Have you ever had kidnapping/capture fantasies with a D/s theme?

[SimonBrooke]

I give up she's all yers simon.

<evil cackle> You bet she is!

 

[bridgeburner]

Kindergarten age.

I had a large rag doll that I didn't much like --- she seemed to simper --- and I actually ended up tearing her arm off pretending I was a home-invading robber who grabbed her and shook her while threatening her. I didn't really know any sex stuff that might happen, but I remember the feeling of pleasure in the menacing of a female by a man with evil intent.

At a church daycare, when we'd go down for a nap I'd always get a Kleenex to play with. I'd put it on my finger and think of it as a bride.....who ended up getting captured by a group of men who....well, it's kind of embarassing, but they wanted to make thimbles out of her nipples. Bizarre and horribly sadistic for a five year old. I'm lucky I didn't grow up to be a serial killer.

I loved to play capture games --- so long as I was the one captured. As I was usually playing with older boys, that wasn't hard to arrange. Nobody ever did anything, but I loved the whole of being captured and fought over and rescued and re-captured.

And that's enough true confessions for tonight!

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

Mine usually have a mind control/hypnosis component. I'm going for the Stockholm syndrome!

 

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Sooo.... assuming we haven't lost everyone with our "angel/ demon" and "I'm gonna get you" play, lets pose an adjunct request to the OP's question; describe some of your Kidnapping fantasies.

My early ones involved public exhibitionism, suplication, and humiliation (humiliation that would register as very mild around here I suspect). They generally started with falling down a trap door, (like the tubes in the second star wars movie) or else... essentially falling into a rabbit hole, where the rules are, well... backwards. Auctioning & harems featured prevalently as well.

Kinda tame, I know, but like I said, I started having these fantasies at a ludicrously young age.

mine always involve knives slicing through clothes and underwear (my bestest damaris knickers if I'm feeling very masochistic) but not cutting them off completely. I understand this is a significant part of traditional nawa shibari as well.

there is always a significant amount of bondage (because I fight like a bitch if the knife isn't on me) and then forced orgasms.

 

[SimonBrooke]

mine always involve knives slicing through clothes and underwear (my bestest damaris knickers if I'm feeling very masochistic) but not cutting them off completely. I understand this is a significant part of traditional nawa shibari as well.

there is always a significant amount of bondage (because I fight like a bitch if the knife isn't on me) and then forced orgasms.

This is pretty much exactly what I'm planning for a week hence (although she won't be wearing her best knickers and I shall cut all her clothing off her completely). She will probably fight like a bitch until I get her secured, and I intend to force orgasms - although probably not until I've got her into a private place.

 

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This is pretty much exactly what I'm planning for a week hence (although she won't be wearing her best knickers and I shall cut all her clothing off her completely). She will probably fight like a bitch until I get her secured, and I intend to force orgasms - although probably not until I've got her into a private place.

mine is fantasy though, hence the orgasms.

 

[SimonBrooke]

mine is fantasy though, hence the orgasms.

Fantasies can be realised, you know!

 

[SimonBrooke]

no, some fantasies are best left in the realm of make believe.

You're no fun, you know that?

 

[SimonBrooke]

Why thank you!

No fun here! In fact, that may be just the reason my wife married me. No fun at all. I don't recall off the top of my head, but it might even be in our marriage vows.

"To have and to hold, to never to have any fun with... "

I wonder how many people are frightened away from ever posting here by your style of play. That insistence that you're gonna really really for truly gonna make this happen next week, in the face of mulitple not-so-subtle hints.

You're confusing two separate threads.

OK, to be clear: Kybele I like and respect, and I hope we're friends. I've emailed her privately days ago to check she was OK with flirting. If I was pursuing her seriously I would not do it here.

I am pursuing someone very seriously, so seriously that I am going to take her down very soon in an agreed consensual-nonconsent scene, but that person is not Kybele.

 

[JMohegan]

Abduction with the expectation of violent resistance is high wire stuff, even if you know the person very well. To do this with someone you've never met before is pretty far out there on the risk scale.

