Has anyone been "turned"

[saintcero]

Has anyone been "turned" gay or bi? That is, has anyone been forced or coerced into an otherwise undesired M2M sexual experience and then accepted M2M sex as an acceptable/desireable practice afterwards? For the most part, I am asking about "daily life" experiences outside of jail or prison.

 

[vizio]

There is no "turned" you either like sex with men or you don't. If you're forced and find the act repulsive chances are you won't care do it again. No matter how many times you were forced...IMHO

 

[UnderMyKilt]

There is no "turned" you either like sex with men or you don't. If you're forced and find the act repulsive chances are you won't care do it again. No matter how many times you were forced...IMHO

Exactly! Beyond that, and maybe it's just me, but I have a bit of a problem with "straight" men (and I've known a few) who claim to have a desire to be coerced, tied up, blindfolded or otherwise "forced" into having gay sex. It's as if they don't want to admit their true nature or to otherwise evade culpability for their desires and actions.

You either want it....or you don't !

 

[saintcero]

it's a big wide wonderful world

If human sexuality is considered as a bell shaped curve then there are some on one end that only want heterosexual experiences and those on the other that only desire homosexual experiences. Those that fit within the rest of the curve may have varying degrees of desire for same sex relations. Those with a lesser degree of same sex desire may have barriers built in [society, religion] that prevent them from thinking about or desiring same sex experiences. However, with a nudge, a push, a shove, restraints, threats or force, those barriers might be breeched. Once experienced and found pleasurable, a repeat experience might be taken. I am not ready to believe that sexual preference is black and white; either you are or are not. I think there is room for some gray or even some grey in the mix.

 

[Bathernaked2]

Not turned but persuaded

I got into to cock through chat room chatter, phone and camming. Then real. But one guy was persistent in trying to get me to bottom. Does that count? Did it recently with him after we had enjoyed each others company several times. He and i 69. Then another time he probed and teased my ass. Next time He asked if he could rim me! And later brought toys, which led to a very erotic bj with nice toy in my ass and then to my surprise, and it turned out delight, I let him top me recently. It was planned, not an ambush. And lost of fun for me as it turned out. When i first started enjoying gay eroticism i nver thought I’d ever bottom. But my lovers scheming patient plan worked! The hound! Lol

 

[interwebs]

i think sexuality is a lot more than just bi gay or straight and it is fluid but ether or you still need to want to do it. As i have know quite a few guys that have dabbled in gay sex some have thought about it a lot whilst some have been more on the fly with it but they all wanted to do it not forced

 

[suboots]

Exactly! Beyond that, and maybe it's just me, but I have a bit of a problem with "straight" men (and I've known a few) who claim to have a desire to be coerced, tied up, blindfolded or otherwise "forced" into having gay sex. It's as if they don't want to admit their true nature or to otherwise evade culpability for their desires and actions.

You either want it....or you don't !

That's a tricky one. Because if you are into BDSM then the tied and forced bit adds immeasurably to the eroticism. I have only ever topped males although I happily submit to females. But this isn't really anything to do with denying my desire it's more to do with the fact that I am a good top and those are always in demand. Bottoms are less so simply due to the numerical imbalance so finding a top can be harder. I often think it would be fun to submit to a guy but whether it will happen or not I don't know.

 

[Mqoi]

There is no "turned" you either like sex with men or you don't. If you're forced and find the act repulsive chances are you won't care do it again. No matter how many times you were forced...IMHO

Agree 100% I've always liked men so there was no "turning" here.

And if you're being forced, that's rape. I prefer willing partners and to be one. One rape attempt in my life was more than enough.

 

[Jerseyshore]

Agree 100% I've always liked men so there was no "turning" here.

And if you're being forced, that's rape. I prefer willing partners and to be one. One rape attempt in my life was more than enough.

Same here! I eventually found that I much preferred men to women and identified as gay. Nowadays there is less stress on lables and that is probably for the best.

 

[Mqoi]

Same here! I eventually found that I much preferred men to women and identified as gay. Nowadays there is less stress on lables and that is probably for the best.

I still identify as bi as I like women too, but my first experiences were with guys. I've had a couple of women try to turn me straight. lol

 

[Jerseyshore]

I still identify as bi as I like women too, but my first experiences were with guys. I've had a couple of women try to turn me straight. lol

LOL same here...just always felt more comfortable with a top that knows his business *s*

 

[coati]

At age 21 in my first experience, I was not "turned" by force, but I was definitely seduced into dropping all my prior homophobic conditioning and allowing myself to really get off with a guy who happened to be bisexual. It was definitely a seduction, but I could have chickened out and stopped the action at any point. To this day I still remember my inner conflict during that experience about having sex with a man, and I remember the exact point at which I dropped all my fears.

Many years later, I had a similar experience of being seduced beyond my prior boundaries, but this time it was with a big and powerful gay man. He wanted me to be more affectionate as I was getting him off with my hands, so he pulled me in real close and started kissing me. This level of affection wasn't something I was used to, but I once again dropped my fears and went with it. Lo and behold, I really enjoyed being held so close by such a big guy while I got him off. He was both powerful and vulnerable at the same time, and I felt very feminine in his embrace.

The closest I've been to being forced into anything was with a dominant bisexual female friend, who once instructed me strip in front of her and masturbate to completion while she studied me from a distance. I was very uncomfortable until I just gave up on caring what I looked like masturbating in front of a fully clothed woman who I did not know very well at that point. I started to feel some tingling in my balls. I ignored her stare long enough to get lost in the sensations and stroke myself to orgasm. Somehow that experience "turned" her, because she called me about a week later and asked me to come over and fuck her, at which time she became very submissive.

 

[jackbird]

I wasn't turned I wanted it. I been a cocksucker for 46 years.

 

[Iwantsomeplease]

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[Mqoi]

I was "coerced" once when hitchhiking by a guy who picked me up on the side of the highway and wanted a blowjob for the ride. He got his blowjob but he didn't know I was bi at that time. We ended up spending the night together in a motel and he carried me on down the road a few hundred more miles in the morning.