyone was flipping out because my Dad died. When could I feel my feelings? Why did I have to always worry about theirs??? It seriously pissed me off.

I have cried during orgasm. The first time I orgasmed in fact. I was crying and saying no when it happened. It shocked the shit outta me.

Fury

 

[Shankara20]

Have you ever been so tired of dealing with other people's feelings you could scream??

Fury

yes yes yes.

Years ago I started to see that I could not carry the weight of being responsible for my partners happiness. I can be kind and pleasant and loving, but I could not MAKE them happy. So I stopped working to make them happy (often at my own expense), I put that weight down and let then take that responsibility for themselves.

It was years later that I realized that was still carrying around responsibility to try to fix their misery. I was still taking responsibility for their unhappiness – if they were unhappy I saw it as my job to fix it, or be with them in their unhappiness. It was killing me.

Now I try the best as I can to be responsible for my feelings, and responsible for my actions. Outside of that – people are on their own.

.

 

[FurryFury]

yes yes yes.

Years ago I started to see that I could not carry the weight of being responsible for my partners happiness. I can be kind and pleasant and loving, but I could not MAKE them happy. So I stopped working to make them happy (often at my own expense), I put that weight down and let then take that responsibility for themselves.

It was years later that I realized that was still carrying around responsibility to try to fix their misery. I was still taking responsibility for their unhappiness – if they were unhappy I saw it as my job to fix it, or be with them in their unhappiness. It was killing me.

Now I try the best as I can to be responsible for my feelings, and responsible for my actions. Outside of that – people are on their own.

.

It's rough. Particularly when they are your kids.

Fury

 

[Shankara20]

It's rough. Particularly when they are your kids.

Fury

I did not do it for my kids as much as I did for my lovers. Interesting.

 

[FurryFury]

I did not do it for my kids as much as I did for my lovers. Interesting.

I'm trying to learn that I'm taking on too much for them. It's not easy to erase life long habits though.

It's bad enough when it's a lover, friend or other relative but with kids, everything is the end of the freaking world! LOL!

Fury

 

[FurryFury]

Have you ever felt guilty for something you did or did not do in a dream?

Where the hell is my dream interrupter? My dreams are trying to tell me something again. I miss you!

Fury