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I am writing a story and was wondering if anyone can specifically describe what getting a hard on feels like. Give me all the details you can, from it being soft, to growing firmer, thicker, longer, and fully erect, to rock hard.

Thanks.
 
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As his eyes adjusted to the dim lighting he could see her sprawled across the bed in all her naked splendor. His eyes widened as she slowly spread her legs exposing her glistening pussy in the flickering candlelight. The room grew warmer as his groin reacted to what his eyes were seeing. He glanced down at his limp penis and watched it twitch as his body reacted and sent hot blood into the shaft.
"I'm over here" came the husky voice from the bed.
He looked up to see her fingers sliding languidly over her labia and dipping into the hole that he knew was waiting for him. Shadows danced across his eyes as all his senses plunged downward. Like a slowly filled helium balloon the head of his cock rose off of his thigh and pointed toward the bed. His hands suddenly felt clammy and his clenched his fingers to warm the palms.
Her fingers spread her labia wider for him and he could see her pussy and her tight asshole winking invitingly at him.
His pounding heart joined the pleasurable throbbing that enveloped his rapidly rising cock. The shaft continued to lengthen and stiffen, growing hotter with each passing moment. Now the head was pointing toward the ceiling. Fully erect now, he could feel every pulse of blood surging into his organ. His balls dropped lower beneath the shaft as if making room for even more growth. With a final throb he felt the muscles tighten between his legs as he stepped toward the bed....
 
Thanks! That was a pretty good description and something along the lines of what I was looking for. Would you be able to tell me what it physically feels like when it begins getting hard and what it feels like when being stroked.

I knwo what it feels like when a clit is rubbed, but am wondering if it a similar feeling or soemthing different.

thanks.
 
How to describe the indescribable

Just as I would guess that it's hard for a woman to describe the feelings of a cock sliding in and out of her pussy I find that words are hard to find to give a female the right perspective.

If you're cold and you warm up and feel the blood rush into your hand that's a good start. When stroked, is it the same feeling as when a woman is stroking her clit. I have no idea.

It's certainly a unique feeling when being stroked than any other feeling. Heck, it feels different when I do it or my SO does it. If you stroke your clit or a male partner strokes your clit, is it the same?

As my hand slides up to the bottom of the head there is a jolt of sensation. Just as with my SO, the longer the buildup to orgasm, the better the end result. I want it to go on forever, whether it's a mouth or a hand, or a pussy or an ass. It's all good.

I hope to see some other responses to compare with....

Good luck.
 
This is a good question, I've always wondered it myself, especially when trying to put it into words for a story. If I could spend one day as a man I think I know what I'd spend it doing, haha.
 
From me there's nothing, to rock hard. There's no in between. And it feels like sin. Pure, unadulterated, evil sin.
 
I'm not sure if women realize how often a man gets an erection. I get them all day long, even at work. I bet some days I may have twenty erections. I work with a pretty hot girl and no matter how many times I see her my dick gets hard every time. At first it just starts to feel heavy. Then it starts to push against my pants. Then it starts its travel upwards and eventually rock hard. In these circumstances it is almost painful. It needs a release. I liken it to a divining rod looking for water. LOL. So if unsatified it is really rather unpleasant. Luckily, during the day there are other distractions and it gets soft quickly.
 
Getting a hardon can feel very different at different times. A morning hardon can be a physical reaction and not sexual at all. Yet if the night before was very hot the morning can bring thoughts of the pleasure you felt. Then your body gets a little more sensitive. Sometimes slight touches can bring waves of pleasure even if they are only rubbing your leg. Getting an erection can bring on more sexual awareness in the rest of your body. As the pleasure grows so does the erection. Stroking an erection makes your entire body feel pleasure. Different parts of the shaft and the balls feel more sensitive when fully erect. The area just under the head can bring a jolt as well as most of the head itself. Rubbing the head continuously can make you feel like you are going to pee. This usually makes you lubricate more but it can result in peeing. The sensation of stroking all of the hardon at different paces and focusing on different parts can bring a wave of pleasure. Focusing just under the head and stroking from the top of the head down to about mid shaft usually is the most sensitive for me. I am sure, like anything else, there are different opinions from different people. "Different strokes for different folks" I know very corny but it fit so I couldn't resist.
 