Best of luck to you, Simon. Here's hoping things turn out well.

 

[SimonBrooke]

My appologies.

hmmm...

perhaps I shoulda mentioned that it was bugging me to Kybele first, (which her previous post clearly shows she was aware of), to see if this was all a game between you, or if you really were being half as creepy as I thought.

two seperate threads? Pretty sure I wasn't. I thought I based those observations on what I saw here.

In anycase, I generally make a policy of (almost) never deleting the body of a post. I feel I may have been a little out of line in chastizing you though, so I have done so. Delete your quotation (or not) as you see fit.

No, let the record stand; the rebuke was deserved, and if I've upset anyone it's worth them seeing this interchange between us.

My apologies, both to you and to any scandalised lurker.

 

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Fantasies can be realised, you know!

with me, that's why it's a fantasy.

My appologies.

hmmm...

perhaps I shoulda mentioned that it was bugging me to Kybele first, (which her previous post clearly shows she was aware of), to see if this was all a game between you, or if you really were being half as creepy as I thought.

two seperate threads? Pretty sure I wasn't. I thought I based those observations on what I saw here.

In anycase, I generally make a policy of (almost) never deleting the body of a post. I feel I may have been a little out of line in chastizing you though, so I have done so. Delete your quotation (or not) as you see fit.

he did, to check, and I'm a big girl. if you ever saw me in action on the GB you would know that i take a sadistic pleasure in humiliating and belittling foolish men who don't know the difference between funning and seriousness.

No, let the record stand; the rebuke was deserved, and if I've upset anyone it's worth them seeing this interchange between us.

My apologies, both to you and to any scandalised lurker.

I suppose it should be said that a less mature person than me might have taken you seriously, but despite your crappiness at flirting, you are improving and showing signs of humour is actually hot.

personally I blame the close proximity to sheep that you have as opposed to people

 

[SimonBrooke]

Abduction with the expectation of violent resistance is high wire stuff, even if you know the person very well. To do this with someone you've never met before is pretty far out there on the risk scale.

Best of luck to you, Simon. Here's hoping things turn out well.

Thanks. I hope my planning has been meticulous. It is, as you say, a dangerous game. Neither of us really know how she will react, but I've role-played the whole takedown sequence a number of times with a drama-teacher friend who happens to be about the same size, so I think I know where the risk areas in that are. Obviously, other parts of the game are dangerous in other ways, but once my target is on the ground and secured injury ceases to be a major risk. I'm pretty sure I can keep her from getting injured, not absolutely certain about myself, but that's a risk I take.

If I'm posting here this time next week you'll know I didn't get arrested. We've agreed we're going to write up a joint account which will possibly get posted sometime somewhere, but obviously she has veto. And bits of it will almost certainly end up heavily fictionalised in a story sometime.

 

[SimonBrooke]

i take a sadistic pleasure in humiliating and belittling foolish men who don't know the difference between funning and seriousness.

Alas! Alas! My hopes are wholly dashed. How shall I ever hold my head up again?

 

[thefishfryer]

http://i67.photobucket.com/albums/h284/fishfryer/Lit/ScandalisedLurker.jpg

 

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Thanks. I hope my planning has been meticulous. It is, as you say, a dangerous game. Neither of us really know how she will react, but I've role-played the whole takedown sequence a number of times with a drama-teacher friend who happens to be about the same size, so I think I know where the risk areas in that are. Obviously, other parts of the game are dangerous in other ways, but once my target is on the ground and secured injury ceases to be a major risk. I'm pretty sure I can keep her from getting injured, not absolutely certain about myself, but that's a risk I take.

If I'm posting here this time next week you'll know I didn't get arrested. We've agreed we're going to write up a joint account which will possibly get posted sometime somewhere, but obviously she has veto. And bits of it will almost certainly end up heavily fictionalised in a story sometime.

this is all so insanely hot. I do hope that some people may get an account a bit sooner than the crafted written up one!

