have you ever been attracted to

[glamorilla]

members of the opposite sex?

 

[DarkLadyOfDeath]

I'm to mezmerized by latex 'n leather 'n hard bodies to give much of an intelligent answer at the moment... ::Oggles::

 

[Queersetti]

I love women.

I love the way they look and the way they talk and the way they smell.

I love to talk with them, and share with them, and snuggle and hug and kiss with them.

I have had, and continue to have, deep emotional relationships with women.

I've had sex with women and enjoyed it.

But my sexual orientation is gay. The sexual experiences with women did not come anywhere close to what I feel with a man.

But, "attracted" to women?

Oh yes, definitely.

 

[RandomInk]

I have been from time to time, usually between the times when I'm attracted to the same sex.

 

[oh21]

I'm weird.

I'm attracted to both, males and females and I’m not yet sure which is the dominate attraction or if there is one.

I do know that my feelings for each sex are very different.

In a woman I want someone who is hot and sexy but also someone who is emotionally supportive, intellectually stimulating, and someone who I think would be nice to settle down with and raise a family (call me old fashioned if you will).

When I look at a guy, I don't think of anything really but sex and someone who is fun to talk to.

 

[KisstheSky]

I'm bisexual so yes....but like I mentioned on a different thread, physical beauty varies between gender and between people...I don't have a 'type' I prefer....I'm attracted to the person inside. If they're gorgeous on the outside thats just a bonus

 

[Cleopatra]

Oh yes, definitely.

That explains a lot. I thought you were just being friendly.

 

[catastrophe]

I'm more attracted to the individual, not their gender... does that make sense?

 

[pollyjean]

I'm more attracted to the individual, not their gender... does that make sense?

Makes sense to me, that's how I feel also.

 

[glamorilla]

good answers...just kind of curious. i guess the question falls moot to bi~sexuals. i tend to see it as a generational thing among gay men if that makes sense. a lot of the older men i know were involved with women or were married in thier youths and came out at a later date. Most of my friends,guys my own age were much more aware of thier sexuality and preferances at a younger age.

 

[Rhys]

I am liking that av. Does that count?

 

[Angel]

good answers...just kind of curious. i guess the question falls moot to bi~sexuals. .

It does and it doesn't..

I may be bi, but I definitely tend to be more attracted to men, and as I've said before (awhile ago, so you most likely missed it ) I'm unable to picture myself in a relationship with a woman (I would be stupid to rule it out though). I have no idea why.

I don't deny the fact that there are women I'm attracted to, more so than some men but I also can't deny the fact that I need a man in my life more so than a woman.


I've only had actual feelings for one woman though, so mine is just mostly a sex thing. :/

 

[Queersetti]

good answers...just kind of curious. i guess the question falls moot to bi~sexuals. i tend to see it as a generational thing among gay men if that makes sense. a lot of the older men i know were involved with women or were married in thier youths and came out at a later date. Most of my friends,guys my own age were much more aware of thier sexuality and preferances at a younger age.

I don't know if I'd say the earlier generation was less aware, so much as it was that they (we) were more willing to resign ourselves to not being able to pursue our true desires.

 

[ithaqua]

There are women that I am deeply in love with. Women that I appreciate more than any man in my life.

I don't lust after women. Sexually attracted never, quite the opposite.

 

[Netzach]

The opposite sex of me would be a boy who likes to dress as a girl sometimes, is wired with a hard core case of girl brain but still presents as a boy day to day and doesn't really want to transition, but likes to feel girly.


So, yes, I am primarily attracted to the opposite sex.

 

[Etoile]

I love women.

I love the way they look and the way they talk and the way they smell.

I love to talk with them, and share with them, and snuggle and hug and kiss with them.

I have had, and continue to have, deep emotional relationships with women.

I've had sex with women and enjoyed it.

But my sexual orientation is gay. The sexual experiences with women did not come anywhere close to what I feel with a man.

But, "attracted" to women?

Oh yes, definitely.

That is really, really well-put. Thank you. I understand this completely and it echoes my sentiments well.

 

[Queersetti]

That is really, really well-put. Thank you. I understand this completely and it echoes my sentiments well.

Thank you, Etoile.

 

[LustiRusti]

members of the opposite sex?

Yes. I'm attracted to the same sex as well.


~Kenzie

 

[Never]

Once.
It was some random guy too.

 

[MzChrista]

I have no sexual attraction for guys but I think they are fun to play with, BDSM wise.

 

[Never]

Well, the title said attraction, that’s not necessarily sexual attraction.

 

[MzChrista]

Well, the title said attraction, that’s not necessarily sexual attraction.

Thats true.
Some people would say that if I play with a guy that its a sexual thing but it doesnt read that way to me.

 

[Guest]

I'm straight, but there have been a few women I've been attracted to...I've been hit on by women before, and I have to say I've been tempted to say yes...I mean, life's short...so why not experience all it has to offer?

 

[James G 5]

Thats true.
Some people would say that if I play with a guy that its a sexual thing but it doesnt read that way to me.

I've gotten a reaction like this when I engage in play with male bottoms.......when I play with female bottoms at play parties & such where there is no sex, it's just play....but when I play with males in the same circumstances I immediately get "What are you, gay or something?"
People seem to automatically assume there's a sexual context if I touch a male
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