i once had a dream i had a prosthetic penis... or something? i don't know wtf.... it was a dream, it doesn't have to make sense, but i had this penis and i was urinating, and i could feel it coming out like extended from my body that i'm used to... i felt it coming out of the appendage! it was f-ing wierd, thinking about this dream is making it easier for me to try to imagine what it must be like to have a penis. i don't know if the thought having an extended appendage, along with the feeling of arousal can help you to try and imagine what it's like to have an erection? just trying to help, even if i am a wierdass :p
 
It starts with my balls. These ache and seem to humm. If you look at a guys balls closely you'll see they are constantly churning and moving around on their own. The feeling is amazing and there's no way they can be ignored !

It's really hard to describe what my erections feel like though. As my cock swells I'm aware of the skin being stretched and becoming taught. It's obviously uncomfortable if I've got clothes on. I'm very conscious of it feeling hard but how do I describe that ? It aches and needs touching, as though all the nerve ends are anticipating some action !

I'm going to think about this more and come back to you if I can describe this better.
 
SerchersUK said:
It starts with my balls. These ache and seem to humm. If you look at a guys balls closely you'll see they are constantly churning and moving around on their own. The feeling is amazing and there's no way they can be ignored !

It's really hard to describe what my erections feel like though. As my cock swells I'm aware of the skin being stretched and becoming taught. It's obviously uncomfortable if I've got clothes on. I'm very conscious of it feeling hard but how do I describe that ? It aches and needs touching, as though all the nerve ends are anticipating some action !

I'm going to think about this more and come back to you if I can describe this better.

You're right....I didn't think of that before but my dick does just ache to be touched. Unfortunately touching it myself, while feeling good, really doesn't cut it. A girls hand wrapping itself around my cock feels sooooo good that it feels like it wants to explode. Of course best of all is when she takes it into her mouth. I'm sorry girls but what an erection feels like is a lot harder to explain than I would have thought!
 
What does an erection feel like? Well at first, it feels like falling. That free-fall feeling that you get on a roller coaster when you just start to head downward after the peak. The pit of your stomach rises to your throat as your cock begins to free-fall and defy the will of gravity.

But that is only for a few heartbeats. Then the warmth and the buzzing in the shaft begin. Like a million flies are swarming around the length and breadth of your tool, making the skin crawl and squirm. And you can feel the blood draining from all of your other organs to converge at the forefront of the action.

Next come the stretching and the pressure. You can feel the shaft elongating, and the skin peeling back from the head. The pubic hairs at the base begin to untangle. The skin of the shaft becomes taut, stretched, strained until it is paper thin. The pressure builds, and you imagine the Alien about to pop out of your chest, but in this case it wants to come through your crotch. The pressure builds, and it is both deliciously pleasurable and frighteningly dangerous all at the same time.

Finally, you begin to feel as if you are walking around with a loaded gun in your hands, with a hair trigger, and a frantic need to fire. You WANT to shoot, but you don't want to waste your one and only bullet. You crave to find the perfect target, the ideal bullseye, at which to aim your arrow of passion. You need to expel that projectile and feel the recoil, which you know will cause ripples of physical release throughout your entire body, leaving your muzzle smoking and your chamber empty but satisfied.

Hope that helps!......Carney
 
When erect it seems to beckon to be touched. I become far more "aware" of it. Weird to say, its almost like I can feel the outside of it (I mean not touching it I can feel the outside skin tingling). When erect I am far more concious of my scrotum as well, the way the skin might be laying against my legs or chair or whatever.

Feeling that first drop of precum leaking out the tip is great, feeling its wetness right on the tip. its almost like confirmation to the world that I'm aroused.
 
I'd love to hear more from more of you. It's not only an incredible turn on, it's fantastic for writing purposes.
 
Well in a way it feels like it swells. You can kind of feel it stretching out and bulging.

It is a little bit like this - but with absolutely no pain - imagine you just closed a door on you finger. It swells up, blood starts going there. You can feel it throbbing and growing - OK yes in length, but also in width, more so in width. As it swells it becomes much more sensitive to touch. I don't want this to sound weird, but it is the closest example to describe the throbbing. But of course no pain and the sensations are good.