Alas! Alas! My hopes are wholly dashed. How shall I ever hold my head up again?

shhhh!

http://i67.photobucket.com/albums/h284/fishfryer/Lit/ScandalisedLurker.jpg

begone you geebee lurker!

 

[thefishfryer]

begone you geebee lurker!

What back to the land where women are men, and men are alts?

But I have to hear the end of Simon's escapade.

 

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What back to the land where women are men, and men are alts?

But I have to hear the end of Simon's escapade.

shhh! I have some on here convinced I'm a chick!

 

[SimonBrooke]

this is all so insanely hot. I do hope that some people may get an account a bit sooner than the crafted written up one!

Tempted though I am to write the sort of response which would get Scandalised Lurkers frothing with self-righteous indignation, my deal with my plaything is that I won't prematurely kiss and tell. Not even for you, Kybele!

So I'll probably post something on Monday or Tuesday saying 'went well, didn't get arrested' - but for more than that you'll have to wait patiently.

 

[thefishfryer]

shhh! I have some on here convinced I'm a chick!

http://i67.photobucket.com/albums/h284/fishfryer/Emoticons/oops.gif

 

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Tempted though I am to write the sort of response which would get Scandalised Lurkers frothing with self-righteous indignation, my deal with my plaything is that I won't prematurely kiss and tell. Not even for you, Kybele!

So I'll probably post something on Monday or Tuesday saying 'went well, didn't get arrested' - but for more than that you'll have to wait patiently.

you don't have to give in detail details! just the general gist!

http://i67.photobucket.com/albums/h284/fishfryer/Emoticons/oops.gif

Too late!

 

[where]

well... so long as it makes no difference to me, and it generally doesn't, I tend to take people at their word on this sort of thing. After all, it makes no difference to me.

So, if you want to post pics and tell me you're a fat hairy troll, so be it; fat hairy troll you are.

Hell, if a few more people followed & abused that policy, this could be a considerably more fun place; where we could chat with unicorns and chupicabra, who also happen to be into BDSM.

I'm not a troll!

Just fat and hairy!

I wonder what kind of things a bdsm unicorn would be into.

 

[eroticspank]

Yes lots

I have lots of fantasies that involve kidnapping or capture and the all involve sex and a D/s theme. Like someone else said on here, what other kind is there?

In most cases my fantasies involve capture, (sexual control) rape, and then submission.

For example in one fantasy it involves a female burglar breaks in and instead of me capturing her, she fights and subdues me. She forces me to tell her where all my valuables are and then before she leaves decides to fuck me.

Afterward, she kisses me on the forehead and leaves. I can't report it to the police because I am too embarrassed to admit everything that happened, and there is no DNA evidence anyway.

ES

 

[eroticspank]

agree

[QUOTE
Other kinds of kidnapping fantasies would be the non-sexual, empowerment fantasies; where the kidnapper gets the crap kicked out of them and/ or killed, or (and I hope not too many of us entertain this second one), where the main character succeeds in a "normal" kidnapping, to whatever end their fantasy leads (which in that case, is probably the bulk of the fantasy).

Either way, I suspect non-D/s kidnapping fantasies aren't precisely usual fare on a BDSM board, so I supose a little tunnel vision is certainly to be forgiven.[/QUOTE]

Actually, I agree. And nicely put. I was just talking from my point of view but after reading what I said, it does sound a bit ignorant when said to the group.

Control is a big turn on for me and most of the time it is sexual control.

Looking at this again, I still see the same theme in capture or kidnapping of someone, taking control of them be it sexually or otherwise. They may be other themes, that is just what I see.

ES

 

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what ever they want. "Unicorn," and "Dominant into bondage, non-concensual piercing and blood drinking," are neither related in my book, nor mutually exclusive.

Someone pretending to be a unicorn on the otherhand (on a BDSM board no less), is probably into some degree of pony-play, whether they prefer to admit to it or not.

or they are projecting a bigger cock than they really have.


Do unicorns drink blood? I don't know much about the mythology of them.