Hate Fuck

[suburbgirl]

I've heard this term used before, and I honestly really didn't get how that's a thing until recently. The last couple of months it's kind of been my new fantasy. For guys, I'm sure it's fun to think about punishing or disciplining a girl you don't necessarily like but find attractive. I think there's a hotter subtext for a girl hate fucking a guy. I think it makes it much hotter that the lust part of her feelings were so strong that the female gave in and overlooked her dislike for the man, and now the man she dislikes has taken her in the most ultimate form. I'm sure this goes along with my desire to be controlled and sort of degraded while having sex, but maybe someone else can better put it in words why it's appealing (at least to me).

Anyways, I have never seen much talk about it on these kinds of boards and wondered what everyone else's thoughts are or if they feel similarly.

And yes, there is a person in my life who would be the ideal candidate, but no I won't do anything about that.

 

[itsstillme]

I can't explain it any better than you have, but I know exactly what you mean. One of my brother's friends is a complete misogynistic ass, but damn is he hot! We do nothing except butt heads when we're around each other. The fantasy of being dominated by him is very very arousing, but it can never happen. I'd have to move across the country because he'd hold it over me every chance he got.

 

[soflabbwlvr]

I've had some indifferent fucks, but never a true hate fuck. I am familiar with the concept, however. When I was in college, I roomed with three other guys. We were friendly with five nursing students, and got together frequently. One of the nurses was an absolute bitch. All of us guys hated her, and she despised us equally. That hatred broke down when we had house parties. Over the course of a year, all three of my housemates fucked her--one guy did it twice. The last time was typical--my buddy was screwing her on the couch when she turned around and asked if he was finished. "Not yet," he said. "Well, I am," she replied as she got up and got dressed. Like I said, the hatred was mutual.

 

[LauraWilling]

I have neve done anything like this, but many years ago when I was a working girl, I had a client who hired me a couple of times. Looking back, I think I was a surrogate for someone who he really was angry with maybe hated in the way he did me. He even warned me before hand that he got "excited" and used bad language. That was an understatement! He never really hurt me, but was always just on the edge of doing so, I thought.

 

[suburbgirl]

Well, the act for me wouldn't necessarily have to be violent or curse-filled. There would still be a lusty passion while doing it, but I would be doing it knowing that I'm letting an enemy of sorts do this to me. And the fact that he'll always have that over me adds some hotness to it.

 

[suburbgirl]

I guess it's a feeling of giving in to someone who bested you.

 

[guest06]

What if it was another woman fucking you, who just stole your boyfriend from you after you find out he's been cheating on you with her for ages while she was your best friend?

 

[suburbgirl]

Is the woman hot?

I've never encountered that, but that's kind of the sort of thing I'm talking about.

I guess in my mind, I'm getting hate fucked by a guy.

 

[lighterman75]

never done it, but i do know what you mean. couple of friends over the years , Ive fancied the pants off their girlfriends, but simply couldnt stand talking too them. always ultra polite, just to avoid upsetting my friend, but boy...wouldve jumped if they had said jump

 

[guest06]

Is the woman hot?

I've never encountered that, but that's kind of the sort of thing I'm talking about.

I guess in my mind, I'm getting hate fucked by a guy.

Yes, she's very hot, that's why he's dumped you for her

 

[Gr82tryit]

It's an interesting expression. With my ex right near the end we couldn't stand each other but we had those primal urges to fulfill and we used to fuck in the most violent and angry way.
I am a bit of an oral sub by nature so sometimes she would sit on my face and grind her pussy into me while grabbing my hair and just thrusting herself against my mouth. My tongue and lips would be knumb and sore. And when we would fuck I would just slam my cock into her as hard as I could smashing our pubic bones against each other until they were sore and my cock very raw. In my mind I was thinking take that you bitch. She would bite and scratch me and hit me but we kept on doing it.
Hate fuck does sound appropriate.
But if I ever need orgasm or masturbation material thinking back to her face fucking me and our violent punishing sex will always make me cum.