Mentally I agree with some of the points above, it seems to be yearning for touch and stimulation. Sometimes it can twitch just a bit, I think that is the brain telling the muscles to tense up.

Has a life of its own really. I wish I could feel how a woman felt.
 
Another question if the guys don't mind. I've noticed that if you wear boxers, when you get hard your cock seems to grow head down along your leg. Is that uncomfortable? Let's say you're sitting in a chair and you start getting hard and it's growing down. Do you want to free it so it stands upright? If you can't, does it hurt or feel different in any particular way?
 
Sometimes you feel your clothes pulling against it first, sometimes it feels really tight. If you're very aroused and haven't cum for a while, it can be accompanied by a wonderful surge of precum...
 
tanyachrs said:
Another question if the guys don't mind. I've noticed that if you wear boxers, when you get hard your cock seems to grow head down along your leg. Is that uncomfortable? Let's say you're sitting in a chair and you start getting hard and it's growing down. Do you want to free it so it stands upright? If you can't, does it hurt or feel different in any particular way?
It all depends on how tight the clothing as to how that feels. In actual fact, it running down your leg like that can be uncomfortable even just normally when soft. Interestingly (maybe) when it is erect against tighter clothing, it can add to the anticipation of sex - yes it wants to get out and be freed (the longer it goes on the more it needs it), and it seems to be straining, as you move sometimes you get a small amount of sensation as the clothing provides a bit of stimulation.

But yes, it is uncomfortable, though not painful.

At the end of the day Willie just wants to get to final destination, and is champing at the bit to get out his garage and drive down the tunnel.
 
I don't wear boxers but sometimes my dick get trapped down my leg as it's getting hard and I find it very uncomfortable. It usually happens when I'm standing talking to a girl I find attractive and
I'm getting a hard on looking at her . Frustrating because I want to reach down there and untrap the guy but that would be pretty obvious.
 
For the guys that want to know what a girl feels like -
I think girls pretty much have the same reaction as guys, except for the tightness, and the lengthening. Mostly when becoming aroused my pussy begins to tingle. This also can happen randomy in the middle of the day like it does for guys. This tingling sometimes makes me flex my PC muscles, which turns me on even more by giving it a bit of stimulation. When I get horny the need to touch it is overwhelming and the instant I place a finger on my clit the tingling stops, but that intense feeling of arousal only heightens.
 
I mentioned in a previous post about catching a girl playing with herself in her car while waiting at a stop light...one of the most erotic things I've ever seen... especially since it was out in public. Somehow I don't think women would have the same reaction to a man playing with himself. Why is that?
 
No, no, no. No thread drift. More talk about hard-ons, please.

I'd find watching a guy play with himself a turn on if it was the right guy. I assume the girl you caught was young and cute. If some guy was jerking off in public he'd probably be old and creepy - not so hot.

But a nice young hard body stroking and telling me how it felt - that's hot. I'm writing that story now. :) So you-all keep telling me how it feels. Please!
 
I personally love watching my fiancee stroke himself into a frenzy, but some strange man in public somehow is not such a turn on. I think it's the fact that it is in public, and usually people who do it are not the people you have fantasies about.
It's also probably one of those double standards. A girl masturbting in public is hot, while knowledge of her going to the bathroom is something you just don't want to hear about. A guy going to the bathroom is fine, but a guy masturbating on a subway is pretty gross.
I once masturbated in a fitting room. Couldn't help it. My fiancee finds this really erotic, but I'm sure some would not feel that way.

Anyway, back to the original thread though, I need some more information for my story. If girls want to reply on what they feel like I would appreciate that too.
 
bustier said:
For the guys that want to know what a girl feels like -
I think girls pretty much have the same reaction as guys, except for the tightness, and the lengthening. Mostly when becoming aroused my pussy begins to tingle. This also can happen randomy in the middle of the day like it does for guys. This tingling sometimes makes me flex my PC muscles, which turns me on even more by giving it a bit of stimulation. When I get horny the need to touch it is overwhelming and the instant I place a finger on my clit the tingling stops, but that intense feeling of arousal only heightens.
There is never any tingling. Not for me anyway.
 
There is never any tingling. Not for me anyway.

What do you feel then that let's you know that you are aroused? What changes? You never get any type of feeling from your clit....kind of like a quick jolt, or a quick buzz from a vibrator?
 
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