Has Your Attention Ever Wondered Around During Sex?

[juicylips]

My sister, brother and I were discussing this and she and I were talking about all the things that go through our minds sometimes. Grocery lists, next day's errands, did I forget to feed the fish, etc.

My brother became indignant and said that every woman he has fucked has thought of only him. My sis and I laughed uproariously.

Be honest. Does your mind stay on what is going on?

Or

Are you a wanderer?

Cassidy

 

[Emeraldtryst]

Well...this one time I overheard the television that was left on and then they went into the Food Saver infomercial whilst we were engaged in sweet lovin' anyway...I had to stifle a huge chuckle when the host decided to call the crisper drawer in the refridgerator the "limper drawer".

True stroy...at least she thought it was me having an orgasm and didn't notice the wicked smile.

 

[lovetoread]

I think leaving the TV on is really bad on the concentration.

Especially if you leave the TV on certain channels, such as Animal Planet when Steve Erwin is on.

 

[Emeraldtryst]

I think leaving the TV on is really bad on the concentration.

Especially if you leave the TV on certain channels, such as Animal Planet when Steve Erwin is on.

I can just hear it...

But those are very wicked thoughts.

 

[Lost Cause]

At times, if the sex is routine and boring, I often think of what needs to be done with my Pan. Have I checked the oil? How old are the spark plugs? When is this going to be over with?
Females don't hold the monopoly on faking enthusiasm.

 

[MissTaken]

My mind stays on task pretty well when I am into it.

However, I could always tell when job stress was getting to me. Those were the times when visions and faces of clients would flit through my head while my husb was fucking me.

Egads! Now THAT"S what I call not being able to leave your work at work!


Egads!

 

[lovetoread]

I can just hear it...

But those are very wicked thoughts.

Oh really what kind of thoughts,hmm?

 

[RedJ]

My thoughts wander...

...and I think about you. Is that bad?

RedJ

 

[celiaKitten]

Oh yeah,

One time I was thinking about what I had to do for work the next day. (I managed a candle store) And I remembered that we had a 80 box Christmas shipment coming in (a huge pain in the ass) So, I groaned and said "Awww shit!" and in an obviously 'I'm not thinking about sex' kind of tone.

Then I had to explain ..

 

[juicylips]

Re: My thoughts wander...

...and I think about you. Is that bad?

RedJ

Wondering thoughts about me are never bad!! Just make sure I know what they are.

Cassidy

 

[EnchantedBeauty]

If the sex is just routine I have a habit of wandering. Especially around the holidays. I tend to think about who I havent bought for yet, what I have to buy to cook for the holidays. But if the sex is real good I tend to keep my mind right where it needs to be!

 

[April]

Oh, yes, often. But I'm that way with everything. Can't keep my mind on one subject.

 

[Basia]

my guy can tell when my thoughs are wandering by the look on my face, and he always does something to get my attention back on the game. I don't know how he does it, but it really works.

 

[ShamelessFlirt]

that's why the wife's cut off

My decision to stop having sex with my wife is based on exactly this. She can start talking about what she wants to do the next day, what we need at the store. And in mid-thrust.

I've caught her actually checking for cobwebs while I was trying to get her off! And no, I'm not making that up or assuming. She flat out admitted it!

Now, my motivation is not so much self gratification as it is pleasing her. Under the assumption that if I do good, she'll want more. Not to mention one of the things that tuens me on most is knowing she's getting off as a direct result of what I'm doing.

OK, that has a lot to do with ego too but I have been told I'm good at what I do. Plus, she's made it like a challange stating "as far as sex goes, I can take it or leave it"

So after being made to feel degraded, I decided I'd rather not have sex with her. She makes it like she doesn't want to be there and I'm being selfish just getting myself off. I don't want to be acused of having her "service" me. I want her to want it!

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[Willing and Unsure]

my mind wanders on occasion.. and its only been when he's said something relating to something else (like he's not feeling well or something) or when i can tell something is on his mind.. i guess its pretty obvious (even though he doesnt know) cuz as he put it "i dry up completely" and i normally get extremely excited just from being in the same room as him and he knows it

 

[MrBates]

Nods, and Admits His Mind Wanders

I'm guilty of this too.....

But then again, my mind wanders constantly....whether I'm having sex, or not.

MrB

 

[Aphrodisiac]

Wandering .....

Not really ...
I guess the one thing that does run thru my mind during sex is if we locked the door & once he runs and checks .... we just fall back to what we were doing ... my mind is on him and the pleasure we are having right there and then.

 

[kotori]

Some times, sure. . .

and one time my partner and I were having fun, chatting sexily, and she could tell (or I warned) that I was getting close to orgasm, and she said, "Can't you think about baseball or something?" you know, like to slow me down. So I tried, but damn, there was the bat, and a head-first slide into third base. All in all, it just didn't help that much.

 

[goodgirl79]

My mind is usually on sex...and having a great time...if i'm with the right person. Once I was having some "i just need to fuck" sex with my ex boyfriend...he was on top and my head was next to his. I don't know why, but I turned my head toward his big screen tv and saw commercials...and busted out laughing. They were pretty funny. I don't think he appreciated that too much. Another time (with said person), I watched football. I don't do that with the man i'm seeing now, though..it's way too intense.

goodgirl

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

No lol

 

[Sabineteas]

Sex

Has Your Attention Ever Wondered Around During Sex?

Yep, enough said.

 

[HonestHands]

Be honest. Does your mind stay on what is going on?

Or

Are you a wanderer?

Cassidy

Why shouldn't it wander?
Sex can be intense. And sometimes languid and careless -- when it's just a part of all the rest of what you do in a day.
Sometimes, I like the wandering. Just to discover what random coherent thought springs up to my mind!!

 

[Agent Intrigue]

*stands up * yes i have wandered

..... but never too far from the SEX going on around me. THough one time i must admit i was seconds from nodding off.

NEVER NEVER be the bottom after staying up for 36 straight hours. She was riding me hard and fast and i almost faded under her. snapped to just in time and was scared stiff and awake for the rest.


Agent Intrigue

 

[Thumper]

REALLY!!!!????

Oh, yes, often. But I'm that way with everything. Can't keep my mind on one subject.

Sounds like a challenge.*wondering about how a womans mind wanders while the body is in orgasmic spasm*


See the thread:http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=53636

 

[luv2tvl69]

only when I am with someone I really dont want to be with.

I was abstinent for 8 years and had wanted to just go out and have sex. I met a guy I didnt know, it was the most horrible experience, he was very selfish, there was no foreplay, just fucking. I hated it. The whole time I was just wishing he would hurry up so I could leave. It was really only 1 of may 2 or 3 times I ever faked an orgasm or being turned on in my life. A couple times in my past I faked it when my b/f was in the mood and I really wasnt, but he was in a frisky mood.